Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date? ( Archived) (32)

Jan 10, 2015 6:02 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
impulsive
impulsiveimpulsivedublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 3 Posts
Go on a social network site if you just want to waste peoples time sending pointless mails, gets on my nerves! Errrr
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Jan 10, 2015 6:17 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
This isn't just a dating site.

That's why there are options for friends, talk, email, penpal, etc.

Just sayin'.
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Jan 10, 2015 6:23 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
impulsive: Go on a social network site if you just want to waste peoples time sending pointless mails, gets on my nerves! Errrr
Hang out here on the forums for awhile.
You will laugh and get to know some wonderful people on CS.
You are in a great place for meeting CSers face to face, as meetups seem regular in Ireland.
So enjoy your stay here.
Everyone is wonderful here...except me. crazy
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Jan 10, 2015 6:29 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
jac_the_gripper: This isn't just a dating site.

That's why there are options for friends, talk, email, penpal, etc.

Just sayin'.
HI Jac.....thanks for a wonderful evening...you should sleep well tonight......batting batting giggle giggle giggle
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Jan 10, 2015 6:33 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
PS. Use your filters?
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Jan 10, 2015 6:33 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
truheart1941: HI Jac.....thanks for a wonderful evening...you should sleep well tonight......
That just made me spit my drink all over this screen. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 10, 2015 6:36 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
truheart1941: HI Jac.....thanks for a wonderful evening...you should sleep well tonight......

Oh yeah, I forgot activity partner.

Thanks Pete, you're a pal. blushing
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Jan 10, 2015 6:44 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
impulsive
impulsiveimpulsivedublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 3 Posts
I KNOW BUT THESE MEN PUT LOOKING FOR LOVE AND THERE SOULMATES SEND YOU CONSTANT MAILS THEN WHEN YOU SAY WOULD YOU LIKE TO MEET FOR COFFEE ETC THEY GO ALL SHY? Why give someone a load off compliments send messages to get to know them then back out? I just dont get it? If they come on for forums and penpals why chat up women wasteing there time when they know there not capable off dateing a woman? They should just stick to forums, bloggers and pen pals thats what i think anyway.....
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Jan 10, 2015 7:02 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
Mauss
MaussMaussKilkenny, Ireland1 Threads 196 Posts
impulsive: I KNOW BUT THESE MEN PUT LOOKING FOR LOVE AND THERE SOULMATES SEND YOU CONSTANT MAILS THEN WHEN YOU SAY WOULD YOU LIKE TO MEET FOR COFFEE ETC THEY GO ALL SHY? Why give someone a load off compliments send messages to get to know them then back out? I just dont get it? If they come on for forums and penpals why chat up women wasteing there time when they know there not capable off dateing a woman? They should just stick to forums, bloggers and pen pals thats what i think anyway.....

Everyone has their own idea on how to use this site, their vision/version of what friends/hangout,short term,longterm,dating etc might mean.
Skilled mindreaders are not very common me thinks.
Up to all to make clear about what one wants.
ideaMaybe they are shy? giggle





btw, while I do need reading glasses, I'M NOT DEAF
tip hat
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Jan 10, 2015 7:57 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
Alexandro10
Alexandro10Alexandro10monceaux, Hauts-de-France France36 Threads 17 Polls 1,180 Posts
02:27 France, Picardie, L'oise, Monceaux.

In half hour I will go to bed.

@ impulse.

If you want to hear the story. .let me please tell you.

One day ( dont remember the date )I was talking with one of my many italian friends on fb ( face book ). And suddenly CS Puped up.
( if your looking for singles dont look further - something like that ).
FYI since not long they are adverts that pup up on fb.

So I decided to give it a try,and in my back of my head a voice was wispering dont be a foul Alex..! But you know you gota try to see.

So when I loged in I was straight forward called a Web disegner and a scammer ( cause my pic was side ways) ,you know a new face just puped in,and I said to myself where the hell am I ? But then slowely I relized that there are actually good,honest and real people here on blogs and polls and threads.

So yes HERE is more a social site then a dating site.

And as I said before, if your looking for dating ( relationship ) in my humble opinion you have more chances to shut the computer down and get out that door and find yourself a good man. Better then ANY SITE.
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Jan 10, 2015 8:03 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Alexandro10: 02:27 France, Picardie, L'oise, Monceaux.

In half hour I will go to bed.

@ impulse.

If you want to hear the story. .let me please tell you.

