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Krokox: What do you mean by that 2i? I don't understand. How can you hurt someone by flirting him? I mean the receiver of the flirt can feel flattered, annoyed if he doesn't welcome it, disgusted if he finds it improper or way out of line, but hurt? Why?
Hiya Krokox
What I'm referring to are people who are relating behind the scenes and unbeknownst to people in the forums, there's flirting that is affecting the "behind the scenes" relationship in some way.------ This thread is Archived ------
jac379: If there's interest on both sides, the flirting either intensifies and becomes very focussed between the two people, rather than general group flirting...or two people stop larking about quite so much as start saying some serious things to each other...or both.
If there's only interest on one side, the disinterested party starts to block, or pull back from any intensification from the interested party. Its a way of making boundaries in all sorts of subtle ways.
If there's no interest on either side, you carry on, whilst keeping a gleeful eye on other people's flirt-interest evolution...general flirting, if you watch the forums enough, creates an environment where other people can begin their own dance, too.
If there's only interest on one side, the disinterested party starts to block, or pull back from any intensification from the interested party. Its a way of making boundaries in all sorts of subtle ways.
If there's no interest on either side, you carry on, whilst keeping a gleeful eye on other people's flirt-interest evolution...general flirting, if you watch the forums enough, creates an environment where other people can begin their own dance, too.
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jac379: If there's interest on both sides, the flirting either intensifies and becomes very focussed between the two people, rather than general group flirting...or two people stop larking about quite so much as start saying some serious things to each other...or both.
If there's only interest on one side, the disinterested party starts to block, or pull back from any intensification from the interested party. Its a way of making boundaries in all sorts of subtle ways.
If there's no interest on either side, you carry on, whilst keeping a gleeful eye on other people's flirt-interest evolution...general flirting, if you watch the forums enough, creates an environment where other people can begin their own dance, too.
cobblers..........If there's only interest on one side, the disinterested party starts to block, or pull back from any intensification from the interested party. Its a way of making boundaries in all sorts of subtle ways.
If there's no interest on either side, you carry on, whilst keeping a gleeful eye on other people's flirt-interest evolution...general flirting, if you watch the forums enough, creates an environment where other people can begin their own dance, too.
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2intrigued: I hope you had fun last night.
Yes, some Friends had a Costume party in a garage in the county, Played pool, and just had good fun, Music and dancing... It was Nice! I Just Dressed as Birthday Boy! Lol
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unlaoised: Ah now, Ro...why would you mess with a married man?
You know that it's a no win situation ...for you!
Yes I know. I just had to tell a few friends. It is not likely that I would be willing to meet him in person. Cheating is not cool, no matter the gender, etc... Perhaps I am just tired of not having someone. (footnote: it is well known that married/involved men have or want gay relationships. Many people cannot cope with being gay. It's sad. But you are right, it does not validate being unfaithful).You know that it's a no win situation ...for you!
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jac379: If there's interest on both sides, the flirting either intensifies and becomes very focussed between the two people, rather than general group flirting...or two people stop larking about quite so much as start saying some serious things to each other...or both.
If there's only interest on one side, the disinterested party starts to block, or pull back from any intensification from the interested party. Its a way of making boundaries in all sorts of subtle ways.
If there's no interest on either side, you carry on, whilst keeping a gleeful eye on other people's flirt-interest evolution...general flirting, if you watch the forums enough, creates an environment where other people can begin their own dance, too.
If there's only interest on one side, the disinterested party starts to block, or pull back from any intensification from the interested party. Its a way of making boundaries in all sorts of subtle ways.
If there's no interest on either side, you carry on, whilst keeping a gleeful eye on other people's flirt-interest evolution...general flirting, if you watch the forums enough, creates an environment where other people can begin their own dance, too.
ok Jac you intrigue me there's lovely
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rohaan: Yes I know. I just had to tell a few friends. It is not likely that I would be willing to meet him in person. Cheating is not cool, no matter the gender, etc... Perhaps I am just tired of not having someone. (footnote: it is well known that married/involved men have or want gay relationships. Many people cannot cope with being gay. It's sad. But you are right, it does not validate being unfaithful).
I understand the weariness of being alone but you realise that in the end, you will be the one to get hurt, honey. He's already lying to his wife, simply by the fact that he's married to her...do you want someone like that in your life? I'd say you're worth a lot more
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truheart1941: ...she keeps laughing at me
Oh poor you! Do you want me to scold her?
