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May 29, 2013 1:05 PM CST Race
samu20002
samu20002samu20002Pretoria, Gauteng South Africa4 Threads 12 Posts
is dating a person of a diferent race that big of a deal? Il gv u an example. In west africa dating a caucasian is seen as an "achievement". Any thots?
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May 29, 2013 1:08 PM CST Race
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
In response to: is dating a person of a diferent race that big of a deal? Il gv u an example. In west africa dating a caucasian is seen as an "achievement". Any thots?


BS


Look at the picture in my profile, theres a blonde blue eyed dude dating a latina.

We just see each other. Not a skin color.

People is PEOPLE... Skin color , eyes color , race , are just a detail.
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May 29, 2013 1:12 PM CST Race
samu20002
samu20002samu20002Pretoria, Gauteng South Africa4 Threads 12 Posts
that i knw. Jst dnt gt why is to dat way in mst west africn countries. Im frm south afrika.was shockd 2 learn abt ds whn i went to west afrika
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May 29, 2013 1:14 PM CST Race
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
That's assuming some people is better than the others. Wich It's not true. We're all humans.

hug
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May 29, 2013 1:18 PM CST Race
samu20002
samu20002samu20002Pretoria, Gauteng South Africa4 Threads 12 Posts
that is tru . I wish i could explain to u in mr dtail cz uv nva bin 2 west africa. Jst google nigerias 419. Dats basicly startd. Ul nva knw hw west africns r untl u go there. Dnt gt me wrng. Afrika is great.
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May 29, 2013 1:19 PM CST Race
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
In response to: is dating a person of a diferent race that big of a deal? Il gv u an example. In west africa dating a caucasian is seen as an "achievement". Any thots?

I was shocked and a little offended when a black man I dated told me that sometimes a black man dating a white woman is perceived as the white woman being a trophy - an achievement, as you said.

I found that interesting though, because the common ground of culture between us was that we were both racially Jewish. laugh
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May 29, 2013 1:19 PM CST Race
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
samu20002: is dating a person of a diferent race that big of a deal? Il gv u an example. In west africa dating a caucasian is seen as an "achievement". Any thots?

Oh racial topic, one of my favorites
Guess what, I just found out today that Im white caucasian yet I don`t feel any different than yesterday ...anyhow ,I saw in quite a few profiles where people felt the need to point out their "preferences" regarding race they feel comfortable to date so my guess would be ,for some people, it is a big deal.
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May 29, 2013 1:21 PM CST Race
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Unfortunately you are right... I do know from experience,most of the non white population in your country,prided themselves having a caucasian as a boyfriend.-
samu20002: is dating a person of a diferent race that big of a deal? Il gv u an example. In west africa dating a caucasian is seen as an "achievement". Any thots?
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May 29, 2013 1:28 PM CST Race
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
In response to: is dating a person of a diferent race that big of a deal? Il gv u an example. In west africa dating a caucasian is seen as an "achievement". Any thots?



I'll be straight up honest with you. I have dated black men and they seem far more hung up about the whole racial thing than I am. Get over it.
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May 29, 2013 1:32 PM CST Race
samu20002
samu20002samu20002Pretoria, Gauteng South Africa4 Threads 12 Posts
iv datd a white guy b4. I ws d 1st blk grl he datd. We had so awkward situations cz he thot he should treat me difrent. So its NT only blk ppl hv isues wth it.
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May 29, 2013 1:40 PM CST Race
Tomcats2
Tomcats2Tomcats2Norwich, Norfolk, England UK81 Threads 9 Polls 2,249 Posts
race is irrelevant, colour is too so is age so is hair colour so is that of the eyes.

Martin Luther King Jr said we she should judge people on the content of their character not the colour of their skin. I think the great man would also add race and ethnicity to that as well, he probably did

I want someone that loves me for me and i would do the same for them, coming from a mixed up pool of Irish, English and Jewish i would be a hypocrit to think other wise. Even without my mixed up genes i would still feel that way.
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May 29, 2013 1:41 PM CST Race
Depends on the education of the person you´re dating. I dated black guys in the 70´s. One especially was extremely fashionable and handsome I remember. I might add ...it didn´t go down very well with my friends.
What I find sad.......is that attitude!!!.....where a person is a trophy.....but that´s no different than an older man chosing a bimbo as a trophy. Or a (dare I say it!!!!) COUGAR displaying HER trophy.
Love.....is the joining of two people who feel something for each other. It´s not a competition.
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May 29, 2013 1:52 PM CST Race
Why don't you write in English?
We are all the same and pay absolutely no attention to anyone who tries to tell you that you are inferior.
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May 29, 2013 2:06 PM CST Race
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Dating a Black person is SWPL(Stuff White People Like)top candy. There's nothing more fashionable and status-rewarding to a White woman than a Black boyfriend.

But once you go Black you never go back?.. the divorce statistics tell a very different story.
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May 29, 2013 2:13 PM CST Race
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Dating a Black person is SWPL(Stuff White People Like)top candy. There's nothing more fashionable and status-rewarding to a White woman than a Black boyfriend.

But once you go Black you never go back?.. the divorce statistics tell a very different story.

Seriously ??? Cause I can change
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May 29, 2013 2:21 PM CST Race
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Dating a Black person is SWPL(Stuff White People Like)top candy. There's nothing more fashionable and status-rewarding to a White woman than a Black boyfriend.

But once you go Black you never go back?.. the divorce statistics tell a very different story.




The last sentence has been around since the 1800's and I read somewhere that it had to do with the salve days.
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May 29, 2013 2:23 PM CST Race
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Boban1: Seriously ??? Cause I can change

rolling on the floor laughing

Like my Meg said at the tender age of 14, "Everybody hates the Jews and Gypsies. I'm screwed." laugh
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May 29, 2013 2:26 PM CST Race
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
Boban1: Seriously ??? Cause I can change


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ....thumbs up
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May 29, 2013 2:27 PM CST Race
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
ta-da
Im expecting many offers now ...
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May 29, 2013 2:29 PM CST Race
Boban1: ta-da
Im expecting many offers now ...



I never think in negativewink
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