why can't men be honest ( Archived) (159)

Sep 17, 2013 9:21 AM CST why can't men be honest
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
DULERKEK56: BIR ERKEK DÜRÜST DEGILSE BUNUN CEZASINI BÜTÜN ERKEKLER YÜKLEMEK ÇOK AGIR BIR CEZA OLUR BEN OLDUKÇA DÜRÜST GÜVENILIR BIR ERKEGIM.
I could not have put it better myself.uh oh cheers handshake
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Sep 17, 2013 9:21 AM CST why can't men be honest
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
DULERKEK56: BIR ERKEK DÜRÜST DEGILSE BUNUN CEZASINI BÜTÜN ERKEKLER YÜKLEMEK ÇOK AGIR BIR CEZA OLUR BEN OLDUKÇA DÜRÜST GÜVENILIR BIR ERKEGIM.


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Sep 17, 2013 9:22 AM CST why can't men be honest
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
busymom10: So what is it with men when they say they are interested and would love to spend more time together, they text or call every night then suddenly nothing. Not even a courtesy sorry busy or anything. Is it too hard to be honest instead of giving women the cold treatment, geeshhh!
id lie to u for ur loven thats the truth lol.bellamy brothers.
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Sep 17, 2013 10:04 AM CST why can't men be honest
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
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Sep 17, 2013 12:55 PM CST why can't men be honest
busymom10: So what is it with men when they say they are interested and would love to spend more time together, they text or call every night then suddenly nothing. Not even a courtesy sorry busy or anything. Is it too hard to be honest instead of giving women the cold treatment, geeshhh!



So, he got turned off by whatever. What sort of time periodya talking about???
Anyway, it´s not easy from either angle to say you have lost interest. How do YOU do it????
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Sep 17, 2013 1:14 PM CST why can't men be honest
musicfreak
musicfreakmusicfreakParadise City, British Columbia Canada20 Threads 1 Polls 670 Posts
I think a lot of men don't want to deal with confrontation so they just walk away as it's the easy way out. They don't have the balls to tell it to your face. Being ignored is more hurtful than the honest truth.
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Sep 17, 2013 1:39 PM CST why can't men be honest
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
Maybe we should be asking why can't "some men and women be honest"........there are lousy men and women out there but there are also nice and honest ones as well......JMO.
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Sep 17, 2013 1:44 PM CST why can't men be honest
LoriJames20: Maybe we should be asking why can't "some men and women be honest"........there are lousy men and women out there but there are also nice and honest ones as well......JMO.
.....if I burgled a house....I would share the proceed,s...with you....now that's honest......grin
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Sep 17, 2013 1:49 PM CST why can't men be honest
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
truheart1941: .....if I burgled a house....I would share the proceed,s...with you....now that's honest......


Why Tru that's sweet of you ............honestly men seem to get the worse rap over all that goes wrong in relationships but women can be just as bad too!!
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Sep 17, 2013 2:28 PM CST why can't men be honest
wakaleo
wakaleowakaleoHamburg, Germany2 Posts
busymom10: So what is it with men when they say they are interested and would love to spend more time together, they text or call every night then suddenly nothing. Not even a courtesy sorry busy or anything. Is it too hard to be honest instead of giving women the cold treatment, geeshhh!

that's a stereotype prejudice... i can tell you SOME women ain't any better in this respect, same as SOME men are... so take it easy, it's not a question of gender, but rather a question of character...
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Sep 17, 2013 2:29 PM CST why can't men be honest
janie1305
janie1305janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK16 Threads 916 Posts
I think a lot of people simply like the thrill of the chase on these sites and have no intention of seeing anything through seriously. It's extremely cruel though because they instill false hope in their victims then drop them suddenly when they realise the "relationship" is moving to a level they either don't want, or can't let happen because they are married or not who they purport to be.

It's been a common occurrence here as others who have been here a long time will attest to.
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Sep 17, 2013 2:34 PM CST why can't men be honest
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I wouldn't say it was just the men who can't be honest.
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Sep 17, 2013 2:52 PM CST why can't men be honest
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
janie1305: I think a lot of people simply like the thrill of the chase on these sites and have no intention of seeing anything through seriously. It's extremely cruel though because they instill false hope in their victims then drop them suddenly when they realise the "relationship" is moving to a level they either don't want, or can't let happen because they are married or not who they purport to be.

It's been a common occurrence here as others who have been here a long time will attest to.


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You're very right Janie. It's horrendous how some feed off the vulnerability and need of others....sigh
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Sep 17, 2013 4:11 PM CST why can't men be honest
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
musicfreak: I think a lot of men don't want to deal with confrontation so they just walk away as it's the easy way out. They don't have the balls to tell it to your face. Being ignored is more hurtful than the honest truth.


it's them, not you.

get over it
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Sep 17, 2013 4:16 PM CST why can't men be honest
no... one on this earth..is 100% honest....if he/she says she is ...they are lieing...(EG)....wife:....do I look to fat in this dress:....husband.....yes dear.....*honest*.....result...wife storms off in a huff......or visa versa.....etc.roll eyes
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Sep 17, 2013 4:16 PM CST why can't men be honest
hwood
hwoodhwoodtallahassee, Florida USA2 Threads 6 Posts
All I can say is it works both ways. Don't feel like the lone ranger lol
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Sep 17, 2013 4:18 PM CST why can't men be honest
janie1305
janie1305janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK16 Threads 916 Posts
truheart1941: no... one on this earth..is 100% honest....if he/she says she is ...they are lieing...(EG)....wife:....do I look to fat in this dress:....husband.....yes dear.....*honest*.....result...wife storms off in a huff......or visa versa.....etc.


That's not quite the same though is it? The OP is talking about a situation entirely different which sadly happens very often online.
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Sep 17, 2013 4:19 PM CST why can't men be honest
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
i'm honest as the day is long but it doesn't seem to matter conversing
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Sep 17, 2013 4:21 PM CST why can't men be honest
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
i'm sorry....I didn't read the post, just the title...















































would you like some cheese with whine ?? grin
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Sep 17, 2013 4:21 PM CST why can't men be honest
Georgiapeachgirl
GeorgiapeachgirlGeorgiapeachgirlTrenton, Ohio USA3 Threads 77 Posts
I've had the same issues. I've very blunt and honest about what I want and expect. It helps weed some out, at least those that bother to read your profile. But I don't give my number to just anyone. I have to talk to them more on here and get a feel for them and see if I think it might be a go. That is not a fail safe because obviously I'm still looking and only two men have gotten my number. Both were mistakes. One ended up being married even though his profile said SINGLE and the other lied about who he was. I see it on both sides, and unfortunately this is on a website where lies, deciet, and playing the other party is much easier to do.
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