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Krokox: Oh poor you! Do you want me to scold her?
.....yes please..........
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jac379: If there's interest on both sides, the flirting either intensifies and becomes very focussed between the two people, rather than general group flirting...or two people stop larking about quite so much as start saying some serious things to each other...or both.
If there's only interest on one side, the disinterested party starts to block, or pull back from any intensification from the interested party. Its a way of making boundaries in all sorts of subtle ways.
If there's no interest on either side, you carry on, whilst keeping a gleeful eye on other people's flirt-interest evolution...general flirting, if you watch the forums enough, creates an environment where other people can begin their own dance, too.
If there's only interest on one side, the disinterested party starts to block, or pull back from any intensification from the interested party. Its a way of making boundaries in all sorts of subtle ways.
If there's no interest on either side, you carry on, whilst keeping a gleeful eye on other people's flirt-interest evolution...general flirting, if you watch the forums enough, creates an environment where other people can begin their own dance, too.
I agree, natural progression of what starts out as flirting in the forums and carries on to private email.
As I mentioned earlier, fun flirting is perfectly fine although I would have trouble taking someone seriously if their flirting went beyond that fun level constantly and with everyone. Begin their own dance is key.
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truheart1941: .....yes please..........
Are You Flirting ------ This thread is Archived ------
HotrodLarrys: Are You Flirting again Still??
..hi Larry.....no its that vocaroo thing....every time I try she keeps laughing....ing2......so....so funny.....------ This thread is Archived ------
truheart1941: .....yes please..........
@2intrigued.
Hey girl, stop immediately laughing at the expense of poor little tru. Don't you see how badly you hurt his feelings? Please apologize to him immediately and ask for repentance.@truheart1941: OK honey I scolded her. Do you feel better now? I'm sure she will be sorry for her bad bad behavior now.
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In response to: HEY LADIES
DID YOU LIKE TO FLIRT,YOU HAVE EVER FLIRT ANY PERSON IF SO THAN WHY?
DID YOU LIKE TO FLIRT,YOU HAVE EVER FLIRT ANY PERSON IF SO THAN WHY?
I think too many think to much about how someone else is coming across...I think it's pretty clear where I stand, not ready for dating and what have you, I do like cutting up and having fun though
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Krokox: @2intrigued. Hey girl, stop immediately laughing at the expense of poor little tru. Don't you see how badly you hurt his feelings? Please apologize to him immediately and ask for repentance.
@truheart1941: OK honey I scolded her. Do you feel better now? I'm sure she will be sorry for her bad bad behavior now.
.....thank you pet.........@truheart1941: OK honey I scolded her. Do you feel better now? I'm sure she will be sorry for her bad bad behavior now.
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truheart1941: ..hi Larry.....no its that vocaroo thing....every time I try she keeps laughing....ing2......so....so funny.....
Lol...Looks like flirting to me!
as far as My opinion, to flirting, I am single, and free to flirt as I wish... Unless I am getting Serious with someone, Then that changes...
But as long as I am Single!
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2intrigued: Sorry about not being clear in my other post...I'm not always gifted with an ability to express myself properly. Yes, that's what I mean and I think a lot of people here know this type of thing happens.
Oh don't worry about it 2i. Your postings are perfectly fine.
Actually no, I didn't know this thing could happen. I mean there was a thread not long ago on this issue, but I thought the "couple" only started to have a correspondence so there weren't feelings involved. I haven't realized this happens between people who actually have a relationship!!!
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HotrodLarrys: Lol...Looks like flirting to me! as far as My opinion, to flirting, I am single, and free to flirt as I wish... Unless I am getting Serious with someone, Then that changes...
But as long as I am Single!
...owwwwwwww. you seem like a nice boy.......But as long as I am Single!
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If there's interest on both sides, the flirting either intensifies and becomes very focussed between the two people, rather than general group flirting...or two people stop larking about quite so much as start saying some serious things to each other...or both.
If there's only interest on one side, the disinterested party starts to block, or pull back from any intensification from the interested party. Its a way of making boundaries in all sorts of subtle ways.
If there's no interest on either side, you carry on, whilst keeping a gleeful eye on other people's flirt-interest evolution...general flirting, if you watch the forums enough, creates an environment where other people can begin their own dance, too.