YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN.... (127)

Oct 19, 2013 9:16 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
I can understand the desire for a younger man to notch his bedpost with an older woman experience - well, understand it sort of. But how young is too young? And do they have "mummy" issues if the age gap is too big?

Personally, I am not interested in being a Cougar, a few years is ok, but there is a limit.

Question: What would the limit on age differences be to you?
Oct 19, 2013 9:23 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
henonpause: I can understand the desire for a younger man to notch his bedpost with an older woman experience - well, understand it sort of. But how young is too young? And do they have "mummy" issues if the age gap is too big?

Personally, I am not interested in being a Cougar, a few years is ok, but there is a limit.

Question: What would the limit on age differences be to you?


For me, no more than ten years I'd say.
Oct 19, 2013 9:24 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
henonpause: I can understand the desire for a younger man to notch his bedpost with an older woman experience - well, understand it sort of. But how young is too young? And do they have "mummy" issues if the age gap is too big?

Personally, I am not interested in being a Cougar, a few years is ok, but there is a limit.

Question: What would the limit on age differences be to you?


I think it's very difficult to be precise about an age gap. It's entirely dependent on the maturity of the individual.

but

Having children of my own, I wouldn't want to be with someone even close to that age group, so probably 10 years would be my limit. I also have no desire to be an "older woman experience".
Oct 19, 2013 9:32 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
I think the problem arises when the woman begins to age, and shows it. I saw a TV program where the guy was 12 years younger, and it really showed. I would be too paranoid about it, to be honest. Probably never go outside the door, lol.

It does help, though, if you buy duvet covers without that "waffle" print on it - at least you don't wake up with an imprint on your face. ;-)
Oct 19, 2013 9:37 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
henonpause: I think the problem arises when the woman begins to age, and shows it. I saw a TV program where the guy was 12 years younger, and it really showed. I would be too paranoid about it, to be honest. Probably never go outside the door, lol.

It does help, though, if you buy duvet covers without that "waffle" print on it - at least you don't wake up with an imprint on your face. ;-)


rolling on the floor laughing no waffle print is always a bonus! thumbs up
Oct 19, 2013 10:08 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
henonpause: I can understand the desire for a younger man to notch his bedpost with an older woman experience - well, understand it sort of. But how young is too young? And do they have "mummy" issues if the age gap is too big?

Personally, I am not interested in being a Cougar, a few years is ok, but there is a limit.

Question: What would the limit on age differences be to you?
What a youthful looking hen you are thumbs up

I'd go no further than 10 years of an age gap (ok give or take a year or two either way depending on agile and frisky she is grin )
Oct 19, 2013 10:30 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
henonpause: I can understand the desire for a younger man to notch his bedpost with an older woman experience - well, understand it sort of. But how young is too young? And do they have "mummy" issues if the age gap is too big?

Personally, I am not interested in being a Cougar, a few years is ok, but there is a limit.

Question: What would the limit on age differences be to you?


For a relationship very little age gap cool

Never been interested in the cougar thing but you never know grin

10yrs is the official cougar age gap, maybe instead of seeing it as a notch on their belt, it is actually a notch on ours, after all we would have just pulled a young thing dancing

I'm off to Dublin motorcycle
Oct 19, 2013 10:32 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
snowlynx: For me, no more than ten years I'd say.


I think your main problem might be finding a woman taller than you laugh
Oct 19, 2013 10:40 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
I dunno women. It seems almost a sin to be complaining about it, TBH. They'll come a time when the offers start drying up for yiz. Then you'll have something to cry about. laugh
Oct 19, 2013 10:53 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
henonpause:
Question: What would the limit on age differences be to you?

Depends who might find out, really. grin ON either end of the age scale actually. lol
Oct 19, 2013 11:05 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
MADDOG69: Depends who might find out, really. ON either end of the age scale actually. lol


that would depend on whether you were bothered with what others thought of you...or not dunno
Oct 19, 2013 11:22 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
unlaoised: that would depend on whether you were bothered with what others thought of you...or not

There's always a point where something would bother... especially when they're maybe other options
Oct 19, 2013 11:26 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
maybe their is a stigma attached to a big age variation ,but its up to ones self what your comfortable with age wise and if the chemistry is their and the spark ,never been a huge issue for me ,its kinda like the inter racial take on dating as well but usually its from narrow small minded people who seem to be very opinionated ,you can please some of the people some of the time,but hard to please everybody all of the time,maybe its just best to please yourself in this life ireland
Oct 19, 2013 11:50 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
WittyandWise: I think your main problem might be finding a woman taller than you



Yes and she has to be quite a bit taller than me, as I love wearing my heels when going out.
Oct 19, 2013 11:51 AM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
I like aul wans its just the older they become the more picky they are so the chances of banging 1 are few and far betweenireland
Oct 19, 2013 12:11 PM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
Karn1
Karn1Karn1Galway, Ireland11 Threads 1 Polls 252 Posts
mjpd67: maybe their is a stigma attached to a big age variation ,but its up to ones self what your comfortable with age wise and if the chemistry is their and the spark ,never been a huge issue for me ,its kinda like the inter racial take on dating as well but usually its from narrow small minded people who seem to be very opinionated ,you can please some of the people some of the time,but hard to please everybody all of the time,maybe its just best to please yourself in this life
thumbs up
Oct 19, 2013 12:59 PM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
henonpause: ha ha "banging one"? lol Oh lordy lordy. What treats await us with the younger man.... lol


yep, hen...that post is what i was referring to when i mentioned maturity levels. laugh
Oct 19, 2013 1:03 PM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
there4u80
there4u80there4u80County, Limerick Ireland20 Threads 2 Polls 231 Posts
Well, my ex was 7 years my senior, i never wanted anyone younger when i was in a relationship with her, as well, she kept me satisfied, probably a heck of a lot more than some cocky young lass would too banana laugh

Yes, i would also say that 10 + years is probably too much of an age gap thumbs up
Oct 19, 2013 1:08 PM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
there4u80: Well, my ex was 7 years my senior, i never wanted anyone younger when i was in a relationship with her, as well, she kept me satisfied, probably a heck of a lot more than some cocky young lass would too

Yes, i would also say that 10 + years is probably too much of an age gap


Nice to hear you say that. And by satisfied I am sure you mean mentally, as well as physically and emotionally. Some men don't understand that part, especially the "younger" ones. Seems they think all we need is what 's in your trousers, lol.
Oct 19, 2013 1:32 PM CST YOUNGER MEN, OLDER WOMEN....
henonpause: Nice to hear you say that. And by satisfied I am sure you mean mentally, as well as physically and emotionally. Some men don't understand that part, especially the "younger" ones. Seems they think all we need is what 's in your trousers, lol.



All you need is what's in our trouser pockets!blues

laugh
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