is my profile that bad or is it me in my pictures that women dont wright back....women only please (40)
justlookingforfunavan, Meath Ireland4 Threads 32 PostsLooking for help here
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justlookingforfu: Looking for help here
Cant actually see you in your pics so maybe a few clearer ones. Your profile is a bit sparse to.
Women tend not to like one line mail either, dont know if you do that so just mentioning it.
Other than that just relax, join in the forums and keep contacting girls you are interested in.
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Glatlol: Cant actually see you in your pics so maybe a few clearer ones. Your profile is a bit sparse to. Women tend not to like one line mail either, dont know if you do that so just mentioning it.
Other than that just relax, join in the forums and keep contacting girls you are interested in.
Other than that just relax, join in the forums and keep contacting girls you are interested in.
Thanks :) iv sent in loads of pictures and this is all they put up so far there very slow when you email them....was just going to quit it all im getting mail but not the people i like do
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I'm going to sound mumsie if I say anything about you drinking too much Red Bull and tell you to pull your trousers up higher, aren't I?
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In response to: Looking for help here
I have to agree that your picture is very unclear. When someone sends me mail/flower and the picture is as unclear as yours, I believe that it's a scammer and I won't respond. Post something that shows your facial features. Maybe post a little more about yourself/hobbies, i.e., romantic, atletic, loves to read, cook, hike, things similiar to that.Other than those minor adjustments, it's alright.
Good luck to you.
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jac379: I'm going to sound mumsie if I say anything about you drinking too much Red Bull and tell you to pull your trousers up higher, aren't I?
No I think I need the help here...theres no far in redbull that's why im too much in to my keeping fit.cant get my pictures up on this still waiting on them to upload
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jac379: I'm going to sound mumsie if I say anything about you drinking too much Red Bull and tell you to pull your trousers up higher, aren't I?
No I think I need the help here...theres no far in redbull that's why im too much in to my keeping fit.cant get my pictures up on this still waiting on them to upload
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justlookingforfu: No I think I need the help here...theres no far in redbull that's why im too much in to my keeping fit.cant get my pictures up on this still waiting on them to upload
Last time I looked you upload the pictures your self, you don't mail them and hope they put them up.
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Obscuritan: Last time I looked you upload the pictures your self, you don't mail them and hope they put them up.
Id tryed upload them won't work had to email them in what Evers up with that
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I was a woman in a previous life ...
Seriously fella, if you want to stand a chance with gals it's up to you to figure them out for yourself.
It's not as if there weren't a thousand 'expert sites' on the net (Let Google be your friend)
But standing on a (cyber) street corner begging women to tell you 'whats wrong my approach' is just so, so, so not effective.
Kill this profile, get rid of the pics, follow some advice from the saner sites that offer dating advice and come back with a different approach and a different, male oriented username!
Flame away ... there's TWO reasons
1) I'm come to expect that people who ask advice really never wanna here the answers
2) Guys who do 'women only reply' threads are so hoping some chick is gonna come into the thread and they hope to hit on her! So far ( and no disrespect here to those who posted ) - yer getting the Wise Ole Hens!
And 'Top o The Morning to Y'all' on the Emerald Isle !
Seriously fella, if you want to stand a chance with gals it's up to you to figure them out for yourself.
It's not as if there weren't a thousand 'expert sites' on the net (Let Google be your friend)
But standing on a (cyber) street corner begging women to tell you 'whats wrong my approach' is just so, so, so not effective.
Kill this profile, get rid of the pics, follow some advice from the saner sites that offer dating advice and come back with a different approach and a different, male oriented username!
Flame away ... there's TWO reasons
1) I'm come to expect that people who ask advice really never wanna here the answers
2) Guys who do 'women only reply' threads are so hoping some chick is gonna come into the thread and they hope to hit on her! So far ( and no disrespect here to those who posted ) - yer getting the Wise Ole Hens!
And 'Top o The Morning to Y'all' on the Emerald Isle !
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HexagonKeySet: I was a woman in a previous life ...
Seriously fella, if you want to stand a chance with gals it's up to you to figure them out for yourself.
It's not as if there weren't a thousand 'expert sites' on the net (Let Google be your friend)
But standing on a (cyber) street corner begging women to tell you 'whats wrong my approach' is just so, so, so not effective.
Kill this profile, get rid of the pics, follow some advice from the saner sites that offer dating advice and come back with a different approach and a different, male oriented username!
