building high walls around you because of hurt, from past relationships (30)
online today!online today!pedro27Bray, Dublin Ireland5,970 Threads 223 Polls 33,240 Postshow big is your wall around you that youve built?
------ This thread is Archived ------
pedro27: how big is your wall around you that youve built?
my wall is plastered and all, capping on the top. the next woman i met will a kango hammer and a lot of love to crumble the barriers ive built
------ This thread is Archived ------
------ This thread is Archived ------
pedro27: how big is your wall around you that youve built?
If you build a wall, then people won't be able to get to you. If you want to repel people, then not washing is a perfectly valid option.
I never built a wall. When I got hurt in the past, I just brushed myself down and got on with life.
------ This thread is Archived ------
pedro27: how big is your wall around you that youve built?
Oh bloody nora. Another size matters thread.
------ This thread is Archived ------
2girlsnocup: If you build a wall, then people won't be able to get to you. If you want to repel people, then not washing is a perfectly valid option. I never built a wall. When I got hurt in the past, I just brushed myself down and got on with life.
but im one step ahead, i put no cement in the foundations of my wall, as way for the woman to just push the wall and it fall down. i only know this
------ This thread is Archived ------
I have no walls caused by other people
My only wall would be made of common sense and instinct.
My only wall would be made of common sense and instinct.
------ This thread is Archived ------
pedro27: but im one step ahead, i put no cement in the foundations of my wall, as way for the woman to just push the wall and it fall down. i only know this
A wall is a wall. It matters not whether there's foundations. You still have something around you.
You're looking at it wrong as well. You should be the one breaking out of the wall to get to the woman, not expecting her to break in.
------ This thread is Archived ------
2girlsnocup: A wall is a wall. It matters not whether there's foundations. You still have something around you.
You're looking at it wrong as well. You should be the one breaking out of the wall to get to the woman, not expecting her to break in.
You're looking at it wrong as well. You should be the one breaking out of the wall to get to the woman, not expecting her to break in.
walls with no foundations blow down, all walls need a strong mix of concrete.
imo we carry some kind of emotional baggage from a ex's, could be anything
------ This thread is Archived ------
pedro27: how big is your wall around you that youve built?
Bigger than Chines Great Wall
------ This thread is Archived ------
pedro27: walls with no foundations blow down, all walls need a strong mix of concrete.
imo we carry some kind of emotional baggage from a ex's, could be anything
imo we carry some kind of emotional baggage from a ex's, could be anything
The fact you built something to surround you, means you're hiding away. It could be made from toilet roll, but it's still a barrier.
Baggage is all dependant on the person. Whether they're ready to let the past go or not, oir other things. Not everyone has it. Some are looking to the future, not the past, as that's where our lives are heading.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Lannna23: Bigger than Chines Great Wall
its from hurt?
------ This thread is Archived ------
2girlsnocup: If you build a wall, then people won't be able to get to you. If you want to repel people, then not washing is a perfectly valid option. I never built a wall. When I got hurt in the past, I just brushed myself down and got on with life.
I agree! Good point, but in my case I do have to believe in person, in order to get a wall to fall apart
------ This thread is Archived ------
pedro27: its from hurt?
Yep
------ This thread is Archived ------
2girlsnocup: The fact you built something to surround you, means you're hiding away. It could be made from toilet roll, but it's still a barrier.
Baggage is all dependant on the person. Whether they're ready to let the past go or not, oir other things. Not everyone has it. Some are looking to the future, not the past, as that's where our lives are heading.
Baggage is all dependant on the person. Whether they're ready to let the past go or not, oir other things. Not everyone has it. Some are looking to the future, not the past, as that's where our lives are heading.
im have alot of reasons why i built them,
------ This thread is Archived ------
2girlsnocup: The fact you built something to surround you, means you're hiding away. It could be made from toilet roll, but it's still a barrier.
Baggage is all dependant on the person. Whether they're ready to let the past go or not, oir other things. Not everyone has it. Some are looking to the future, not the past, as that's where our lives are heading.
Baggage is all dependant on the person. Whether they're ready to let the past go or not, oir other things. Not everyone has it. Some are looking to the future, not the past, as that's where our lives are heading.
I am ready to let past go, but my walls might be caused partially because of my insecurity; cultural differences, expectations.....as well as being hurt. Than, self accusing for fails in relationship, taking it as a my guilt and my fault ..... it is complex to explain why are walls around
------ This thread is Archived ------
pedro27: im have alot of reasons why i built them,
I'm not disputing that. But rather than build walls, why not look and review the reasons why it was built?
Sort those out, and you won't need a wall.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Lannna23: I am ready to let past go, but my walls might be caused partially because of my insecurity; cultural differences, expectations.....as well as being hurt. Than, self accusing for fails in relationship, taking it as a my guilt and my fault ..... it is complex to explain why are walls around
We are too quick to blame ourselves when some things go wrong. Accept that some things are as they are, and look upon them as something that can be beaten as you improve yourself. See them as rungs on a ladder that gets to the top of your wall.
Soon enough, you'd be at the top of your wall and able to tear it down.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Pedro.
If only they made a magical liquid that would erase bad memories!!
If only they made a magical liquid that would erase bad memories!!
------ This thread is Archived ------
allthegoodnamest: Pedro.
If only they made a magical liquid that would erase bad memories!!
If only they made a magical liquid that would erase bad memories!!
You just have to make new, good memories.
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
rarotonga
your personality
everything is changing
Don Shits-In-Pants!!!
Feel Good Music
1830's Music
Sleepy Don!
Salami, Salami, Baloney
other can see but not you
How far is too far?
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
1,152 Views
29 Comments
in Chat Threads
Created: Feb 2015
Last Viewed: 11 hrs ago
Last Commented: Feb 2015
0 Likes