One day ( dont remember the date )I was talking with one of my many italian friends on fb ( face book ). And suddenly CS Puped up.
( if your looking for singles dont look further - something like that ).
FYI since not long they are adverts that pup up on fb.

So I decided to give it a try,and in my back of my head a voice was wispering dont be a foul Alex..! But you know you gota try to see.

So when I loged in I was straight forward called a Web disegner and a scammer ( cause my pic was side ways) ,you know a new face just puped in,and I said to myself where the hell am I ? But then slowely I relized that there are actually good,honest and real people here on blogs and polls and threads.

So yes HERE is more a social site then a dating site.

And as I said before, if your looking for dating ( relationship ) in my humble opinion you have more chances to shut the computer down and get out that door and find yourself a good man. Better then ANY SITE.



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Jan 10, 2015 8:04 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
impulsive: Go on a social network site if you just want to waste peoples time sending pointless mails, gets on my nerves! Errrr


Sometimes people are just downright frightened.
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Jan 10, 2015 8:06 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
impulsive: I KNOW BUT THESE MEN PUT LOOKING FOR LOVE AND THERE SOULMATES SEND YOU CONSTANT MAILS THEN WHEN YOU SAY WOULD YOU LIKE TO MEET FOR COFFEE ETC THEY GO ALL SHY? Why give someone a load off compliments send messages to get to know them then back out? I just dont get it? If they come on for forums and penpals why chat up women wasteing there time when they know there not capable off dateing a woman? They should just stick to forums, bloggers and pen pals thats what i think anyway.....


i think the word for these ones are spammers...........
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Jan 10, 2015 8:44 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
Harryonline
HarryonlineHarryonlineLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 639 Posts
impulsive: I KNOW BUT THESE MEN PUT LOOKING FOR LOVE AND THERE SOULMATES SEND YOU CONSTANT MAILS THEN WHEN YOU SAY WOULD YOU LIKE TO MEET FOR COFFEE ETC THEY GO ALL SHY? Why give someone a load off compliments send messages to get to know them then back out? I just dont get it? If they come on for forums and penpals why chat up women wasteing there time when they know there not capable off dateing a woman? They should just stick to forums, bloggers and pen pals thats what i think anyway.....


I think they must have something to hide. When much is hidden on line. This attracts them type of people, and those unable to get out of their comfort zone.
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Jan 10, 2015 8:47 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
Harryonline
HarryonlineHarryonlineLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 639 Posts
impulsive: I KNOW BUT THESE MEN PUT LOOKING FOR LOVE AND THERE SOULMATES SEND YOU CONSTANT MAILS THEN WHEN YOU SAY WOULD YOU LIKE TO MEET FOR COFFEE ETC THEY GO ALL SHY? Why give someone a load off compliments send messages to get to know them then back out? I just dont get it? If they come on for forums and penpals why chat up women wasteing there time when they know there not capable off dateing a woman? They should just stick to forums, bloggers and pen pals thats what i think anyway.....


Well done! on trying though!

Sometimes it is like trying to get blood out of a stone! professor
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Jan 11, 2015 1:22 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
impulsive: I KNOW BUT THESE MEN PUT LOOKING FOR LOVE AND THERE SOULMATES SEND YOU CONSTANT MAILS THEN WHEN YOU SAY WOULD YOU LIKE TO MEET FOR COFFEE ETC THEY GO ALL SHY? Why give someone a load off compliments send messages to get to know them then back out? I just dont get it? If they come on for forums and penpals why chat up women wasteing there time when they know there not capable off dateing a woman? They should just stick to forums, bloggers and pen pals thats what i think anyway.....


Loads of compliments? laugh

I don't do BS and stopped conversation with guys like this. Put filters into your mailbox according to what you are looking for and say early on what you want and if you don't like something, move on. conversing
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Jan 11, 2015 1:25 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
jac_the_gripper: This isn't just a dating site.

That's why there are options for friends, talk, email, penpal, etc.

Just sayin'.


Always there with a kindly word jacgiggle

laugh
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Jan 11, 2015 1:38 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
skippyguy: i think the word for these ones are spammers...........


Uh yea!! thumbs up
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Jan 11, 2015 1:38 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
unlaoised: Uh yea!!


Wait....scammers, yes...scammers laugh
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Jan 11, 2015 1:40 PM CST Why do people go on dateing sites when they don,t really want to date?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
uptall: Always there with a kindly word jac

Did that come across as mean?

I just think it's a site which should be more inclusive, not less. dunno
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