Flame away ... there's TWO reasons
1) I'm come to expect that people who ask advice really never wanna here the answers
2) Guys who do 'women only reply' threads are so hoping some chick is gonna come into the thread and they hope to hit on her! So far ( and no disrespect here to those who posted ) - yer getting the Wise Ole Hens!
And 'Top o The Morning to Y'all' on the Emerald Isle !
Seriously fella, if you want to stand a chance with gals it's up to you to figure them out for yourself.
It's not as if there weren't a thousand 'expert sites' on the net (Let Google be your friend)
But standing on a (cyber) street corner begging women to tell you 'whats wrong my approach' is just so, so, so not effective.
Kill this profile, get rid of the pics, follow some advice from the saner sites that offer dating advice and come back with a different approach and a different, male oriented username!
Flame away ... there's TWO reasons
1) I'm come to expect that people who ask advice really never wanna here the answers
2) Guys who do 'women only reply' threads are so hoping some chick is gonna come into the thread and they hope to hit on her! So far ( and no disrespect here to those who posted ) - yer getting the Wise Ole Hens!
And 'Top o The Morning to Y'all' on the Emerald Isle !
I no your properly right...but some of the women on this do help and its not getting women to wright to me or that is getting the ones i like and get talking to them not the ones that is mailing me...cheers for the help do
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justlookingforfu: Id tryed upload them won't work had to email them in what Evers up with that
I just tried it to see if anything had changed. Looks pretty simple.
Click "My Profile"
See all the options under "My Profile Admin"in green lettering?
Among the first few is "Upload New Photo"
Click that and pres the button marked "Choose File"
Then find your file, enter a caption if you want the click "Upload Photo"
Don't use huge files; they suggest 200kB.
Good luck
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hello my friend,to be honest all the advice youve received up to press is spot on...i would only echo everyones comments...youre pics arent doing you any favours,i know youre having difficulty uploading so the moment you can sort that out the better......the lady also mentioned youre profile description/wording....more detail might well be a good idea,,you can add allsorts there,its good to have a more detailed descript about yourself...likes/dislikes,hobbies etc...im not saying to write a million words,,just a tad more to give the women a better insight about yourself.....au revoir... 
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@justlookingforfu...
Pictures of you in your work gear and sports gear can be an effective way of showing what you're all about. These two pics aren't particularly flattering though. You seem to suit dark colours better than bright and sunglasses hide your eyes. I suspect you need to hitch your tracky bottoms up on your second pic.
It would be good to have one good picture of your face and maybe even consider having that done professionally. Professional photographers tend to have an eye for capturing you at your best, which will counterbalance any less flattering snapshots which show you being active.
As for what you've written, whilst it's good to talk about your interests and work, this thread has exposed more of the real you and what you have to offer in a relationship.
You've demonstrated your openness, strength of mind, courage, will to find out how to make things work for you. I really admire those qualities. They're the qualities which will make an emotionally sophisticated young woman swoon. Maybe you can find a way of getting some of this stuff in your profile.
I suspect you have an artistic, or creative side. It would be nice to see some of that, too. Maybe a pic of something you've made, or created? Maybe some of your ideas for your future development?
I hope this is food for thought for you and that you find your own path. I shan't wish you good luck, I don't think you need it. I think life is going to happen for you because you're going to create it out of the good resources you have.
Pictures of you in your work gear and sports gear can be an effective way of showing what you're all about. These two pics aren't particularly flattering though. You seem to suit dark colours better than bright and sunglasses hide your eyes. I suspect you need to hitch your tracky bottoms up on your second pic.
It would be good to have one good picture of your face and maybe even consider having that done professionally. Professional photographers tend to have an eye for capturing you at your best, which will counterbalance any less flattering snapshots which show you being active.
As for what you've written, whilst it's good to talk about your interests and work, this thread has exposed more of the real you and what you have to offer in a relationship.
You've demonstrated your openness, strength of mind, courage, will to find out how to make things work for you. I really admire those qualities. They're the qualities which will make an emotionally sophisticated young woman swoon. Maybe you can find a way of getting some of this stuff in your profile.
I suspect you have an artistic, or creative side. It would be nice to see some of that, too. Maybe a pic of something you've made, or created? Maybe some of your ideas for your future development?
I hope this is food for thought for you and that you find your own path. I shan't wish you good luck, I don't think you need it. I think life is going to happen for you because you're going to create it out of the good resources you have.
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