Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me" ( Archived) (42)

Aug 26, 2011 3:50 PM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".

I have no idea, just asking.confused
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Aug 26, 2011 3:52 PM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
grizzwald
grizzwaldgrizzwaldalexandra bay, New York USA12 Threads 1,151 Posts
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".

I have no idea, just asking.
Money sometimes helps....professor
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Aug 26, 2011 4:20 PM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
lorind
lorindlorindjakarta, Jakarta Indonesia9 Threads 124 Posts
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".

I have no idea, just asking.



this is my question...


frustrated

no idea
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Aug 26, 2011 4:21 PM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
outdoorgirlsun
outdoorgirlsunoutdoorgirlsunSapulpa, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 1,085 Posts
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".

I have no idea, just asking.


You can't make anyone love you, you can only make yourself lovable.
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Aug 26, 2011 5:59 PM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
daisy333
daisy333daisy333Sydney, New South Wales Australia28 Threads 7 Polls 514 Posts
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".

I have no idea, just asking.


Well, you can try anything. You can be where they are, you can bombard them with phone calls and gifts, you can write letters. Some people would call that stalking though lol.

I have a theory that it is not impossible to fall in love with someone - anyone - if you spend enough time with them, focussing on what you like about them as opposed to what you don't.

How to make them love you back? I'm sure 90 million Justin Bieber fans would love the answer to that one.
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Aug 26, 2011 6:01 PM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
hairymonkey
hairymonkeyhairymonkeyWoBurn, Massachusetts USA38 Threads 11 Polls 254 Posts
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".

I have no idea, just asking.
Love Potion #9

It looks like turpentine and tastes like india ink
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Aug 27, 2011 4:57 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
grizzwald: Money sometimes helps....



I don't doubt it. laugh
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Aug 27, 2011 4:59 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
lorind: this is my question...

no idea



We'll try again and again, until some brilliant mind comes and tell us the secret.laugh
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Aug 27, 2011 5:00 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
outdoorgirlsun: You can't make anyone love you, you can only make yourself lovable.



Well, this is what I am wondering about.... hmmm
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Aug 27, 2011 5:01 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
daisy333: Well, you can try anything. You can be where they are, you can bombard them with phone calls and gifts, you can write letters. Some people would call that stalking though lol.

I have a theory that it is not impossible to fall in love with someone - anyone - if you spend enough time with them, focussing on what you like about them as opposed to what you don't.

How to make them love you back? I'm sure 90 million Justin Bieber fans would love the answer to that one.



rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up
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Aug 27, 2011 5:06 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
hairymonkey: Love Potion #9

It looks like turpentine and tastes like india ink



There is this one, too:


I've got an ancient book,
full of wise advices for true,
how a drink to cook
that makes your lover comes to you.

After midnight put a seed,
it says, of so-and-so plant
in a pot made of clay, to breed,
and while it grows sing to it, and chant.

Than boil it, when full is the moon,
say magical words and add
some other things, but not too soon,
and nothing else instead.

I did everything that it said,
everything that the book explains,
but no effects upon me it had -
to fulfill my wish there was no chance.

I repeated the proces many times,
I said all the words with care,
but useless were all my rhymes -
the drink was powerless, I swear!

Then on the book I trew a glance,
and turned it over, fed up and tired,
I got enlightened all at once:
the book's validity had expired.
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Aug 27, 2011 5:09 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
My girlfriend thinks that I'm a stalker.

Well, she's not exactly my girlfriend yet.

giggle
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Aug 27, 2011 5:11 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
i guess you can make someone love you back....i'm not sure about the chemistry, though grin

in the meantime...

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Aug 27, 2011 5:25 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
vyoleta: Instead of being passive and giving it up with the already grey-haired saying "you can't force someone to love you", why not try something new? Collect all the advices from all over the world (this is just the place I am talking about - all over the world) from all the different people, "how to make you love me".

I have no idea, just asking.



Sometimes you hear about married couples where the guy pursued the woman who wasn't remotely interested in the first instance.

He kept on, asking her out on dates, buying her flowers and pretty little things, and eventually she gave in, went out with him, and discovered that he was just what she wanted all along.

Did he make her fall in love with him confused

Would like to think so daydream
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Aug 29, 2011 3:01 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
RDM59: My girlfriend thinks that I'm a stalker.

Well, she's not exactly my girlfriend yet.



I understand you, you want to make her love you, and she calls it "stalking". Naughty girl. laugh
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Aug 29, 2011 3:06 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
lucynad: i guess you can make someone love you back....i'm not sure about the chemistry, though

in the meantime...



Me neither. grin

Nice song, thanks.
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Aug 29, 2011 3:13 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
serene56: Sometimes you hear about married couples where the guy pursued the woman who wasn't remotely interested in the first instance.

He kept on, asking her out on dates, buying her flowers and pretty little things, and eventually she gave in, went out with him, and discovered that he was just what she wanted all along.

Did he make her fall in love with him

Would like to think so


Quite so, serene. But it seems when a guy is persisten in his courtship that it is not the same as when a girl is persistent in hers. Can a woman court a man? hmmm
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Aug 30, 2011 11:13 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
vyoleta: Quite so, serene. But it seems when a guy is persisten in his courtship that it is not the same as when a girl is persistent in hers. Can a woman court a man?


I think men are taught they need to do the running and when a woman runs after a man it is often looked upon as desperate or needy.
I'm sure that by doing small thoughtful things for this man he would begin to notice and think about you as a caring person. Obviously if its been stated he is not attracted, your the wrong age etc etc you can't hold a gun at his head an make him declare love for you. (well you could but it wouldn't be a nice way to go about thingslaugh)
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Aug 30, 2011 11:16 AM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
Lilly32
Lilly32Lilly32Aukštaitija, Lithuania6 Threads 259 Posts
I will say it simple as I say, damn might be sound primitive but...

Men like a dogs, till you run they will chase after you once you stop...


Finish yourself bouquet
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Aug 30, 2011 1:53 PM CST Thread against the thread "When i can not make you love me"
Aeterna
AeternaAeternaTokyo, Kanto Japan2 Threads 30 Posts
grizzwald: Money sometimes helps....


Could not agree more. smile
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