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stanley8m: Never got caught,,
Sly dog 
your day will come 
celticeyes1: Sly dog your day will come
Never got caught cos I never cheated,, I like to look at me in the mirror and respect the man I see there,,
stanley8m: Never got caught cos I never cheated,, I like to look at me in the mirror and respect the man I see there,,
Oh please!
stanley8m: Never got caught cos I never cheated,, I like to look at me in the mirror and respect the man I see there,,
Hmm think your halo needs a polish 
facetowardsfront: Oh no, I believe you. I think you do stand in front of a mirror admiring yourself. Regularly.
If you only looked like me you would understand
stanley8m: If you only looked like me you would understand
Help me understand send me your pic 
celticeyes1: Help me understand send me your pic
I did already.. send more tomorrrow,
stanley8m: If you only looked like me you would understand
Theoneucanthate: All addicts can be cured, simple answer! As I said u don't judge a person on their past! I'm a firm believer anyone can change and with help they will :)
No they can't be cured as such. There's always the risk there. Like ALL forms of addiction it's risky. Some of us have enough risk in our lives without adding more.
MADDOG69: No they can't be cured as such. There's always the risk there. Like ALL forms of addiction it's risky. Some of us have enough risk in our lives without adding more.
Of course it's risky but that doesn't mean u don't give someone a chance whose seeking help and in remission from an addiction. Very vague attitude to have in my opinionTheoneucanthate: Of course it's risky but that doesn't mean u don't give someone a chance whose seeking help and in remission from an addiction. Very vague attitude to have in my opinion
I think what's riskier is the alcoholic who sips away at the wine bottle every evening or get sloshed outa their heads at the weekend who is in denial about their own condition. This still allows them to point the finger and feel superior and negativly judge someone. I would rather date a recovering alcoholic than a woman who displays narcissism, bi polar or a controlling personality.Phoenix: Uno & Celtic made the same point. And as they've said, they are more dangerous than the 'out right' alcoholic. As you said Glen, it's because they're in denial.
Stan & Maddog..Women are just as guilty for cheating too. Only difference is they can cover their tracks better than men. Men aren't programmed to be monogamous (which is really why they cheat). Women are but like I said cheat for different reasons...
Stan & Maddog..Women are just as guilty for cheating too. Only difference is they can cover their tracks better than men. Men aren't programmed to be monogamous (which is really why they cheat). Women are but like I said cheat for different reasons...
Cheating is cheating no matter if done by a man or a woman.
But I don't agree with your out of jail card that men aren't programmed to be monogamous.
KNenagh: Cheating is cheating no matter if done by a man or a woman.
But I don't agree with your out of jail card that men aren't programmed to be monogamous.
But I don't agree with your out of jail card that men aren't programmed to be monogamous.
But that is our excuse. It's genealogy don't you know
Jeez how did this thread go from Alcoholics to Cheaters
Mostly, Cheaters cheat because they choose to
KNenagh: Cheating is cheating no matter if done by a man or a woman.
But I don't agree with your out of jail card that men aren't programmed to be monogamous.
But I don't agree with your out of jail card that men aren't programmed to be monogamous.
It aint a get of jail card. Its fact. I'm not saying that men can't be taught to be monogamous, they can. In the same way as you train a puppy.
I agree with you cheatin' is cheatin' and it doesn't matter who is the guilty party.
vinny1967: But that is our excuse. It's genealogy don't you know Jeez how did this thread go from Alcoholics to Cheaters
Mostly, Cheaters cheat because they choose to
Mostly, Cheaters cheat because they choose to
What do you mean by 'mostly'...? But how did we get from alcoholics to cheatin'? It's one of the joys about CS threads , they tend to go off on tangents..
Phoenix: It aint a get of jail card. Its fact. I'm not saying that men can't be taught to be monogamous, they can. In the same way as you train a puppy.
I agree with you cheatin' is cheatin' and it doesn't matter who is the guilty party.
I agree with you cheatin' is cheatin' and it doesn't matter who is the guilty party.
Don't believe in "training" or "changing" someone, especially if you're our age. You have to take someone as he/she is (I wouldn't change my character for someone and don't expect it from somebody else) or forget about it. This , oh if he/she would be only like this/that and then I could love them...
Phoenix: What do you mean by 'mostly'...? But how did we get from alcoholics to cheatin'? It's one of the joys about CS threads , they tend to go off on tangents..
Only on cs
I do believe it can be an addiction for some. The thrill and subterfuge involved can be a potent mix.
But 95% + just cheat because they choose to.
From my experience when someone is unhappy having a parachute when they jump is a must.
vinny1967: It's obviously not going so well for Liam Neeson. He was hammered on the Late Late last friday nite
Well the wagon is there to jump off and back on I suppose.
I was just reading the thread and haveing a chickle at a lot of the womens pius views on dating someone who has been strong enough to overcome an addiction problem. We could all be alcoholice when we have our first drink. Its the luck of the draw. Nobody chooses to be addicted to anything. I respect those who are brave and strong enogh to overcome it.
And would they be so pius if Colin Farrell asked them out. Me thinks not.
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Never got caught,,