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Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed? ( Archived) (171)

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#141
Nov 26, 2013 11:54 AM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Pisam
PisamPisamSan Donato Milanese, Lombardy Italy2 Threads 1 Polls 51 Posts
PisamSan Donato Milanese, Lombardy Italy51 posts
Been in a long distance relationship and it does work if both are committed...what I understand from the term "Long Distance Relationship" is that You are already in a committed relationship and now one of you needs to travel to a distant location...so what do you do? Break-up? Find someone else where you are presently living? But then does that not defeat the very definition of a relationship...that at least to me signifies a connection beyond purely physical...

I was in the Navy and sailed about 8 to 10 months a year...so for 15 years, we met only for 2 to 4 months, and often in broken periods...rarely she was able to travel into a port of call when my ship was there and we would have a few days together...but worked like a charm...distance makes the heart grow fonder, as they say!
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#142
Dec 10, 2013 2:50 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
joyce14
joyce14joyce14Doha, Qatar1 Posts
joyce14Doha, Qatar1 posts
It usually works for husband and wife. But for those who are still on boyfriend-girlfriend
status, it usually fails. Options are more open when you are not married yet. For a long distance relationship, trust, loyalty and prayers will help to make the relationship strong.
Goodluck...
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#143
Dec 10, 2013 3:03 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
shell1964Marion county, Florida USA1,184 posts
everytime i see this thread it reminds me of the scammers on this sitelaugh you know the drill.. oh distance doesnt matter and i really love you BABE,HONEY,SWEETHEART,PRETTY etc..barf im out of the country on buisnessdoh south africa or nigeria and UK..etc..lets talk on messenger for 3 weeks until something happens and i need HELPfrustrated but anyway if your married to someone who travels for work i believe yes it can work..if you meet someone on a dating site hell no..scammer alert..grin
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#144
Dec 10, 2013 3:27 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
AntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria1,084 posts
shell1964: everytime i see this thread it reminds me of the scammers on this site you know the drill.. oh distance doesnt matter and i really love you BABE,HONEY,SWEETHEART,PRETTY etc.. im out of the country on buisness south africa or nigeria and UK..etc..lets talk on messenger for 3 weeks until something happens and i need HELP but anyway if your married to someone who travels for work i believe yes it can work..if you meet someone on a dating site hell no..scammer alert..



I guess that attitude it's not going to help you here... I mean you are on a DATING SITE... makes sense to DATE right?

Anyways , not everybody that wants to meet you is a scammer...

Actually Im getting married to someone I met on here in ten days... so ... I guess he wasnt a scammer...


Good luck
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#145
Dec 10, 2013 3:42 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
CcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA20,535 posts
I guess if both are committed to it.
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#146
Dec 10, 2013 3:44 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 posts
Antoniacv: I guess that attitude it's not going to help you here... I mean you are on a DATING SITE... makes sense to DATE right?

Anyways , not everybody that wants to meet you is a scammer...

Actually Im getting married to someone I met on here in ten days... so ... I guess he wasnt a scammer...Good luck


You are an inspiration and a beacon of hope to us all. I wish you all the happiness in the world. You deserve it for having the courage, faith and commitment to make it happen. I hope many more will find the same within themselves to make love happen for them. bouquet
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#147
Dec 10, 2013 3:45 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada18,576 posts
Ccincy: I guess if both are committed to it.


I agree, committment by both is the most important part...with that, all the rest falls into place. wave
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#148
Dec 10, 2013 3:47 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
unlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland12,152 posts
Antoniacv: I guess that attitude it's not going to help you here... I mean you are on a DATING SITE... makes sense to DATE right?

Anyways , not everybody that wants to meet you is a scammer...

Actually Im getting married to someone I met on here in ten days... so ... I guess he wasnt a scammer...Good luck


So right thumbs up Not everyone from another country is a scammer...it's pretty easy to differentiate
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#149
Dec 10, 2013 4:10 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
montemonteunknown, New Jersey USA5,631 posts
norgeborg: My personal opinion that it is possible for some time, but if people don't start to live in the same city, it will collapse.



thumbs up sad
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#150
Dec 10, 2013 4:22 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
CcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA20,535 posts
norgeborg: My personal opinion that it is possible for some time, but if people don't start to live in the same city, it will collapse. And if we include cheating during that period, how long is it possible to be dedicated?





