A study has been done with rats, where if one rat gets hurt by an external factor, it starts to hurt the other rats around it...
I have seen this in work places also. Sometimes people are negitive because they are not happy with themselves, and they can become a bully, then a bully culture happens. Only pathetic people will remain in that rut and have a bad life, winners move on fast or will confront the people. I strongly believe that this is the way to go, because ignoring this kind of thing will just eat at you, until you don't have it in you to do what you need to do.
We all have choices right! so start making some changes today... We create or own heaven or our own hell, never blame others for your missery.
classicboy: I remember one of my village,whenever he reply someone,he replied negatively and villagers getting so bored of his attitude that whenever they wanna come out of their homes,they would have confirm if he is out there so that they can make their way out of him
Those people always reply and talk with you in negative way and only not happy with you but rather not happy with themselfs as well.Their style is just criticism and negative one.They all time confused and confused others.They all time searching some time negative in some thing.They simply cannot live with peace and not allow others with peace
Such peoples are not satisfy with their life so dont mind them just ignore them
I've met a lot of negative people and as a very positive person I find negative people hard to be around. I wake up each day with a smile on my face and life is wonderful. Maybe their lives aren't so wonderful and maybe they are negative due to things that have happened in their lives. We can all choose to be negative or positive people. I believe it's truly in us to be more positive. We just have to take our negatives and turn them around. It is possible!
classicboy: I remember one of my village,whenever he reply someone,he replied negatively and villagers getting so bored of his attitude that whenever they wanna come out of their homes,they would have confirm if he is out there so that they can make their way out of him
Those people always reply and talk with you in negative way and only not happy with you but rather not happy with themselfs as well.Their style is just criticism and negative one.They all time confused and confused others.They all time searching some time negative in some thing.They simply cannot live with peace and not allow others with peace
Negative is an applied perception that serves the observer's need to affirm themselves. Unfortunately most have little capacity to confront their perceptions and preconceived notions much less their need to affirm their own propensity for the negative.
A lot of times criticism is guidance and or wise advice but the neggy needer will label it in a negative cloak in order to defy it and support self's need to remain firmly entrenched in the past. In effect affirm victim status, and blame another for what they have found/percieved.
Only those looking for negatives will find them and it's totally personal. It's the nature of seek and ye shall find. This also applies to peace. Disingenuous people and people in denial, rarely find peace. Yes they are very confused and quite frequently that inner battle struggle, manifests in interactions with others as confused, contradictory and self indulgent behaviors.
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
BB_snickers: Negative is an applied perception that serves the observer's need to affirm themselves. Unfortunately most have little capacity to confront their perceptions and preconceived notions much less their need to affirm their own propensity for the negative.
A lot of times criticism is guidance and or wise advice but the neggy needer will label it in a negative cloak in order to defy it and support self's need to remain firmly entrenched in the past. In effect affirm victim status, and blame another for what they have found/percieved.
Only those looking for negatives will find them and it's totally personal. It's the nature of seek and ye shall find. This also applies to peace. Disingenuous people and people in denial, rarely find peace. Yes they are very confused and quite frequently that inner battle struggle, manifests in interactions with others as confused, contradictory and self indulgent behaviors.
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I consider myself a realist but am rarely angry and certainly dont take anything out in others.