CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you ( Archived) (136)

Mar 30, 2013 7:45 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
jono7: weeelll....ain't it just her lucky day.... and it's (almost) my birthday...
how'd that work....

and you can be sure i'm smiling as i think of her reading these posts...
for both of you.


laugh blushing hug bouquet
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Mar 30, 2013 7:50 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Possum, Skippy, Sheila,

Hun, darls, chick

Sweetie, Pet, Petal


" I said Pet, I said Love, I said Pet, I said Love" was a famous line from one of our funny Aussie sitcoms..

It stuck..

wave
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Mar 30, 2013 7:52 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
tarris
tarristarrisnew plymouth, Taranaki New Zealand4 Threads 395 Posts
doberman3: It's lame - it sicken's me. If you do it, I won't respond.
I'm not a deer or a honey.
Usually the guys that do this are a scammer

The Dobe
hey Dobe
Lotta scammers use 'dear' I note
Sickens me too!!
Or 'darling'! So condescending I feel
My grandmother called me dear and only my lover should call me darling!!
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Mar 30, 2013 7:57 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
jac379: In the UK, 'madam' would refer to a more mature woman.

I'm currently in that middle ground where young men get twinkly-eyed and amused by addressing me as 'madam' and older men likewise, with addressing me as 'miss'.

Either way, I find it a bit cheeky and flirty and not at all offensive. Some might find otherwise with cheeky, or flirty; some might be offended by the reference to maturity. I dunno.

Certainly, it makes me cringe being called a 'lady' and I use the title Ms, rather than Miss.(But I especially like 'ma'am' with an American accent...swoon.)



You're so funny....I'm trying to say "ma'am" with an American accent. I think it's...."maaaaaaa'm with the emphasis on the "a's" to stretch it out.dunno
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Mar 30, 2013 7:59 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
montemonte: You're so funny....I'm trying to say "ma'am" with an American accent. I think it's...."maaaaaaa'm with the emphasis on the "a's" to stretch it out.


there is nothing finer than hearing a Marine saying Yes Ma'am
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Mar 30, 2013 8:03 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
JeanKimberley: there is nothing finer than hearing a Marine saying Yes Ma'am



thumbs up Or any branch of the military......total respect yay
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Mar 30, 2013 8:04 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
JeanKimberley: there is nothing finer than hearing a Marine saying Yes Ma'am



I have never heard it, but I believe you... because it would be said respectfully.. ( I am guessing )wave
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Mar 30, 2013 8:07 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
Merriweather: I have never heard it, but I believe you... because it would be said respectfully.. ( I am guessing )


and when you hear it with a southern accent..... very fine! very fine indeed! wave
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Mar 30, 2013 8:30 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
justjim63: Jeeeeez, Mijas do you have no limits??
thumbs down Dont believe but dont disbelievewave
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Mar 30, 2013 8:38 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
fearlessfred001
fearlessfred001fearlessfred001Salt Flat, TX, Texas USA66 Posts
Many gals also call us Dear and Honey, also Babe. a first tip that they are also scammers.
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Mar 30, 2013 8:51 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
mijas36
mijas36mijas36Mijas Costa, Andalusia Spain313 Posts
justjim63: Jeeeeez, Mijas do you have no limits??

I joke,maybe people don´t like it but it´s a joke.She´s a nob,period!
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Mar 31, 2013 1:47 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
funxsinia: Yes ma'am it can be a bit flirty

Then maybe some women might feel a bit threatened by that?

Hence the hostile reaction, maybe?

Or maybe some women get a bit fed up of always being treated in a certain way, even if they've just popped out to the shops for a loaf and pint of milk?
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Mar 31, 2013 1:49 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
chatonlyman2: Ya he seemsw pretty cool

Yeah, he seems like a sweetie and it seems like he enjoys our company on the forums. laugh
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Mar 31, 2013 2:08 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
Kim431: deal with it, guys will call you anything they want does not mean they are a damn scammer, my god get a life.
christ , cool it Kim . You earn the right to call somebody dear, doll or hun by knowing them . Respect is what its about . Being to familiar to soon lacks abit of that . Scammers call me cute ,now I may be alot of things but thats not one .
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Mar 31, 2013 2:34 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Look at it this way D...Its a good screening tool...Happy Easter! bunny bunny easter basket easter egg daisy
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Mar 31, 2013 3:10 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Whats wrong with you???laugh laugh laugh Stung by a honey bee???rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Kim431: deal with it, guys will call you anything they want does not mean they are a damn scammer, my god get a life.
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Mar 31, 2013 3:30 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
I dont like that either


Getting a mail from someone for the very first time calling me
-babe - baby
-doll
-honey


I dont know... just i think its not a nice way to approach someone ...for the very first time..
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Mar 31, 2013 3:32 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
Antoniacv: I dont like that eitherGetting a mail from someone for the very first time calling me
-babe - baby
-doll
-honeyI dont know... just i think its not a nice way to approach someone ...for the very first time..
other than your screen name,,,,, what would you prefer?
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Mar 31, 2013 3:36 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Well some terms of endearment are part of peoples culture, in Devon and Cornwall England it is natural to call a woman dear, or darling or with the older people, my beauty, If you are prejudiced against our cultural terms it is the same as being prejudiced against us.
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Mar 31, 2013 3:42 PM CST CS Men - stop calling us Dear, and honey - CS ladies add what names get to you
flight1
flight1flight1auckland, Auckland New Zealand2 Posts
i realy do very much agree with you they are just scammers when they call you dear or honey, they want your money or they are married
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