Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed? ( Archived) (171)

Oct 24, 2013 12:55 AM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
norgeborg
norgeborgnorgeborgStuttgart, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany7 Threads 14 Posts
My personal opinion that it is possible for some time, but if people don't start to live in the same city, it will collapse. And if we include cheating during that period, how long is it possible to be dedicated?
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Oct 24, 2013 1:33 AM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
norgeborg: My personal opinion that it is possible for some time, but if people don't start to live in the same city, it will collapse. And if we include cheating during that period, how long is it possible to be dedicated?



You just answered your own question wine
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Oct 24, 2013 1:41 AM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Chocheta
ChochetaChochetaBetween somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa1,019 Posts
norgeborg: My personal opinion that it is possible for some time, but if people don't start to live in the same city, it will collapse. And if we include cheating during that period, how long is it possible to be dedicated?


What can I say, distance sucks! moping
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Oct 24, 2013 1:51 AM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
ivajlov
ivajlovivajlovSofia, Sofia City Bulgaria25 Threads 12 Polls 387 Posts
If the beds got separated so the hearts will follow. professor
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Oct 24, 2013 5:22 AM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
I know... personally... a former CSer who is getting married this coming weekend... and it was a long distance relationship..

teddybear
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Oct 24, 2013 5:32 AM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
anything is possible in this best of possible worlds...grin

if both want it to work, they will succeed...
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Oct 24, 2013 5:35 AM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
lovemedofr
lovemedofrlovemedofrbeautiful place, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France2 Threads 1,224 Posts
Her is a big NO uh oh
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Oct 24, 2013 12:12 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
If two persons genuinely want to be together they will overcome the temporary difficulty of a long-distance relationship while they work towards being together full-time. Once there is love, commitment and the desire to be together anything is possible. hug
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Oct 24, 2013 12:16 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
My guy and I used to live in different states and cities and we're still together so I guess they can.
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Oct 24, 2013 12:17 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
LoriJames20: If two persons genuinely want to be together they will overcome the temporary difficulty of a long-distance relationship while they work towards being together full-time. Once there is love, commitment and the desire to be together anything is possible.
12.7 Million Dollars Post thumbs up
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Oct 24, 2013 12:19 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
norgeborg: My personal opinion that it is possible for some time, but if people don't start to live in the same city, it will collapse. And if we include cheating during that period, how long is it possible to be dedicated?



I couldn't even get a local relationship to work moping
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Oct 24, 2013 12:21 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal: I couldn't even get a local relationship to work
what about oversease ?wave
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Oct 24, 2013 12:22 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
SoonerGal: I couldn't even get a local relationship to work


Alli beat me to it..............but how about a mail-order one!! wink laugh
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Oct 24, 2013 12:23 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
ali110: what about oversease ?




No not at all...too much wear and tear on the ole heart and pocketbook laugh wave
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Oct 24, 2013 12:25 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal: No not at all...too much wear and tear on the ole heart and pocketbook
My uncle is Married wth an American Lady they are Together since 30 years and are spending a Happy life together hug
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Oct 24, 2013 12:25 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
LoriJames20: Alli beat me to it..............but how about a mail-order one!!



Hey you maybe onto something there...ordered to perfection hmmmmm

writing daydream
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Oct 24, 2013 12:26 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
ali110: My uncle is Married wth an American Lady they are Together since 30 years and are spending a Happy life together



that's awesome! I don't have 30 years left laugh
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Oct 24, 2013 12:28 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
SoonerGal: that's awesome! I don't have 30 years left
laugh
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Oct 24, 2013 12:40 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Yes it is possible, and some make it happen, Unfortunitely The shorter the distance, the better the results is My experience, and Different countries is even greater risk, Cost, and Immigration Laws, Lawyers is not my cup of tea anymore... I did try that....Not for Me!dunno

I feel that It would be a far more Productive Result, if BOTH Contributed equally to the overall Costs, Then BOTH are showing total commitment, Not Just one being the Big Looser if it fails! Just My Opinion!wink
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Oct 24, 2013 12:44 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Yes it is possible, and some make it happen, Unfortunitely The shorter the distance, the better the results is My experience, and Different countries is even greater risk, Cost, and Immigration Laws, Lawyers is not my cup of tea anymore... I did try that....Not for Me!

I feel that It would be a far more Productive Result, if BOTH Contributed equally to the overall Costs, Then BOTH are showing total commitment, Not Just one being the Big Looser if it fails! Just My Opinion!


hiya HrL wave

in principal i agree with you regarding shared costs relative to the income of each...
but having said that..if one is counting beans in the beginning..what will they be counting later on?
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