How to trust some one on line??? ( Archived) (74)

Jun 9, 2012 10:38 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
How to know if some one on line real? How long we should keep communication? Because some people sometimes is not real. Have a good day and best regards from Bali island
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Jun 9, 2012 10:39 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
arsinibali: How to know if some one on line real? How long we should keep communication? Because some people sometimes is not real. Have a good day and best regards from Bali island

Use a camera and have a cam chat.
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Jun 9, 2012 10:46 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
MADDOG69: Use a camera and have a cam chat.
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Jun 9, 2012 10:46 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
well i find it very hard,,and its a bit sad really,
and from what i have seen t does not matter how long you are in communication,,
here in australia 85 million dollars was taken by scams of all kinds
last year,, they like to target older people,, i guess because its more likely they have more money
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Jun 9, 2012 10:47 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
happyaries1
happyaries1happyaries1Gosford, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 36 Posts
Its a hard call
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Jun 9, 2012 10:49 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
well they tell me they don't have a cam
and as for me i have never had a cam chat and i'm not really sure how to use the thing,,, and i know i am honest
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Jun 9, 2012 10:51 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
happyaries1
happyaries1happyaries1Gosford, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 36 Posts
Cam no way....generally means other things
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Jun 9, 2012 10:51 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
arapaho: well they tell me they don't have a cam
and as for me i have never had a cam chat and i'm not really sure how to use the thing,,, and i know i am honest

If they are serious, they'll buy a USD$10-20 camera in some shop.
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Jun 9, 2012 10:53 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
happyaries1: Cam no way....generally means other things

No it doesn't. I've often obliged a request for a cam chat for like 5 mins so they know I'm actually real. And I'd expect the same in return if I got serious with someone. thumbs up
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Jun 9, 2012 10:54 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
happyaries1
happyaries1happyaries1Gosford, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 36 Posts
Thats great for you an I agree it would work well when people are genuine
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Jun 9, 2012 10:57 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
MADDOG69: No it doesn't. I've often obliged a request for a cam chat for like 5 mins so they know I'm actually real. And I'd expect the same in return if I got serious with someone.



I agree, it's a good way to get to know who it is you're chatting with, and it doesn't mean anything else other than hopefully a good conversation.

I have no issue with talking on cam, and have never done anything inappropriate, even when asked. laugh
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Jun 9, 2012 10:58 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
happyaries1: Thats great for you an I agree it would work well when people are genuine

I'd rather filter out the genuine vs less-then-genuine rather quickly.
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Jun 9, 2012 10:59 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
MADDOG69: No it doesn't. I've often obliged a request for a cam chat for like 5 mins so they know I'm actually real. And I'd expect the same in return if I got serious with someone.
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Jun 9, 2012 11:04 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
MADDOG69: No it doesn't. I've often obliged a request for a cam chat for like 5 mins so they know I'm actually real. And I'd expect the same in return if I got serious with someone.


wrong - perhaps you are not aware but generally cams are associated with behaviors that a lot of women do not want to be associated with

camhos have their own thing going and a lot of us don't want the association, and some men assume if you have a cam it means they get a peekgiggle ummm no

but I don't want to deal with turning down those types of requests, TBH, so I just don't go there

not meant to criticize you doggy - this is just why you will find some women who refuse to cam chat
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Jun 9, 2012 11:04 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
kidatheart: I agree, it's a good way to get to know who it is you're chatting with, and it doesn't mean anything else other than hopefully a good conversation.

I have no issue with talking on cam, and have never done anything inappropriate, even when asked.
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Jun 9, 2012 11:05 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
thumbs up thumbs up nice
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Jun 9, 2012 11:07 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
Many people have a a cam and if they don't, they usually have no problems with getting one and getting onto Skype. It doesn't have the stigma it once did.

Now quite waving your pet chicken around Maddog! scold chicken giggle
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Jun 9, 2012 11:08 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
arapaho: ya mate but they expect a big one when you do that,

like mine ,,
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

good one

actually since I don't do LDRs - the locals know what I look like - meh - they see me all the time - but if I was looking long distance I might feel differently

but when I guy asks to cam I am instantly suspicious...
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Jun 9, 2012 11:09 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
felixis99: wrong - perhaps you are not aware but generally cams are associated with behaviors that a lot of women do not want to be associated with


MADDOG69: if I got serious with someone.

"if I got serious with someone"

That may mean something different to others. At that stage for me, (and what I've found from others) impropriety on the cam is not going to happen. You seem to be referring to some stage before the stage I'm referring to.
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Jun 9, 2012 11:10 PM CST How to trust some one on line???
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
MADDOG69: Use a camera and have a cam chat.
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