carenzaOPnear the sea, South Holland Netherlands3,113 posts
I was wondering.
I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves. they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.
but is that realistic? we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.
what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?
I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves. they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.
but is that realistic? we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.
what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?
Well.......Maybe if she likes to punish with golden showers and a whip !
yabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand1,692 posts
carenza: I was wondering.
I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves. they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.
but is that realistic? we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.
what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?
Hmmmmm Maybe the same bad habits that I have could work.....
carenza: what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?
hi, carenza
there is no one negative trait that can be acceptable (or inacceptable) for me...
i mean, i never consider a person "divided" in traits...and weighten them
this is why i don't have any shopping list, in positive or negative
it is always the way those features are combined within his personality that attracts me...
which can also mean that i can accept the same trait in one person (because of its particular combination with other traits) but not in another person...
I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves. they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.
but is that realistic? we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.
what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?
I call those profiles
Shopping lists - - - many of the profiles are written like horoscopes, where traits are negating them selves - - - - Either you are on or the other you can't be both . . . . . My profile says nothing about me - - - - If one will want to get to know me, then one will ask - - - When I am reading fairy tales of perfection in profiles, I noticed the more perfect the person sounds - - - often more complexes, and issues that person has - - and is searching in others what it is lacking it self in them selves, presenting the image of who they want to be, rather of the truth of who they are - - - - One nice indicator is also - - - often - - - when I read the lists what is put first on the lists, shows priorities - - - what makes me laugh is
I am funny, cute, good-humoured, easy going - - - According to who? Funny, sense of humour, you might have it ok . . . but it doesn't mean that it is the same as mine - - - -
Cute: - - -again according to who, what is cute for one person is average to another - - - I read profiles, but mostly I simply make a pass, cos honestly, very rarely any profile really makes me interested in a person - - - - They are often simply copy paste of other profiles, with added personal touch I find completely empty profiles more honest then where there is allot to read - - - What is there to talk about if "I find out everything about you n the profile" ( That often proves to be misinformation anyway - - - People seeking for perfection in an imperfect world - - - and when I sometimes challenged what is said in the profile I don't get the answer anyway - - - That to me is an answer in it self - - - -
I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves. they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.
but is that realistic? we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.
what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?
I a great believer in that we never know someone till we live with them..
I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves. they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.
but is that realistic? we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.
what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?
Hello Carenza...No "shopping" list for me...after the initial attraction/chemistry, it's all about personalities...No one is perfect...sometimes the "good" outweighs the "bad"...sometimes it doesn't..
I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves. they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.
but is that realistic? we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.
what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?
my eyes are hazel/green in good mood,blue in bad mood.
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I went through some profiles on CS and I noticed so many people use similar words to describe their dream partner and themselves.
they all put emphasis on good character traits they seek in a partner.
but is that realistic?
we all know that people have good AND bad sides to them.
what negative character traits would be acceptable for you when you get to know them better and learn about their dark side?