Is it wrong to kiss on the first date? (63)
peachmelba: Yes lois you understand what I mean,
Sorry, Laois.
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peachmelba: Your know what I mean cheeky,... .
Im Talking about men. That I've been getting on with on line and abit of cheek flirtation is okay but I'm on about when they make really suggestive stuff for when we meet up and they spoil it for themselves and me because its the mystery and element of suprise and to just go with the flow without this expectation of theirs that they suggest,its spoils the romance,the mystery,element of suprise before even meeting them..that is not clever seduction if thete was going to be any,.
Im Talking about men. That I've been getting on with on line and abit of cheek flirtation is okay but I'm on about when they make really suggestive stuff for when we meet up and they spoil it for themselves and me because its the mystery and element of suprise and to just go with the flow without this expectation of theirs that they suggest,its spoils the romance,the mystery,element of suprise before even meeting them..that is not clever seduction if thete was going to be any,.
I guess so if you are local and going out in person , you can just wait to see.....What about when I talk to people overseas and the meet is almost impossible ? Sometimes a fantasy dream encounter is all you have to keep the interest going .....I have had mixed results here but some really love it and profess love for me after reading my story ?
I guess it is a gamble .....I have studied women for 50 years and still don't fully understand so I do appreciate you gals helping me out !
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It ain't happening unless both of you want to so.....NO!!!!
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unlaoised: There's a way of expressing your interest without getting smutty
I know that but it is like walking a tightrope if you lean to far one way or the other you fall/ fail !
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Veaster54: I guess so if you are local and going out in person , you can just wait to see.....What about when I talk to people overseas and the meet is almost impossible ? Sometimes a fantasy dream encounter is all you have to keep the interest going .....I have had mixed results here but some really love it and profess love for me after reading my story ?
I guess it is a gamble .....I have studied women for 50 years and still don't fully understand so I do appreciate you gals helping me out !
I guess it is a gamble .....I have studied women for 50 years and still don't fully understand so I do appreciate you gals helping me out !
Yes of course a fantasy encounter is fine but why waste your time and try to find a woman to meet for real ,,
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peachmelba: Sorry, Laois.
No worries
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Veaster54: I guess so if you are local and going out in person , you can just wait to see.....What about when I talk to people overseas and the meet is almost impossible ? Sometimes a fantasy dream encounter is all you have to keep the interest going .....I have had mixed results here but some really love it and profess love for me after reading my story ?
I guess it is a gamble .....I have studied women for 50 years and still don't fully understand so I do appreciate you gals helping me out !
I guess it is a gamble .....I have studied women for 50 years and still don't fully understand so I do appreciate you gals helping me out !
Women are meant to be loved, not understood
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peachmelba: Yes of course a fantasy encounter is fine but why waste your time and try to find a woman to meet for real ,,
Peaches , when I first came here I did just that and it was boring . The locals in my area were totally non responsive so I ventured out beyond and discovered women in other parts of the world were very different and much more receptive to gentleman kindness and romantic notions !
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Veaster54: Peaches , when I first came here I did just that and it was boring . The locals in my area were totally non responsive so I ventured out beyond and discovered women in other parts of the world were very different and much more receptive to gentleman kindness and romantic notions !
Yes your. Spoilt for choice now,,, Women all over the world you 007 you,..lol.
.Shaken but not stirred,,
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unlaoised: Women are meant to be loved, not understood
I know that Laoised , but to love them I must totally understand what makes them tick and find just the right combination to push the buttons of love and attraction ......The loving them I have no problem with , got that figured out .....it is the fine line of creating attraction and desire without being offensive and putting them off as we have discussed !
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Veaster54: I know that Laoised , but to love them I must totally understand what makes them tick and find just the right combination to push the buttons of love and attraction ......The loving them I have no problem with , got that figured out .....it is the fine line of creating attraction and desire without being offensive and putting them off as we have discussed !
I was teasing, Veaster. Heck, I'd love to understand men
Oh well ...
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peachmelba: Yes your. Spoilt for choice now,,, Women all over the world you 007 you,..lol. .
Shaken but not stirred,, .
Shaken but not stirred,, .
No NO ...I did not mean it like that ! Not some 007 lover boy... just a man who truly enjoys female interaction be it conversational or physical , real time or cyber .... I have talked to you before in messages , you know I am not like that !
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unlaoised: I was teasing, Veaster. Heck, I'd love to understand men
Oh well ...
Oh well ...
Well lets talk to each other about this stuff more , I knew you were teasing but we should exchange ideas, we already have a good start here and I respect your and Peaches input ( God I love those Peaches ) Oh sorry , it was my thoughts ...did not mean to print that ! See , it is hard to be good all the time !
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No, it's not wrong.
It's a kiss, not a wedding proposal.
It's a kiss, not a wedding proposal.
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Veaster54: Well lets talk to each other about this stuff more , I knew you were teasing but we should exchange ideas, we already have a good start here and I respect your and Peaches input ( God I love those Peaches ) Oh sorry , it was my thoughts ...did not mean to print that ! See , it is hard to be good all the time !
Nobody's saying, be good all the time...how boring!! but there's a time and place for everything and peaches is right, it's a spoiler when it's smutty. That's how I feel, anyway...maybe others enjoy it
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If I find someone attractive and want to see him again, of course he gets a couple of kisses. 
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Benny1518: The first date is usually a very awkward time and for a guy to initiate this type of intimacy so early can produce a negative response.
The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
I'd chance it The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
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Veaster54: No NO ...I did not mean it like that ! Not some 007 lover boy... just a man who truly enjoys female interaction be it conversational or physical , real time or cyber .... I have talked to you before in messages , you know I am not like that !
It's okay to flirt ,, I wasn't talking about that I was talking about men just when we were going to meet up,and of course a kiss is okay on first date but can't predict it before meeting up with a man,,
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There is no right or wrong . You cannot pre-plan these things.
You have to wait and see the mood, the chemistry , the atmosphere, and then you will know .
And good communication, even at that early stage, helps you to know if you are in the same frame of mind, or not.
You have to wait and see the mood, the chemistry , the atmosphere, and then you will know .
And good communication, even at that early stage, helps you to know if you are in the same frame of mind, or not.
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