Why some people negative by nature? ( Archived) (93)

May 5, 2013 1:57 PM CST Why some people negative by nature?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
Dadude62: Realists are often perceived to be negative. They do tend to be angry,,, and take it out on people.



I consider myself a realist but am rarely angry and certainly dont take anything out in others.
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May 5, 2013 4:25 PM CST Why some people negative by nature?
Dadude62
Dadude62Dadude62Elkton, Maryland USA1,120 Posts
Glatlol: I consider myself a realist but am rarely angry and certainly dont take anything out in others.


Certainly not all realists are angry.
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May 6, 2013 7:47 PM CST Why some people negative by nature?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Dadude62: It's God's fault. ....



How did you come out with that hypothesis?
Or is it a hypo-thesis of yours?




writing



Dadude62: ......Or by design?


I think Genetics is very responsible for it but I would add: nourishment as well.

We are what we eat!


pizza

burger

coffee


(not a good menu on CS)
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May 6, 2013 8:00 PM CST Why some people negative by nature?
Happygolucky4uonline today!
Happygolucky4uonline today!Happygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
lifeisadream: How did you come out with that hypothesis?
Or is it a hypo-thesis of yours?

I think Genetics is very responsible for it but I would add: nourishment as well.

We are what we eat!



(not a good menu on CS)
blues I know a girl who eats lots of lemons so this does not surprise me

I eat jalepenos.....I like the ones they call poppers fried with cheese. Wonder what that makes me?uncertain
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May 6, 2013 8:02 PM CST Why some people negative by nature?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Happygolucky4u: I know a girl who eats lots of lemons so this does not surprise me

I eat jalepenos.....I like the ones they call poppers fried with cheese. Wonder what that makes me?




hmmm

If you eat Jalapeños then you must be very hot!!!





laugh


wave
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May 6, 2013 8:12 PM CST Why some people negative by nature?
Happygolucky4uonline today!
Happygolucky4uonline today!Happygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
lifeisadream: If you eat Jalapeños then you must be very hot!!!
laugh That was close was worried I might be cheesy....


wave bouquet
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May 16, 2013 5:25 PM CST Why some people negative by nature?
SirZippy
SirZippySirZippytexas, Texas USA2 Posts
A study has been done with rats, where if one rat gets hurt by an external factor, it starts to hurt the other rats around it...

I have seen this in work places also. Sometimes people are negitive because they are not happy with themselves, and they can become a bully, then a bully culture happens. Only pathetic people will remain in that rut and have a bad life, winners move on fast or will confront the people. I strongly believe that this is the way to go, because ignoring this kind of thing will just eat at you, until you don't have it in you to do what you need to do.

We all have choices right! so start making some changes today... We create or own heaven or our own hell, never blame others for your missery.
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May 18, 2013 6:42 AM CST Why some people negative by nature?
Jack68
Jack68Jack68faisalabad, Punjab Pakistan72 Threads 30 Polls 2,605 Posts
classicboy: I remember one of my village,whenever he reply someone,he replied negatively and villagers getting so bored of his attitude that whenever they wanna come out of their homes,they would have confirm if he is out there so that they can make their way out of him

Those people always reply and talk with you in negative way and only not happy with you but rather not happy with themselfs as well.Their style is just criticism and negative one.They all time confused and confused others.They all time searching some time negative in some thing.They simply cannot live with peace and not allow others with peace
Such peoples are not satisfy with their life so dont mind them just ignore themcheers
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May 18, 2013 6:53 AM CST Why some people negative by nature?
MarieLeveau
MarieLeveauMarieLeveauSt. John's, Newfoundland Canada103 Posts
I've met a lot of negative people and as a very positive person I find negative people hard to be around. I wake up each day with a smile on my face and life is wonderful. Maybe their lives aren't so wonderful and maybe they are negative due to things that have happened in their lives. We can all choose to be negative or positive people. I believe it's truly in us to be more positive. We just have to take our negatives and turn them around. It is possible!
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May 18, 2013 7:36 AM CST Why some people negative by nature?
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
classicboy: I remember one of my village,whenever he reply someone,he replied negatively and villagers getting so bored of his attitude that whenever they wanna come out of their homes,they would have confirm if he is out there so that they can make their way out of him

Those people always reply and talk with you in negative way and only not happy with you but rather not happy with themselfs as well.Their style is just criticism and negative one.They all time confused and confused others.They all time searching some time negative in some thing.They simply cannot live with peace and not allow others with peace


Negative is an applied perception that serves the observer's need to affirm themselves. Unfortunately most have little capacity to confront their perceptions and preconceived notions much less their need to affirm their own propensity for the negative.

A lot of times criticism is guidance and or wise advice but the neggy needer will label it in a negative cloak in order to defy it and support self's need to remain firmly entrenched in the past. In effect affirm victim status, and blame another for what they have found/percieved.

Only those looking for negatives will find them and it's totally personal. It's the nature of seek and ye shall find. This also applies to peace. Disingenuous people and people in denial, rarely find peace. Yes they are very confused and quite frequently that inner battle struggle, manifests in interactions with others as confused, contradictory and self indulgent behaviors.

Oh look what I've found! giggle
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May 18, 2013 8:06 AM CST Why some people negative by nature?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
BB_snickers: Negative is an applied perception that serves the observer's need to affirm themselves. Unfortunately most have little capacity to confront their perceptions and preconceived notions much less their need to affirm their own propensity for the negative.

A lot of times criticism is guidance and or wise advice but the neggy needer will label it in a negative cloak in order to defy it and support self's need to remain firmly entrenched in the past. In effect affirm victim status, and blame another for what they have found/percieved.

Only those looking for negatives will find them and it's totally personal. It's the nature of seek and ye shall find. This also applies to peace. Disingenuous people and people in denial, rarely find peace. Yes they are very confused and quite frequently that inner battle struggle, manifests in interactions with others as confused, contradictory and self indulgent behaviors.

Oh look what I've found!


Yes acceptance is vital...do not resist what is.

Dave?

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May 18, 2013 8:16 AM CST Why some people negative by nature?
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
bodleing: Yes acceptance is vital...do not resist what is.

Dave?


Are you indulging me? laugh

Vital is acceptance.

Dave's not here but if he's smart he's looking for himself. cool
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May 18, 2013 8:39 AM CST Why some people negative by nature?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
BB_snickers: Are you indulging me?

Vital is acceptance.

Dave's not here but if he's smart he's looking for himself.


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