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Apr 13, 2013 10:34 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
Julia79_id
Julia79_idJulia79_idjakarta, Jakarta Indonesia1 Threads 17 Posts
hello, i need an advice if possible . my story is i met a germany man, he was very nice and good to me, we are in relationship until now , but 2 weeks ago suddenly he changed, didnt text me, call me , etc but he still says love me sometimes and say sorry. then one day, i knew that he met a phillipines girl. what should i do ?. should i tell the phil girl ? or should i let it go just like that ? .
because in my mind, i thought since we werent marry yet, why should i bother with that . but in other side, i dont feel fine with all of this cheating.what should i do ?.
could anyone in this forum give an advice?. thanks.
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Apr 13, 2013 10:36 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Julia79_id: hello, i need an advice if possible . my story is i met a germany man, he was very nice and good to me, we are in relationship until now , but 2 weeks ago suddenly he changed, didnt text me, call me , etc but he still says love me sometimes and say sorry. then one day, i knew that he met a phillipines girl. what should i do ?. should i tell the phil girl ? or should i let it go just like that ? .
because in my mind, i thought since we werent marry yet, why should i bother with that . but in other side, i dont feel fine with all of this cheating.what should i do ?.
could anyone in this forum give an advice?. thanks.



Yeh tell her, he will do the same to her.
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Apr 13, 2013 10:36 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
GUZMAN1
GUZMAN1GUZMAN1Barcelona, Catalonia Spain65 Threads 44 Polls 5,101 Posts
He's not sincere, and he is who has to do something. If not, forget him.
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Apr 13, 2013 10:41 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Julia79_id: hello, i need an advice if possible . my story is i met a germany man, he was very nice and good to me, we are in relationship until now , but 2 weeks ago suddenly he changed, didnt text me, call me , etc but he still says love me sometimes and say sorry. then one day, i knew that he met a phillipines girl. what should i do ?. should i tell the phil girl ? or should i let it go just like that ? .
because in my mind, i thought since we werent marry yet, why should i bother with that . but in other side, i dont feel fine with all of this cheating.what should i do ?.
could anyone in this forum give an advice?. thanks.


He sounds like a user and a loser to me and he'll only cause you grief. If it were me, I would drop him like a hot potato, dust myself off and move on. hug
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Apr 13, 2013 10:45 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
Julia79_id
Julia79_idJulia79_idjakarta, Jakarta Indonesia1 Threads 17 Posts
2intrigued: He sounds like a user and a loser to me and he'll only cause you grief. If it were me, I would drop him like a hot potato, dust myself off and move on.



yes, i think like you also, but a side of me cant accept this all cheating , for example i like to have a talk and open about all of this cheating .
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Apr 13, 2013 10:50 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Julia79_id: yes, i think like you also, but a side of me cant accept this all cheating , for example i like to have a talk and open about all of this cheating .


In my opinion, once a cheater, always a cheater so I'm not sure talking to him about it is going to change him. hug
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Apr 13, 2013 10:53 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
Julia79_id
Julia79_idJulia79_idjakarta, Jakarta Indonesia1 Threads 17 Posts
chatonlyman2: Do not contact the scammers.


fine, will go to your opinion. thanks
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Apr 13, 2013 10:54 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
2intrigued: In my opinion, once a cheater, always a cheater so I'm not sure talking to him about it is going to change him.



Don't get mad, get evengrin grin grin grin devil devil devil devil
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Apr 13, 2013 10:55 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
Julia79_id: hello, i need an advice if possible . my story is i met a germany man, he was very nice and good to me, we are in relationship until now , but 2 weeks ago suddenly he changed, didnt text me, call me , etc but he still says love me sometimes and say sorry. then one day, i knew that he met a phillipines girl. what should i do ?. should i tell the phil girl ? or should i let it go just like that ? .
because in my mind, i thought since we werent marry yet, why should i bother with that . but in other side, i dont feel fine with all of this cheating.what should i do ?.
could anyone in this forum give an advice?. thanks.


Sweetheart, I am sorry, but this guy is playing you for a fool.

You can prove him wrong, though. Don't be a fool.


wine
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Apr 13, 2013 10:58 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
I would advise that you drop his ars, and cut your loses...instead of investing in a relationship that will not go anywhere. If he cheats now, he will continue to do this to you later... It's a shame that he plays the field, at YOUR emotional expense...

It may hurt to do it now, but it could save a more harder hurt later. There are too many good men out there, to waste your time with someone like him.

This is just my opinion...
may the best come your way....
Have a great day!

~JOHN~
hug
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Apr 13, 2013 11:07 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
tomcatwarne: Don't get mad, get even


That wouldn't solve anything. laugh
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Apr 13, 2013 11:12 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
2intrigued: That wouldn't solve anything.



Might make her feel a bit bettergrin grin grin grin grin grin
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Apr 13, 2013 11:14 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Hes either married or a complete player or possibly both. Why would you want to have anything to do with a slimewad like that? dunno
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Apr 13, 2013 11:17 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
tomcatwarne: Might make her feel a bit better


Temporarily perhaps but over the long haul, not so much. grin
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Apr 13, 2013 11:19 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
Julia79_id
Julia79_idJulia79_idjakarta, Jakarta Indonesia1 Threads 17 Posts
TheresMyFriend: I would advise that you drop his ars, and cut your loses...instead of investing in a relationship that will not go anywhere. If he cheats now, he will continue to do this to you later... It's a shame that he plays the field, at YOUR emotional expense...

It may hurt to do it now, but it could save a more harder hurt later. There are too many good men out there, to waste your time with someone like him.

This is just my opinion...
may the best come your way....
Have a great day!

~JOHN~



Thank you ... really appreciate it ..
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Apr 13, 2013 11:28 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
definitely tell her. then move on with your life. karma will take care of him.
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Apr 13, 2013 11:29 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
Julia79_id
Julia79_idJulia79_idjakarta, Jakarta Indonesia1 Threads 17 Posts
Dagosto: Sweetheart, I am sorry, but this guy is playing you for a fool.

You can prove him wrong, though. Don't be a fool.


yes, thank you for reminding me of not being fool.
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Apr 13, 2013 11:31 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
MBa julia wave
I think he is just a player guy who get easy bored then find new one for his toy.
Move on cos you deserve for good one. As others say cheater always as a cheater
wish you can find wise solve for your problem
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Apr 13, 2013 11:32 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
Julia79_id
Julia79_idJulia79_idjakarta, Jakarta Indonesia1 Threads 17 Posts
2intrigued: Temporarily perhaps but over the long haul, not so much.


thank you 2intrigued for the true words. thank you so much.
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Apr 13, 2013 11:34 AM CST Need advice , an opinion ..
pisceslady7online today!
pisceslady7online today!pisceslady7Kincumber nr. Gosford, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 4 Polls 1,910 Posts
2intrigued: He sounds like a user and a loser to me and he'll only cause you grief. If it were me, I would drop him like a hot potato, dust myself off and move on.



I totally agree 2intrigued thumbs up
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