Happy Birthday NotABlonde!! (58)

Nov 11, 2013 12:09 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
LiLee: So what is it about him that keeps you at arms length

or is it that undefinable thing called chemistry


I really don't know, we do get on well....it's got to be the chemistry thing. He seems to be majoring in it, while I'm flunking out.
Nov 11, 2013 12:15 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
LiLee
LiLeeLiLeeIpswich, Queensland Australia53 Threads 1,760 Posts
NotABlonde: I really don't know, we do get on well....it's got to be the chemistry thing. He seems to be majoring in it, while I'm flunking out.


Hmmm it's never easy to reject someone who you don't have feelings for conversing

but "to thyself, be true"

Good luck with it sad flower
Nov 11, 2013 12:19 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
LiLee: Hmmm it's never easy to reject someone who you don't have feelings for

but "to thyself, be true"

Good luck with it


AND it's costing me $100 every week for nibbles.

I'll leave it a couple of days and then do the deed.
Nov 11, 2013 12:46 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
NotABlonde: AND it's costing me $100 every week for nibbles.

I'll leave it a couple of days and then do the deed.







shock $100 a week for nibbles doh Just bite the blo*dy thing off nabby.


Wonder what he charges for the deed krist! doh doh
Nov 11, 2013 1:09 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
NotABlonde: AND it's costing me $100 every week for nibbles.

I'll leave it a couple of days and then do the deed.
Jezzzzzzzz big budget , before you put him off , I doubt if you are ever going to feel like a bloody teenager again with anyone . Soooooooooooo , let the guy know what you like about him and what you want rather than pulling the plug .
Nov 11, 2013 1:14 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
epirb: Jezzzzzzzz big budget , before you put him off , I doubt if you are ever going to feel like a bloody teenager again with anyone . Soooooooooooo , let the guy know what you like about him and what you want rather than pulling the plug .


Funnily enough he's just asked what I feel about him (I tried pulling the plug).

I don't want to feel like a teenager, I want to feel "right" about things....and I don't.
Nov 11, 2013 1:17 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
NotABlonde: AND it's costing me $100 every week for nibbles.

I'll leave it a couple of days and then do the deed.



Yep you need to get it sorted ASAP Nab, this guy will be thinking you're into him and the longer you leave it the harder he's gonna take it thumbs up
Nov 11, 2013 1:21 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
serene56: Yep you need to get it sorted ASAP Nab, this guy will be thinking you're into him and the longer you leave it the harder he's gonna take it


I just told him that while ever he's seeing me he might be missing out on meeting the right person for him.
Nov 11, 2013 1:29 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
NotABlonde: I just told him that while ever he's seeing me he might be missing out on meeting the right person for him.



Did you tell him straight out that he's not the one for you?


Men need to hear this directly thumbs up
Nov 11, 2013 1:31 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
I've told him I think we should both see other people and I can't see us going any further than friendship.
Nov 11, 2013 1:32 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
NotABlonde: I just told him that while ever he's seeing me he might be missing out on meeting the right person for him.
hope he is able to work out cryptic messages
Nov 11, 2013 1:34 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
NotABlonde: I've told him I think we should both see other people and I can't see us going any further than friendship.



Can't help thinking you're giving him hope sigh

He'll think if he keeps at you, you'll come around .. if you're up for that, fine, but if not it would be better to set him free and say bye bye in my books conversing
Nov 11, 2013 1:35 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
epirb: hope he is able to work out cryptic messages



Precisely .. thank you for giving a male's view epi handshake
Nov 11, 2013 1:38 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
Thank you both for your views.

The response I've received from him leaves me in no doubt that he understands exactly what I meant.
Nov 11, 2013 1:40 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
LiLee
LiLeeLiLeeIpswich, Queensland Australia53 Threads 1,760 Posts
NotABlonde: Thank you both for your views.

The response I've received from him leaves me in no doubt that he understands exactly what I meant.


Am I right in guessing he didn't take it well blues
Nov 11, 2013 1:42 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
He was fine....his reply was:

Look just sleep on it. If you want a relationship with me that would be great but if you want to see other people then that's fine we just stay friends.


Sorted.
Nov 11, 2013 1:42 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
LiLee: That's a bit harsh epirb.....



laugh
Nov 11, 2013 1:44 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
NotABlonde: He was fine....his reply was:

Look just sleep on it. If you want a relationship with me that would be great but if you want to see other people then that's fine we just stay friends.Sorted.



So what time do you reckon he'll rock up tomorrow night rolling on the floor laughing


Sorry giggle
Nov 11, 2013 1:45 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
LiLee
LiLeeLiLeeIpswich, Queensland Australia53 Threads 1,760 Posts
NotABlonde: He was fine....his reply was:

Look just sleep on it. If you want a relationship with me that would be great but if you want to see other people then that's fine we just stay friends.Sorted.


Sounds like a nice guy handshake Glad you can stay friends

How come the last fella I met, who I broke it off with, cause it wasn't right, turned out to be a nutter uh oh

Looks like me and jem know how to pick em rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 11, 2013 1:46 AM CST Happy Birthday NotABlonde!!
wash2u
wash2uwash2uMelbourne, Victoria Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 3,768 Posts
NotABlonde: I've told him I think we should both see other people and I can't see us going any further than friendship.


That seems to me to be a polite way to say "forget it."

Holy Crap, Batman NAB, you can make the passion play until 3am during moviesdoh and then say I want to be friends ??????????????
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