People usually get brought up and grow up with their genetic parents and family, and its going to be impossible to be brought up by other races too, to know any different.
People who seek to ONLY date out side of their race...something must have gone wrong, somewhere with them.
Harryonline: People usually get brought up and grow up with their genetic parents and family, and its going to be impossible to be brought up by other races too, to know any different.
People who seek to ONLY date out side of their race...something must have gone wrong, somewhere with them.
Suggests there may be an ulterior motive, but don't forget that White men(in general)offer women of the world unparalleled financial security and personal freedom - non-white women can't get a better deal anywhere else.
Now you could say that these marriages are pragmatic rather than romantic, but nonetheless these women honour the contract and the vow. We should respect non-white women for having the honour that our own women do not.
Over in this part of London (and probably elsewhere too), there are a well known goings on where young males loiter out side and frequent the close vicinity of Girls only schools (which are usually religious schools) and there being Girls who run away with them.
It might be they see the light at the end of the tunnel and jump through to the other side where they believe its less restrictive, to actually have a life.
They often returned to the family home when they get pregnant or need child care.
I met a few of these girls at college (the community at large knew of them and families) where they described their story, of going with men in their 30s when they where barely 13theen, and they said there was no choice but to run away.
Stephanie96: Why is it difficult for white guys to approach a black woman that they like? I would really love to date outside my race but situations makes it difficult??
The food court I go to eat when I do so away from my apartment has a lot of Back women,We mix and talk so much that we really don't notice the "colour" .Lots of times we agree to meet someplace else.I wouldn't call It dating but it sure is enjoyable socializing.I will admit I really am seeing one specific one more than the others now,but do not feel self conscious about it,So I don't find the "dating" problem
Stephanie96: Why is it difficult for white guys to approach a black woman that they like? I would really love to date outside my race but situations makes it difficult??
Coz Black women needs some extra Bone which you dont have
Ken_19: It is probably a Europe problem. Certainly mixed race couples don't attract much attention here, not for 30 years or so anyway. White, black, green, yellow, who cares about skin color?
I think it's very much a US feature aswell... although to characterise it as a problem is probably wrong.
I am sitting here with my mouth open in shock. WOW,,,,Come to CA U.S.A. It is very interesting to hear about other international locations. I had no idea. !!!!!! WOW.
Ccincy: I suppose it would probably be the same situation of why some black people wouldn't want to approach a white person.Sometimes people are strange in their thinking.I've seen several black men I wouldn't had minded dating.They were handsome and had good manners and very friendly too.
I was asked one time by a black man what did I see when I looked at him.I replied back to that I saw a nice man sitting next to me.
heatherhuntsman: I am sitting here with my mouth open in shock. WOW,,,,Come to CA U.S.A. It is very interesting to hear about other international locations. I had no idea. !!!!!! WOW.
Hi heather I lived in Southern Cal for 3-1/2 yrs so I know about where you speak.It is shocking to read about other international locations as you say.
Stephanie96: Why is it difficult for white guys to approach a black woman that they like? I would really love to date outside my race but situations makes it difficult??
MADDOG69: I've noticed even in my short time here perusing various Stateside profiles, that there are certain preferences explicitly written and they often are located in certain locales, for sure.
On the other side of the coin, the black/mixed women often are not shy about their own preferences and state it very clearly sometimes.
yes exactly my point....in our effort to equalize we have categorized to the extent that we see each other as carbon & water based statues of various hues...not people
not true for everyone of course, but you will sometimes see that tendency here, I agree.
Ocee - You are very probably right. MUCH of the human problem is excess population at the root. I grew up in NYC which had a high population density cause there people are/were stacked up and down as well as sideways. When I was a toddler, my mom (a real estate major) misinterpreted White Flight as a short term fad of only a year or two duration (NOT) and fell prey to 'location, location, location,' but ignored 'timing, timing, timing.' The result was as White hordes fled the prime South Bronx real estate locations she began quietly buying them dirt cheap with Dad's checking account without telling him. >Somewhat upset one day he was when he found out the account had so badly shrank and where the money went.> The long and short of it is I wound up growing up in an almost totally non-white neighborhood. Rascist minded, the local police named the district (precient) there Jungle Habitat. Highest homicide rate in the city back then. Far worse than the 'Fort Apache' or 'Little House on the Prairie' (an utterly burnt out neighborhood with only the police station standing as the lone intact structure for blocks around) districts. Long and short of it was, you name the race and as a young teenager, I probably dallied with some of those girls. Today I live in a place with an average population density of less than 10 per square mile. We also have almost no crime. No jobs either, but that's a different blog.
Jac, I hear you. Just saying, not many 'hot to trot' at the racial mixing idea male blogs from England here. Noting also the lack from the Belgium/France area too. So maybe it is an issue there..?
Come to New Zealand a lovely young girl like yourself would have trouble turning men away I am of Scots decent and I have a number of beautiful coffee coloured nieces and nephews. Some of the nationality's that can be found in my extended family are Samoan Figian Maori Greek Hungarian Chinese Dutch Columbian and Italian. It makes for wonderful family get together's.
roses4m: Come to New Zealand a lovely young girl like yourself would have trouble turning men away I am of Scots decent and I have a number of beautiful coffee coloured nieces and nephews. Some of the nationality's that can be found in my extended family are Samoan Figian Maori Greek Hungarian Chinese Dutch Columbian and Italian. It makes for wonderful family get together's.
Roses
Got to know a guy from your area, Rotorua, couple of months ago. He's a Pakeha and recently found a nice Maori lady to date. I wish them both abundance of happiness
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People usually get brought up and grow up with their genetic parents and family, and its going to be impossible to be brought up by other races too, to know any different.
People who seek to ONLY date out side of their race...something must have gone wrong, somewhere with them.