vyoletaOPArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".
I have no idea, just asking.
You can't make anyone love you, you can only make yourself lovable.
daisy333Sydney, New South Wales Australia514 posts
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".
I have no idea, just asking.
Well, you can try anything. You can be where they are, you can bombard them with phone calls and gifts, you can write letters. Some people would call that stalking though lol.
I have a theory that it is not impossible to fall in love with someone - anyone - if you spend enough time with them, focussing on what you like about them as opposed to what you don't.
How to make them love you back? I'm sure 90 million Justin Bieber fans would love the answer to that one.
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".
I have no idea, just asking.
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vyoletaOPArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
daisy333: Well, you can try anything. You can be where they are, you can bombard them with phone calls and gifts, you can write letters. Some people would call that stalking though lol.
I have a theory that it is not impossible to fall in love with someone - anyone - if you spend enough time with them, focussing on what you like about them as opposed to what you don't.
How to make them love you back? I'm sure 90 million Justin Bieber fans would love the answer to that one.
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".
I have no idea, just asking.
Sometimes you hear about married couples where the guy pursued the woman who wasn't remotely interested in the first instance.
He kept on, asking her out on dates, buying her flowers and pretty little things, and eventually she gave in, went out with him, and discovered that he was just what she wanted all along.
vyoletaOPArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
serene56: Sometimes you hear about married couples where the guy pursued the woman who wasn't remotely interested in the first instance.
He kept on, asking her out on dates, buying her flowers and pretty little things, and eventually she gave in, went out with him, and discovered that he was just what she wanted all along.
Did he make her fall in love with him
Would like to think so
Quite so, serene. But it seems when a guy is persisten in his courtship that it is not the same as when a girl is persistent in hers. Can a woman court a man?
vyoleta: Quite so, serene. But it seems when a guy is persisten in his courtship that it is not the same as when a girl is persistent in hers. Can a woman court a man?
I think men are taught they need to do the running and when a woman runs after a man it is often looked upon as desperate or needy. I'm sure that by doing small thoughtful things for this man he would begin to notice and think about you as a caring person. Obviously if its been stated he is not attracted, your the wrong age etc etc you can't hold a gun at his head an make him declare love for you. (well you could but it wouldn't be a nice way to go about things)
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I have no idea, just asking.