hello, i need an advice if possible . my story is i met a germany man, he was very nice and good to me, we are in relationship until now , but 2 weeks ago suddenly he changed, didnt text me, call me , etc but he still says love me sometimes and say sorry. then one day, i knew that he met a phillipines girl. what should i do ?. should i tell the phil girl ? or should i let it go just like that ? . because in my mind, i thought since we werent marry yet, why should i bother with that . but in other side, i dont feel fine with all of this cheating.what should i do ?. could anyone in this forum give an advice?. thanks.
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Julia79_id: hello, i need an advice if possible . my story is i met a germany man, he was very nice and good to me, we are in relationship until now , but 2 weeks ago suddenly he changed, didnt text me, call me , etc but he still says love me sometimes and say sorry. then one day, i knew that he met a phillipines girl. what should i do ?. should i tell the phil girl ? or should i let it go just like that ? . because in my mind, i thought since we werent marry yet, why should i bother with that . but in other side, i dont feel fine with all of this cheating.what should i do ?. could anyone in this forum give an advice?. thanks.
Julia79_id: hello, i need an advice if possible . my story is i met a germany man, he was very nice and good to me, we are in relationship until now , but 2 weeks ago suddenly he changed, didnt text me, call me , etc but he still says love me sometimes and say sorry. then one day, i knew that he met a phillipines girl. what should i do ?. should i tell the phil girl ? or should i let it go just like that ? . because in my mind, i thought since we werent marry yet, why should i bother with that . but in other side, i dont feel fine with all of this cheating.what should i do ?. could anyone in this forum give an advice?. thanks.
He sounds like a user and a loser to me and he'll only cause you grief. If it were me, I would drop him like a hot potato, dust myself off and move on.
2intrigued: He sounds like a user and a loser to me and he'll only cause you grief. If it were me, I would drop him like a hot potato, dust myself off and move on.
yes, i think like you also, but a side of me cant accept this all cheating , for example i like to have a talk and open about all of this cheating .
Julia79_id: yes, i think like you also, but a side of me cant accept this all cheating , for example i like to have a talk and open about all of this cheating .
In my opinion, once a cheater, always a cheater so I'm not sure talking to him about it is going to change him.
Julia79_id: hello, i need an advice if possible . my story is i met a germany man, he was very nice and good to me, we are in relationship until now , but 2 weeks ago suddenly he changed, didnt text me, call me , etc but he still says love me sometimes and say sorry. then one day, i knew that he met a phillipines girl. what should i do ?. should i tell the phil girl ? or should i let it go just like that ? . because in my mind, i thought since we werent marry yet, why should i bother with that . but in other side, i dont feel fine with all of this cheating.what should i do ?. could anyone in this forum give an advice?. thanks.
Sweetheart, I am sorry, but this guy is playing you for a fool.
I would advise that you drop his ars, and cut your loses...instead of investing in a relationship that will not go anywhere. If he cheats now, he will continue to do this to you later... It's a shame that he plays the field, at YOUR emotional expense...
It may hurt to do it now, but it could save a more harder hurt later. There are too many good men out there, to waste your time with someone like him.
This is just my opinion... may the best come your way.... Have a great day!
TheresMyFriend: I would advise that you drop his ars, and cut your loses...instead of investing in a relationship that will not go anywhere. If he cheats now, he will continue to do this to you later... It's a shame that he plays the field, at YOUR emotional expense...
It may hurt to do it now, but it could save a more harder hurt later. There are too many good men out there, to waste your time with someone like him.
This is just my opinion... may the best come your way.... Have a great day!
MBa julia I think he is just a player guy who get easy bored then find new one for his toy. Move on cos you deserve for good one. As others say cheater always as a cheater wish you can find wise solve for your problem
2intrigued: He sounds like a user and a loser to me and he'll only cause you grief. If it were me, I would drop him like a hot potato, dust myself off and move on.
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because in my mind, i thought since we werent marry yet, why should i bother with that . but in other side, i dont feel fine with all of this cheating.what should i do ?.
could anyone in this forum give an advice?. thanks.