JeanKimberley: You know women are gaining ground in equality when you start seeing female serial killers ... Pleazzzze! it is a matter of perception -
if you want to quote polls the happiest people are married men and single women - so you can also say that the unhappy people are married women and single men.
In my opinion more women are not unhappy - the world is not going to hell in a hand-basket...
the actual statistics show that working women still make 30% less doing the same jobs as men.
women are likely to be the child abuser as they are more than likely to be the sole custodian of the child. it used to be less reported - people were less aware
yet domestic violence in a household is more than likely to be a man against a woman and child..... so
i don't get where the marxist stuff is coming from?
You don't know where the marxist stuff comes from,the entire feminist movement is deeply idiologised in marxist communism I suggest you read up on it,by the way in the pay gap which dosent exist all dangerous work, work related deaths ,long hours long distance jobs are done by men,men and women retire at the same age eventhough men on average die younger by 20 years- why don't women retire later in life? again unfortunatly the selfish side of women arises again,women have never campaigned for the rights of men and men are geting tired of it.
modermen: You don't know where the marxist stuff comes from,the entire feminist movement is deeply idiologised in marxist communism I suggest you read up on it,by the way in the pay gap which dosent exist all dangerous work, work related deaths ,long hours long distance jobs are done by men,men and women retire at the same age eventhough men on average die younger by 20 years- why don't women retire later in life? again unfortunatly the selfish side of women arises again,women have never campaigned for the rights of men and men are geting tired of it.
Gosh now I see why the previous comments suggested this is just a venue for your women hating bashing and it is better not to encourage you by comment.....
I mean this is a cuththroat world we inhabit. Of course with the economy soured most would not consider dating someone who is unemployed. That's like taking on extra burden and dead weight. You do have a choice in who you fraternize with and thus will have a possible relationship with. It only makes sense to pick wisely from a pool of suitable suitors when your first priority in choosing a possible mate is that they are gainfully employeed. This is only following a course of common sense.
Now if you just so happen to fall in love with someone that is unemployed then by all means you should stick by them through thick or thin. However, if from the get go you weed out those that are jobless you'll have much more success and joy in your life. But some people seem to thrive on hardship and enjoy being downtrodden. I can't understand why but there's a certain demographic that seems to enjoy it.
I don’t see the big deal. More men are starting to opt out in dating unemployed women. Many of my son’s friends won’t date girls without jobs. Some have actually chosen to only date women with higher paying jobs. As I see it, our society is changing and we must all be open to change...some changes are good, some not so good.
texasgent222: Liberal leftist diatribe! Read a couple of posts above and you'll see a man's perspective on this subject.
I have read your posts and you seem to agree with the poll,btw I am neither liberal, socialist,national socialist, feminist all the one to me,I take it you agree with women selfishness eventhough men have allways protected and provide and been disposable for women and now the shoe is on the other foot they turn their backs on men,you seem to agree with that or else your doing anything to be the white night and get laid.
modermen: Selfishness of the modern women? Have men made this decision in these large numbers to turn their backs on women due to finances? Will even more women be left on the shelf?
which leaves 30 % hope they are having a steady job ...
I haven't read all the threads. But let's be honest. I can't blame them. Why would they want to be with someone who can't take care of themselves. I'm old fashioned and believe a man should take care of his family! I know my view is wrong but I don't care. I have worked hard all my life so my woman wouldn't have to. I would feel like a scumbag if I didn't work. They want to have a stable and secure relationship. And working helps you achieve that. By the way ladies, I don't mind a woman working if that's something she wants. I guess I was brought up different that's all! Joe
monistee: I haven't read all the threads. But let's be honest. I can't blame them. Why would they want to be with someone who can't take care of themselves. I'm old fashioned and believe a man should take care of his family! I know my view is wrong but I don't care. I have worked hard all my life so my woman wouldn't have to. I would feel like a scumbag if I didn't work. They want to have a stable and secure relationship. And working helps you achieve that. By the way ladies, I don't mind a woman working if that's something she wants. I guess I was brought up different that's all! Joe
Well good point ,the difference now is more men lost their jobs than women,my point is according to the poll women have clearly stated they don't want men who are out of,in my opinion thats cruel and selfish,I can just imagine the uproar from the feminists if the roles were reversed.
modermen: Well good point ,the difference now is more men lost their jobs than women,my point is according to the poll women have clearly stated they don't want men who are out of,in my opinion thats cruel and selfish,I can just imagine the uproar from the feminists if the roles were reversed.
modermen: You see this is where you women fail to see it,we men have always been the protectors and providers,thats right we had to be disposable for women all down through the ages,the other thing is men are now looking elsewhere for marriage ie the far east,independent women don't it below their standards most of them,when they start reaching their forties its to late for them and the looks fade and then they realise this feminism wasent such a good idea for their so called carrers.
