Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed? ( Archived) (171)

Nov 19, 2013 4:27 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
tiredofwebsites
tiredofwebsitestiredofwebsitesDeLand, Florida USA55 Posts
I am too. But my experience taught otherwise. Also I believe that miss right is close by, just that I can't see her. How does that song go? "I am too blind to see her."
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Nov 19, 2013 4:28 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Antoniacv: Lots of patience, hardwork, lots of love involved, documents , money , more more patience , faithfulness, trust , more love , more patience... but hell yeah...

It happened to us.
And soon to be hubby and wife.


Congratulations Antonia yay yay Yes, it can happen with all those things you mentioned...it all takes the kind of love and commitment you two have to motivate people to see it through. hug
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Nov 19, 2013 4:30 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
tiredofwebsites: I am too. But my experience taught otherwise. Also I believe that miss right is close by, just that I can't see her. How does that song go? "I am too blind to see her."

I think you'll know when you've met her by the butterflies in your tummy. Or if you close your eyes and imagine how you would feel if you never saw her again - that should give you a clue whether you've met her or not. I hope you bump into her soon hug
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Nov 19, 2013 4:34 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
tiredofwebsites
tiredofwebsitestiredofwebsitesDeLand, Florida USA55 Posts
Lady, I was not being literal but metaphorical about seeing. Seeing is not done with the eyes only.
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Nov 19, 2013 4:36 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
tiredofwebsites: Lady, I was not being literal but metaphorical about seeing. Seeing is not done with the eyes only.

I know! It's the heart that sees and the soul that yearns for that particular person.
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Nov 19, 2013 4:44 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
tiredofwebsites
tiredofwebsitestiredofwebsitesDeLand, Florida USA55 Posts
Actually you are getting very close to my meaning. But(trying not to be technical)it is done with the brain through interpretation. That is why we have optical illusions, for example. That is why you can see a mirage, because it does exist as an interpretation of the brain. But I digress. The point of this thread is this: if two people(as we see from this lovely blog)are both ready for love, then it happens. You are right. Nothing will stop them. The premise, though is that they are both ready for love, another very difficult thing to achieve, at the same time.
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Nov 19, 2013 5:58 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
tiredofwebsites
tiredofwebsitestiredofwebsitesDeLand, Florida USA55 Posts
unlaoised: Obviously the aim would be for the two to be together, it may take time and a lot of patience but I do believe it can be achieved.
It can. But see my post above to Ladydiz. Only under those conditions.
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Nov 19, 2013 6:00 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
tiredofwebsites: It can. But see my post above to Ladydiz. Only under those conditions.


Oh I agree with your post but I think that would apply to any relationship. It takes two people, who really want to be together, to make it work anyway
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Nov 19, 2013 6:05 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal: that sounds horribly boring and unnatural


laugh Yea, I can be Bored By Myself!
Dont need the help of a Woman in that case!snooty giggle
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Nov 19, 2013 6:16 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Yea, I can be Bored By Myself!
Dont need the help of a Woman in that case!



exactly how feel about not needing the help of man to be bored snooty laugh
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Nov 19, 2013 6:21 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
tiredofwebsites
tiredofwebsitestiredofwebsitesDeLand, Florida USA55 Posts
SoonerGal: exactly how feel about not needing the help of man to be bored
Right on!
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Nov 19, 2013 6:31 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
norgeborg: My personal opinion that it is possible for some time, but if people don't start to live in the same city, it will collapse. And if we include cheating during that period, how long is it possible to be dedicated?



It's possible ..but not easy, if it's meant to be Love heart wings will
find a way...but its takes dedication from both parties, and seriousness
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Nov 19, 2013 6:31 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal: exactly how feel about not needing the help of man to be bored


At least we can see eye to eye on something!tongue snooty giggle
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Nov 19, 2013 6:35 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
HotrodLarrys: At least we can see eye to eye on something!



it's a miracle! but if you'd pay closer attention, you might find we could agree on a couple of things comfort uh oh laugh
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Nov 19, 2013 6:42 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
SoonerGal: positively NONE but it's really not funny

Does that mean you're unnatural?

Or does it mean you've made a choice given your circumstances?
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Nov 19, 2013 6:42 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal: it's a miracle! but if you'd pay closer attention, you might find we could agree on a couple of things


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


professor Now You have My full attention!shock shock nerd
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Nov 19, 2013 6:44 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
jac379: Does that mean you're unnatural?

Or does it mean you've made a choice given your circumstances?




how about right now my circumstances are unnatural due to means beyond my control...oh my gawd am I getting analyzed laugh however, I haven't found anyone yet that I want to be intimate with...OK doh
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Nov 19, 2013 6:46 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
jac379: Does that mean you're unnatural?

Or does it mean you've made a choice given your circumstances?



what circumstances?
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Nov 19, 2013 6:47 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
SoonerGal: how about right now my circumstances are unnatural due to means beyond my control...oh my gawd am I getting analyzed however, I haven't found anyone yet that I want to be intimate with...OK


Yes Analyzed.!!! laugh you have to be careful wat you put at times, ..even more of what you don't put !laugh banana
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Nov 19, 2013 6:47 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
DaytonaDude
DaytonaDudeDaytonaDudeSouth Daytona, Florida USA33 Threads 3 Polls 2,403 Posts
I've seen it done on here many times, so it is definitely possible but there are so many factors that have to be considered (beside love) such as if children are involved, family, work, money, time, etc.
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