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Dec 16, 2014 10:51 PM CST femini
Femini
FeminiFeminiCape Town, Western Cape South Africa1 Threads 1 Posts
Where have all the good guys gone?
Guys are into 50/50 when it comes to dating, when did that new rule begin- so that you as a lady feel obligated to keep them happy. Not me, I will not keep a guy happy after we started out as friends. I will do what my mother taught me- don't run after a guy because if he values you as a lady, he will do the right thing.
I'm looking for guys who will do the gentleman thing here. I started to chat to guy and wanted me to call him because he was low on airtime. He actually demanded that I call him. Hell no, I didn't call him. This was a foreign engineer in my country South Africa.
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Dec 19, 2014 5:31 PM CST femini
diggadavo
diggadavodiggadavoHexham, Victoria Australia355 Posts
I'm lonely! If I pm you my number would you call me please?

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Dec 19, 2014 5:33 PM CST femini
Femini: Where have all the good guys gone?
Guys are into 50/50 when it comes to dating, when did that new rule begin- so that you as a lady feel obligated to keep them happy. Not me, I will not keep a guy happy after we started out as friends. I will do what my mother taught me- don't run after a guy because if he values you as a lady, he will do the right thing.
I'm looking for guys who will do the gentleman thing here. I started to chat to guy and wanted me to call him because he was low on airtime. He actually demanded that I call him. Hell no, I didn't call him. This was a foreign engineer in my country South Africa.
You were right not to call ,,, he seems a bit mad ...
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Dec 19, 2014 6:18 PM CST femini
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Femini: Where have all the good guys gone?
Guys are into 50/50 when it comes to dating, when did that new rule begin- so that you as a lady feel obligated to keep them happy. Not me, I will not keep a guy happy after we started out as friends. I will do what my mother taught me- don't run after a guy because if he values you as a lady, he will do the right thing.
I'm looking for guys who will do the gentleman thing here. I started to chat to guy and wanted me to call him because he was low on airtime. He actually demanded that I call him. Hell no, I didn't call him. This was a foreign engineer in my country South Africa.


Being 50/50 doesn't have to mean running after a guy. dunno

It just means just that - 50/50. Women work and earn, are educated, have their own money, so we don't expect the man to do and pay for everything.

Use free software like Viber/Skype/Whatsapp etc., to reduce phone bills if money is tight. Nobody, not even men, have a limitless budget.
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Dec 19, 2014 7:57 PM CST femini
men will often offer to let you call first because many women do not want to give out their phone #s right away. So you can block your number and call him.wave

But if anything does not feel right, trust you gut and don't do itthumbs up
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Dec 20, 2014 8:21 AM CST femini
Femini: Where have all the good guys gone?
Guys are into 50/50 when it comes to dating, when did that new rule begin- so that you as a lady feel obligated to keep them happy. Not me, I will not keep a guy happy after we started out as friends. I will do what my mother taught me- don't run after a guy because if he values you as a lady, he will do the right thing.
I'm looking for guys who will do the gentleman thing here. I started to chat to guy and wanted me to call him because he was low on airtime. He actually demanded that I call him. Hell no, I didn't call him. This was a foreign engineer in my country South Africa.

You dodged a bullet and you don't even know it. This is a common trait of a control freak. The next thing he would have done if you oblidged him by calling would be to ask you to help him out with a little money probably because his equipment was siezed by the authorities and he needs the money to get them back so he can earn the money to pay you back. Of course his credit card for some unknown reason doesn't seem to work in S.A. Oh and his daughter needs emergency medical care too and because he's a widower (his wife died in a horrible car crash)violin blah blah blah blah
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