I think the majority of men looking in the far east for marriage just can't get a woman here.
You are fully right, I have my standards, correct spelling is one of them...
Faded looks over forties - looking at pics on here, there are a lot of attractive women over forty, ever checked how many attractive men over 40? And does the part of "In a relationship" on your profile know you hang around a dating site?
KNenagh: I think the majority of men looking in the far east for marriage just can't get a woman here.
You are fully right, I have my standards, correct spelling is one of them...
Faded looks over forties - looking at pics on here, there are a lot of attractive women over forty, ever checked how many attractive men over 40? And does the part of "In a relationship" on your profile know you hang around a dating site?
The majority of men go to the far east in search of brides do so because they can't see the point of marrying western women ie because women file the vast majority of divorces ,the truth of the matter is I am in a relationship and my personal life is none of your business,why you checking me out?
modermen: The majority of men go to the far east in search of brides do so because they can't see the point of marrying western women ie because women file the vast majority of divorces ,the truth of the matter is I am in a relationship and my personal life is none of your business,why you checking me out?
I usually read the profile of people I reply to, and don't worry, not interested in the personal live of someone like you. Reading through your post, are you married to someone from the far east and did some western woman leave you that you're so bitter?
Everyone to themselves, I have no problem someone meeting and falling in love with a partner from the Far East, Eastern Europe etc. but the men I met married to some of these women plainly couldn't deal with an independent, intelligent woman and more important couldn't get one.
And me Western woman couldn't see the point going near an idiot like that.
KNenagh: I usually read the profile of people I reply to, and don't worry, not interested in the personal live of someone like you. Reading through your post, are you married to someone from the far east and did some western woman leave you that you're so bitter?
Everyone to themselves, I have no problem someone meeting and falling in love with a partner from the Far East, Eastern Europe etc. but the men I met married to some of these women plainly couldn't deal with an independent, intelligent woman and more important couldn't get one.
And me Western woman couldn't see the point going near an idiot like that.
So your single strong and independent ,lol,but you do seem to have a problem with men now going there own way,its women like you who can't handle a man with an opinion on women,I have to laugh when I hear women say they are independent because absolutely everything around you has been invented ,engineered and built by men EVERYTHING,when men realy go their own way as they are starting to you women are in real trouble.
Personally? I make enough where my man would not have to work BUT....i would not approve of me working and maintaining the house If i were the sole bread winner in the family, i would expect him to do all the homemaker responsibilities (i.e. cooking, cleaning, paying the bills, taking care of the kids if applicable, etc...) just as i would be expected to do if HE were the sole bread winner Not saying i'd leave EVERYTHING to him, i'd do my part in the household stuff too but he'd be expected to shoulder the brunt of it just as i would if he were the working one It's all about teamwork JMO, of course
galrads: yep, one and the same. she does have some interesting insite, like when she said, " We've begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters."
maybe she's right about...... "The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn."
and I have to agree with her to a large extent on her statement, "The truth will set you free. But first, it will piss you off."
If I liked someone I would date him, no matter what he did for a living. I think.
modermen: You don't know where the marxist stuff comes from,the entire feminist movement is deeply idiologised in marxist communism I suggest you read up on it,by the way in the pay gap which dosent exist all dangerous work, work related deaths ,long hours long distance jobs are done by men,men and women retire at the same age eventhough men on average die younger by 20 years- why don't women retire later in life? again unfortunatly the selfish side of women arises again,women have never campaigned for the rights of men and men are geting tired of it.
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if you want to quote polls the happiest people are married men and single women - so you can also say that the unhappy people are married women and single men.
In my opinion more women are not unhappy - the world is not going to hell in a hand-basket...
the actual statistics show that working women still make 30% less doing the same jobs as men.
women are likely to be the child abuser as they are more than likely to be the sole custodian of the child. it used to be less reported - people were less aware
yet domestic violence in a household is more than likely to be a man against a woman and child..... so
i don't get where the marxist stuff is coming from?