people's dark sides ( Archived) (71)

Jul 19, 2011 12:49 AM CST people's dark sides
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
I was wondering.

I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves.
they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.

but is that realistic?
we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.

what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?
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Jul 19, 2011 12:53 AM CST people's dark sides
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
carenza: I was wondering.

I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves.
they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.

but is that realistic?
we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.

what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?


Well.......Maybe if she likes to punish with golden showers and a whip ! grin thumbs up
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Jul 19, 2011 1:06 AM CST people's dark sides
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
carenza: I was wondering.

I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves.
they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.

but is that realistic?
we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.

what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?


hmmm Hmmmmm Maybe the same bad habits that I have could work..... confused

THAT'S all information that will be disclosed grin
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Jul 19, 2011 1:10 AM CST people's dark sides
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
yabbadabbadont: Hmmmmm Maybe the same bad habits that I have could work.....

THAT'S all information that will be disclosed


Bad habits its include stalking other people grin
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Jul 19, 2011 1:20 AM CST people's dark sides
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
carenza: what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?


hi, carenza wave

there is no one negative trait that can be acceptable (or inacceptable) for me...

i mean, i never consider a person "divided" in traits...and weighten them

this is why i don't have any shopping list, in positive or negative

it is always the way those features are combined within his personality that attracts me...

which can also mean that i can accept the same trait in one person (because of its particular combination with other traits) but not in another person...

it is always the "whole package" that counts... grin
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Jul 19, 2011 1:21 AM CST people's dark sides
Elmorya
ElmoryaElmoryaMidrand, Gauteng South Africa5 Threads 484 Posts
manroe23: Bad habits its include stalking other people


wave Ooooh! Stalk me! Stalk me!

Hope you can swear R ? devil
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Jul 19, 2011 1:22 AM CST people's dark sides
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
manroe23: Bad habits its include stalking other people


laugh Heya Manroe wave

It's not really one of mine laugh

Mine are a bit more simple than that.... smoking
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Jul 19, 2011 1:22 AM CST people's dark sides
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
Elmorya: Ooooh! Stalk me! Stalk me!

Hope you can swear R ?


Oh my , you want me to stalk you laugh wave
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Jul 19, 2011 1:26 AM CST people's dark sides
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
yabbadabbadont: Heya Manroe

It's not really one of mine

Mine are a bit more simple than that....


Hmm don't believe that snooty laugh wave
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Jul 19, 2011 3:37 AM CST people's dark sides
54xmax
54xmax54xmaxDublin, Ireland32 Threads 5 Polls 1,712 Posts
carenza: I was wondering.

I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves.
they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.

but is that realistic?
we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.

what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?


I call those profiles

Shopping lists - - - many of the profiles are written like horoscopes, where traits are negating them selves - - - - Either you are on or the other you can't be both . . . . . My profile says nothing about me - - - - If one will want to get to know me, then one will ask - - - When I am reading fairy tales of perfection in profiles, I noticed the more perfect the person sounds - - - often more complexes, and issues that person has - - and is searching in others what it is lacking it self in them selves, presenting the image of who they want to be, rather of the truth of who they are - - - - One nice indicator is also - - - often - - - when I read the lists what is put first on the lists, shows priorities - - - what makes me laugh is

I am funny, cute, good-humoured, easy going - - - According to who? Funny, sense of humour, you might have it ok . . . but it doesn't mean that it is the same as mine - - - -

Cute: - - -again according to who, what is cute for one person is average to another - - - I read profiles, but mostly I simply make a pass, cos honestly, very rarely any profile really makes me interested in a person - - - - They are often simply copy paste of other profiles, with added personal touch I find completely empty profiles more honest then where there is allot to read - - - What is there to talk about if "I find out everything about you n the profile" ( That often proves to be misinformation anyway - - - People seeking for perfection in an imperfect world - - - and when I sometimes challenged what is said in the profile I don't get the answer anyway - - - That to me is an answer in it self wine - - - -
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Jul 19, 2011 3:39 AM CST people's dark sides
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
No dark side accepted! He must be as bright as light, just like myself.grin
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Jul 19, 2011 4:57 AM CST people's dark sides
manOfewwords
manOfewwordsmanOfewwordsLongview, Texas USA30 Threads 756 Posts
vyoleta: No dark side accepted! He must be as bright as light, just like myself.
how about a dim light lightbulb
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Jul 19, 2011 5:02 AM CST people's dark sides
LuvinHavinFun
LuvinHavinFunLuvinHavinFunMelbourne, Victoria Australia10 Threads 407 Posts
fu** with sum1 i luv or care about..
hmmm very mad many ways to skin a cat!
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Jul 19, 2011 6:59 AM CST people's dark sides
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
In response to: I was wondering.

I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves.
they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.

but is that realistic?
we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.

what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?


I a great believer in that we never know someone till we live with them..wow grin
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Jul 19, 2011 7:13 AM CST people's dark sides
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
carenza: I was wondering.

I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves.
they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.

but is that realistic?
we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.

what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?


Hello Carenza...No "shopping" list for me...after the initial attraction/chemistry, it's all about personalities...No one is perfect...sometimes the "good" outweighs the "bad"...sometimes it doesn't..
dunno

wave
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Jul 19, 2011 7:46 AM CST people's dark sides
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
I couldn't tolerate any partners dark sides as I've enough dark sides of my own for the both of us uh oh

At least I'm honest....
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Jul 19, 2011 7:50 AM CST people's dark sides
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
carenza: I was wondering.

I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves.
they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.

but is that realistic?
we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.

what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?
my eyes are hazel/green in good mood,blue in bad mood.
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Jul 19, 2011 7:57 AM CST people's dark sides
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
vyoleta: No dark side accepted! He must be as bright as light, just like myself.
Conseiteddunno
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Jul 19, 2011 7:59 AM CST people's dark sides
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Zellarrone1: I couldn't tolerate any partners dark sides as I've enough dark sides of my own for the both of us

At least I'm honest....


Hey you, quit your shadow boxing missus .....boxing

and come in to the light ..... lightbulb daisy wave
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Jul 19, 2011 8:02 AM CST people's dark sides
yabbadabbadont: Get a puppy
thumbs up good one (and he deserved it too)rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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