I so heartedly agree with what you posted.

I moved here to Ohio ,months after I met my guy.He wasn't able to move where I was living cause of his mothers health.


Also if there's no trust in a relationship regardless of where both live it's not a relationship either.
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#151
Dec 10, 2013 4:31 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
shell1964Marion county, Florida USA1,184 posts
Antoniacv: I guess that attitude it's not going to help you here... I mean you are on a DATING SITE... makes sense to DATE right?

Anyways , not everybody that wants to meet you is a scammer...

Actually Im getting married to someone I met on here in ten days... so ... I guess he wasnt a scammer...Good luck
if your getting married why you still on dating site???

FYI-I dont have an attitude and im happy you met someone..most of the time they are scammers emailing me here on this site and i had luck THANK YOU i did meet someone here..been on 2 dates and he is here in PA...blah
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#152
Dec 10, 2013 4:37 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada1,595 posts
If you both are honest with each other and want it bad enough!grin
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#153
Dec 10, 2013 4:47 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada6,600 posts
Scott1812: If you both are honest with each other and want it bad enough!
Like any relationship it takes a lot of physical time to know someone. Online wont cut it but certainly worth looking.wave Hi Scott
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#154
Dec 10, 2013 4:53 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
AntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria1,084 posts
shell1964: if your getting married why you still on dating site???

FYI-I dont have an attitude and im happy you met someone..most of the time they are scammers emailing me here on this site and i had luck THANK YOU i did meet someone here..been on 2 dates and he is here in PA...


Emm...I am not supposed to gie you explanations about what I do or what I dont.

Second : Saying that EVERYBODY that wants to meet you is a scammer - as a generalization - is a bad attitude.

Actually i could ask : If everybody sucks here why are u still around ?


Not that I care , just Im saying to explain myself.
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#155
Dec 10, 2013 4:55 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
AntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria1,084 posts
LadyDiz: You are an inspiration and a beacon of hope to us all. I wish you all the happiness in the world. You deserve it for having the courage, faith and commitment to make it happen. I hope many more will find the same within themselves to make love happen for them.


Thank you sooo much for your good wishesssss

Yep it has been lots of work but totally worths it


hug teddybear
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#156
Dec 10, 2013 5:15 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
truheart1941online today!
truheart1941online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Posts
truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK25,171 posts
In response to: My personal opinion that it is possible for some time, but if people don't start to live in the same city, it will collapse. And if we include cheating during that period, how long is it possible to be dedicated?
....I like long dis/ relationship.......why......when theres to much .......blah blah blah blah .....you just simply turn the computer off...............rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin ...........tongue blues laugh
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#157
Dec 10, 2013 6:37 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
Antoniacv: I guess that attitude it's not going to help you here... I mean you are on a DATING SITE... makes sense to DATE right?

Anyways , not everybody that wants to meet you is a scammer...

Actually Im getting married to someone I met on here in ten days... so ... I guess he wasnt a scammer...Good luck



great! thumbs up The courageous optimists always know how to find solution instead of making endless excuses
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#158
Dec 10, 2013 6:43 PM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1,172 posts
Cyn_Real: great! The courageous optimists always know how to find solution instead of making endless excuses


If only most of us were courageous optimists! thumbs up
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#159
Dec 11, 2013 2:10 AM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
AntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria1,084 posts
Cyn_Real: great! The courageous optimists always know how to find solution instead of making endless excuses



Thank you Cyn girl !!! teddybear
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#160
Dec 11, 2013 2:11 AM CST Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece15,811 posts
shell1964: if your getting married why you still on dating site???

FYI-I dont have an attitude and im happy you met someone..most of the time they are scammers emailing me here on this site and i had luck THANK YOU i did meet someone here..been on 2 dates and he is here in PA...
Who said,just because she is getting married,she cannot be on a dating site. Surely she likes this site,as she interacts with people in the Forums, Blogs and whatever else has the site to offer her.
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