The Elusive Phone Call ( Archived) (65)

Oct 14, 2013 3:23 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Obstinance_Works: It's basically a blend of not making it easy for a woman and flirting. To say and do those things that skirt the boundaries of social acceptability which have parted the legs of woman since time immemorial.


Tell ya what, if a man plays the bad boy scheme with me, my legs will close up tighter than Fort Knox...no tingles about it. mumbling
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Oct 14, 2013 3:24 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
2intrigued: Tell ya what, if a man plays the bad boy scheme with me, my legs will close up tighter than Fort Knox...no tingles about it.


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Oct 14, 2013 3:26 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
LadyDiz: OB, there is always just the slightest grain of truth in what you say...just enough to make the rest sound almost plausible. You are right to the extent that many, male or female, are attracted to a hint of naughtiness in each other. Something that suggests you'll not be expected to be a saint but free to be who you really are with them. But as for the rest


What is the rest?
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Oct 14, 2013 3:29 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
unlaoised: yea, it's all about the opening of her legs, isn't it? tripe.


Legs and heart. Not much of a difference between them since girrrrl power
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Oct 14, 2013 3:41 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
rebel2: What about the strong confident men who have no trouble with women playing hard to get? The women might actually want him,becuase of his strong,confident and polite manner.


bingo! thumbs up
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Oct 14, 2013 3:45 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
truheart1941online today!
truheart1941online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Posts
rebel2: What about the strong confident men who have no trouble with women playing hard to get? The women might actually want him,becuase of his strong,confident and polite manner.
...thanks for saying that Reb......in my absence.grin rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 14, 2013 3:49 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
truheart1941: ...thanks for saying that Reb......in my absence.
Sometimes you are absent even when You are here, Just Sayin! Oh Hi True!hole giggle
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Oct 14, 2013 3:54 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
Obstinance_Works: What is the rest?


I believe other posters have clearly pointed out the shortcomings of your hypothesis in my absence.....but in the event you are still in need of a synopsis..your hyperbolic generalisations are based on premises which may be pertinent to your own personal experiences, but certainly not for all others. Aptly demonstrated by the responses of posters from both genders who clearly do not accept or share your hypotheses.
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Oct 14, 2013 3:59 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
truheart1941online today!
truheart1941online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Sometimes you are absent even when You are here, Just Sayin! Oh Hi True!
....hi H.....wave ....you look well....had a face lift I see....would did they use a demolistion....ball...........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 14, 2013 4:01 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
LadyDiz: I believe other posters have clearly pointed out the shortcomings of your hypothesis in my absence.....but in the event you are still in need of a synopsis..your hyperbolic generalisations are based on premises which may be pertinent to your own personal experiences, but certainly not for all others. Aptly demonstrated by the responses of posters from both genders who clearly do not accept or share your hypotheses.
I take my hat off to you.Excellent post,very well composed tip hat
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Oct 14, 2013 4:16 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
truheart1941: ....hi H..... ....you look well....had a face lift I see....would did they use a demolistion....ball...........
NO Not at all, It IS a demolition ball.....rolling on the floor laughing Thanks for the compliment!!!!uh oh uh oh frustrated
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Oct 14, 2013 4:42 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
goodguywithheart: What is the deal with some of these women on here? Is it a power trip to just go forever and never wanting to talk on phone. It is sometimes funny[and sad]; You can IM a woman for a while and not say one thing out of line. Then when you mention phone call they drop you like a hot potato.


What do you mean by 'on here'? This site is no different to most other similar sites and the medium via which you contact them is no different either.... confused

There is obviously a reason and it may just be that its not something spurious, or that they have a hidden agenda? There will be many, I'm sure, that will play games. Its not a new thing. But there will also be those who believe they have good reason. You may think you have said nothing out of line but the decision, in this case, clearly lies with the recipient, does it not?

That doesn't mean that you have done something wrong. It just means that at any given time, someone has made a decision differing to the one you thought they should've made (as in - accepted your offer of a 'phone call).

Chalk it down to experience and, no doubt, there will be a lady who will want to talk to you..... unless you give up, of course?!
dunno
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Oct 14, 2013 4:45 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
goodguywithheart: I don't think it is cool to string people along. If after a few days to a week of clean emailing , I either go to the phone or I block. Men of my caliber do not play games with these losers....:)


Maybe they're not interested in men of your caliber.
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Oct 14, 2013 6:07 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
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KNenagh: Maybe they're not interested in men of your caliber.
That is all well and good , then why are they wasting their time as well? It makes no sense. I have money, a paid house, a good job , I think easy on the eyes[ that's for the ladies to judge] , in good shape, intelligent and a sense of humor. I will not kiss any woman's butt for the privilege of me spending money on them for a date. I do not roll that way. If you think I have an attitude , I do not care. Life goes on. My whole thing is that they should not waste others time that are serious about meeting someone. It is just not cooldancing
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Oct 14, 2013 6:31 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
janie1305
janie1305janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK16 Threads 916 Posts
It takes time to earn that trust from many women on dating sites. You perhaps need to be more patient. What's the hurry anyway? Isn't it better to get to know someone well before you take it that step further?

Caution is the key word.
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Oct 14, 2013 8:04 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
goodguywithheart: I don't think it is cool to string people along. If after a few days to a week of clean emailing , I either go to the phone or I block. Men of my caliber do not play games with these losers....:)


of your caliber. pray tell what does THAT mean?
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Oct 14, 2013 8:06 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
goodguywithheart: T That is all well and good , then why are they wasting their time as well? It makes no sense. I have money, a paid house, a good job , I think easy on the eyes[ that's for the ladies to judge] , in good shape, intelligent and a sense of humor. I will not kiss any woman's butt for the privilege of me spending money on them for a date. I do not roll that way. If you think I have an attitude , I do not care. Life goes on. My whole thing is that they should not waste others time that are serious about meeting someone. It is just not cool


well then move on. your posts thus far have not portrayed you as someone particularly desirable, however
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Oct 14, 2013 8:11 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
rebel2: What about the strong confident men who have no trouble with women playing hard to get? The women might actually want him,becuase of his strong,confident and polite manner.
thumbs up smitten
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Oct 15, 2013 11:48 AM CST The Elusive Phone Call
You're not being very realistic. Everytime I get mail from a fellow CS member saying "Hi", I am this and that, please go to Yahoo or any other outside site, and requests a phone number, I am immediately skeptical.

My response is always the same. I do not give personal info to people that I do not know or I have not chatted with in the forums. I can just imagine getting unwanted and unsolicited phone calls in the middle of the night from timbuktu, or my email being flooded with junk spam. If you are who you say you are, you can converse with me in the forums, and I can get a better sense of who you are. It's not playing games, it's getting to know you.
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Oct 15, 2013 12:08 PM CST The Elusive Phone Call
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
goodguywithheart: What is the deal with some of these women on here? Is it a power trip to just go forever and never wanting to talk on phone. It is sometimes funny[and sad]; You can IM a woman for a while and not say one thing out of line. Then when you mention phone call they drop you like a hot potato.
professor there probably a scammer a man from nigeria thats mostly the emails i get is scammers they dont want to talk on the phone they want to text to my phone wtf when you call the number it says global service dah its not a phone from usa i also get them to email me and check the IP address all so far have been from nigeria and the UK just keep your eyes open and being from the USA here i dont have a problem giving someone my phone number
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