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Jul 3, 2011 7:47 AM CST Being Played
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
faded_dino: We have all been through it and it sucks, but I have to tell you there is more to my story, so here goes...
Many of you know that I am exploring my Native American Heritage. I have discovered some things that I have looked for most of my life.
I even found someone that when I looked in his eyes, I saw something ancient. I saw a person that I had lost a very long time ago.

But.....I also knew that if either one of us turned away, it would be lost forever. We had a chance to fix what was torn away.
That will never happen now. He ran and not only did he run, but he had the balls to write me and tell me(as someone else) that he was killed in a head on collision on the way to work. I am no fool and I am far from stupid.



Use greater caution...the lurkers are lurking


Hi C!!wave Well, now I know why you didn't show up at Dairy Queen yesterday!!...The guy is an idiot, I feel bad for you, but you are lucky you found out early!!!...Hang in there!mumbling


hug comfort hug
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Jul 3, 2011 8:33 AM CST Being Played
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
leigh2154: Hi C!! Well, now I know why you didn't show up at Dairy Queen yesterday!!...The guy is an idiot, I feel bad for you, but you are lucky you found out early!!!...Hang in there!

Darlin' I was there on Friday afternoon. We must have crossed days....we'll try again.....
As for him, well, I am okay and well, it will catchup to him....wine
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Jul 3, 2011 9:20 AM CST Being Played
shivers
shiversshiversMeath, Ireland1 Posts
how sad i feel your pain what kind of man if you can call him that would stoop so low to write something so morbid as to say he was killed disgusting
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Jul 3, 2011 9:23 AM CST Being Played
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
In response to: We have all been through it and it sucks, but I have to tell you there is more to my story, so here goes...
Many of you know that I am exploring my Native American Heritage. I have discovered some things that I have looked for most of my life.
I even found someone that when I looked in his eyes, I saw something ancient. I saw a person that I had lost a very long time ago.

But.....I also knew that if either one of us turned away, it would be lost forever. We had a chance to fix what was torn away.
That will never happen now. He ran and not only did he run, but he had the balls to write me and tell me(as someone else) that he was killed in a head on collision on the way to work. I am no fool and I am far from stupid.



Use greater caution...the lurkers are lurking


There are some very sorry pieces of work roaming around....what an arsehole he is! Better to find out sooner rather than later sad flower teddybear bouquet
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Jul 3, 2011 9:23 AM CST Being Played
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
faded_dino: We have all been through it and it sucks, but I have to tell you there is more to my story, so here goes...
Many of you know that I am exploring my Native American Heritage. I have discovered some things that I have looked for most of my life.
I even found someone that when I looked in his eyes, I saw something ancient. I saw a person that I had lost a very long time ago.

But.....I also knew that if either one of us turned away, it would be lost forever. We had a chance to fix what was torn away.
That will never happen now. He ran and not only did he run, but he had the balls to write me and tell me(as someone else) that he was killed in a head on collision on the way to work. I am no fool and I am far from stupid.



Use greater caution...the lurkers are lurking


sad flower
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Jul 3, 2011 9:33 AM CST Being Played
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
wave sad flower sad flower
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Jul 3, 2011 10:21 AM CST Being Played
mitsos
mitsosmitsoslarnaca,famagusta, Nicosia Cyprus17 Threads 801 Posts
Sorry to hear what idiots walk among us FD,
his loss not yours
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Jul 3, 2011 10:28 AM CST Being Played
sorry to hear thatcomfort
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Jul 3, 2011 10:32 AM CST Being Played
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Thank you Bobanwine
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Jul 3, 2011 11:35 AM CST Being Played
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
YesWho: So sorry to hear what happen. Why are some people real a holes. You are a nice woman and you deserve much better.


Thanx for your kind words YW hug teddybear

Some people are nasty pieces of work... I have to admit I learnt a very valuable lesson from that a hole... I knew something was a miss but I ignored the red flags... it's not something you expect others to lie about but it happens... he got his own back though cuz I had him investigated and put on the intelligence report @ the airport... turned out he moved to another state cuz he was @ high risk of getting caught... I was informed that he was under surveillance for drug trafficking. doh doh

Thank heavens that was long ago and left in the past... could have turned ugly to say the least!! uh oh uh oh hole
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Jul 3, 2011 11:41 AM CST Being Played
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
faded_dino: Darlin' I was there on Friday afternoon. We must have crossed days....we'll try again.....
As for him, well, I am okay and well, it will catchup to him....


Absolutely C!....I am anxious to meet you!!...phone is not enough!...my life (parents) gets hectic at times but we'll get it together...promise!teddybear
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Jul 3, 2011 12:04 PM CST Being Played
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
mitsos: Sorry to hear what idiots walk among us FD,
his loss not yours
thumbs up
Maybe I am more than he could handle and that's why he ran, but to say he was killed in a wreck...give me a break!doh
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Jul 4, 2011 1:43 PM CST Being Played
Wow_Factor
Wow_FactorWow_FactorLondon, Greater London, England UK45 Threads 3,698 Posts
faded_dino: Maybe I am more than he could handle and that's why he ran, but to say he was killed in a wreck...give me a break!


I am so sorry FD, you deserve so much better and that was cowardice of the highest order. You know you have many friends on CS, and I am sure in time things will get easier. We have all been through various upsets in love - and it takes a bit of time to get over it and soon you may even forget what his name was. I know I have trouble remembering the names of guys with whom our relationships fell flat.
teddybear
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Jul 5, 2011 6:20 AM CST Being Played
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Wow_Factor: I am so sorry FD, you deserve so much better and that was cowardice of the highest order. You know you have many friends on CS, and I am sure in time things will get easier. We have all been through various upsets in love - and it takes a bit of time to get over it and soon you may even forget what his name was. I know I have trouble remembering the names of guys with whom our relationships fell flat.
thank you, Darlin'....I actually think it's quit funny, now....that he claimed to be someone else to tell me that he died. A couple of my neighbors thinks he might show up today as he promised, last friday, but HA...I got news for him....I have already excepted 3 dates for this week....Let him show up....doh rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 5, 2011 7:57 PM CST Being Played
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
faded_dino: We have all been through it and it sucks, but I have to tell you there is more to my story, so here goes...
Many of you know that I am exploring my Native American Heritage. I have discovered some things that I have looked for most of my life.
I even found someone that when I looked in his eyes, I saw something ancient. I saw a person that I had lost a very long time ago.

But.....I also knew that if either one of us turned away, it would be lost forever. We had a chance to fix what was torn away.
That will never happen now. He ran and not only did he run, but he had the balls to write me and tell me(as someone else) that he was killed in a head on collision on the way to work. I am no fool and I am far from stupid.



Use greater caution...the lurkers are lurking


infatuation can be a cruel mistress and we look into things much more deeper than they are.

connections are not immediate like in the movies. They take time to gain trust, understanding and truth.

Go slow in any relationship; it takes time. good luck.
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