For those ladies who think they deserver better.. ( Archived) (178)

Feb 28, 2015 9:55 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
In these days and age, it’s very popular and almost like a ritual for women to scold men at every turn and say, ‘women deserve better’. Of course, they do. But nobody ever seems to turn to women and say, ‘men deserve better too.’ You ladies seem to spend a lot of time in talking about what you deserve and what you want, but have you ever stopped to consider what men deserve, and what men want? Did you know that we care about love, respect, loyalty, and a little bit chivalry too if possible? When the last time you provided them in every one of your relationships? Have you woken up each morning and thought ‘what can I do to make the person I love happy today’? Or has it always been like ‘what will they do to make me happy today’? I can’t answer these questions, but you ladies can. And I hope you do so with an open and honest heart.

So, please don’t blame men for everything that goes wrong in your relationship. If men were totally responsible for everything, then there would be no hope for you ladies. Clearly you can’t fix the male gender any more than you can change the orbit of the Earth. Ladies, fortunately, your job is much simpler and much easier which is to “just try to change yourself a little”. Wishing you all the best ladies!
peace
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Feb 28, 2015 9:57 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
I wasn't aware of anyone who does these thingsdunno
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Feb 28, 2015 9:59 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
mnowsa: In these days and age, it’s very popular and almost like a ritual for women to scold men at every turn and say, ‘women deserve better’. Of course, they do. But nobody ever seems to turn to women and say, ‘men deserve better too.’ You ladies seem to spend a lot of time in talking about what you deserve and what you want, but have you ever stopped to consider what men deserve, and what men want? Did you know that we care about love, respect, loyalty, and a little bit chivalry too if possible? When the last time you provided them in every one of your relationships? Have you woken up each morning and thought ‘what can I do to make the person I love happy today’? Or has it always been like ‘what will they do to make me happy today’? I can’t answer these questions, but you ladies can. And I hope you do so with an open and honest heart.

So, please don’t blame men for everything that goes wrong in your relationship. If men were totally responsible for everything, then there would be no hope for you ladies. Clearly you can’t fix the male gender any more than you can change the orbit of the Earth. Ladies, fortunately, your job is much simpler and much easier which is to “just try to change yourself a little”. Wishing you all the best ladies!




The part about 'What can I do to make today better reminds me of something that Dr.Phil had said to some of his guests.
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Feb 28, 2015 9:59 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
You are correct. Men do deserve better too. But men must also stand up for their own rights, and shout it from the rooftops if necessary, that they too deserve better.

And then not settle for less.

And by the way, I don't blame everything that goes wrong on men.
I am an adult who takes responsibility for her own actions.bouquet
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Feb 28, 2015 10:00 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
mnowsa: In these days and age, it’s very popular and almost like a ritual for women to scold men at every turn and say, ‘women deserve better’. Of course, they do. But nobody ever seems to turn to women and say, ‘men deserve better too.’ You ladies seem to spend a lot of time in talking about what you deserve and what you want, but have you ever stopped to consider what men deserve, and what men want? Did you know that we care about love, respect, loyalty, and a little bit chivalry too if possible? When the last time you provided them in every one of your relationships? Have you woken up each morning and thought ‘what can I do to make the person I love happy today’? Or has it always been like ‘what will they do to make me happy today’? I can’t answer these questions, but you ladies can. And I hope you do so with an open and honest heart.

So, please don’t blame men for everything that goes wrong in your relationship. If men were totally responsible for everything, then there would be no hope for you ladies. Clearly you can’t fix the male gender any more than you can change the orbit of the Earth. Ladies, fortunately, your job is much simpler and much easier which is to “just try to change yourself a little”. Wishing you all the best ladies!


It's not up to me to make anyone happy, just as it's not up to anyone else to make me happy. dunno
So no, I don't think about men deserving better because what they deserve is up to each, individual man to decide for himself.

Having said that, when I'm in a relationship, he becomes a very important person in my life and is treated as such.
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Feb 28, 2015 10:02 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
felixis99: I wasn't aware of anyone who does these things


what things, flexis? you mean women don't complain about men?laugh
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Feb 28, 2015 10:04 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Now to respond to the topic.

I feel regardless of gender we all deserve better then we're something getting.


When my late husband was around we always found ways to make one another happy.Actually it was keeping one another happy.
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Feb 28, 2015 10:04 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
unlaoised: It's not up to me to make anyone happy, just as it's not up to anyone else to make me happy.
So no, I don't think about men deserving better because what they deserve is up to each, individual man to decide for himself.

Having said that, when I'm in a relationship, he becomes a very important person in my life and is treated as such.


Just to be on the safe side ladies (so that you ladies don't chew me up like some gum), i am not really complaining about women here. I am just requesting ladies to do their part in a relationship as much as they can instead of blaming it on us men only laugh
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Feb 28, 2015 10:05 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
mnowsa: Just to be on the safe side ladies (so that you ladies don't chew me up like some gum), i am not really complaining about women here. I am just requesting ladies to do their part in a relationship as much as they can instead of blaming it on us men only


Hey, I'm not chewing you up, just telling you how it is for me
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Feb 28, 2015 10:06 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mnowsa: Just to be on the safe side ladies (so that you ladies don't chew me up like some gum), i am not really complaining about women here. I am just requesting ladies to do their part in a relationship as much as they can instead of blaming it on us men only


If that has been your experience to date, maybe you should look inside yourself, and see why you make that choice of woman grin
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Feb 28, 2015 10:07 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
unlaoised: Hey, I'm not chewing you up, just telling you how it is for me


oh...you can chew me up cause you are kinda specialgrin hug
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Feb 28, 2015 10:08 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
mnowsa: what things, flexis? you mean women don't complain about men?


I don;t know any who do, in any significant kind of way, no.

at least not more than they complain about anything else ....lollaugh hug
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Feb 28, 2015 10:08 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
mollybaby: If that has been your experience to date, maybe you should look inside yourself, and see why you make that choice of woman


You mean i need to undress myself so that i can look inside myselfrolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 28, 2015 10:09 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
mnowsa: oh...you can chew me up cause you are kinda special


And I like you too hug bouquet
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Feb 28, 2015 10:09 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
mnowsa: In these days and age, it’s very popular and almost like a ritual for women to scold men at every turn and say, ‘women deserve better’. Of course, they do. But nobody ever seems to turn to women and say, ‘men deserve better too.’ You ladies seem to spend a lot of time in talking about what you deserve and what you want, but have you ever stopped to consider what men deserve, and what men want? Did you know that we care about love, respect, loyalty, and a little bit chivalry too if possible? When the last time you provided them in every one of your relationships? Have you woken up each morning and thought ‘what can I do to make the person I love happy today’? Or has it always been like ‘what will they do to make me happy today’? I can’t answer these questions, but you ladies can. And I hope you do so with an open and honest heart.

So, please don’t blame men for everything that goes wrong in your relationship. If men were totally responsible for everything, then there would be no hope for you ladies. Clearly you can’t fix the male gender any more than you can change the orbit of the Earth. Ladies, fortunately, your job is much simpler and much easier which is to “just try to change yourself a little”. Wishing you all the best ladies!


jaw drop smile jaw drop shock

WOW, Are you freakin' serious?! This thread has got to be a joke and if it isn't, it's time you get OFF your mommy's tit!

The women here are all very complimentary to those men who deserve it! To the idiot's who deserve to be put in there places, all of us women can and will do so.

Furthermore, you don't have a freakin' clue how we treat our men, so don't just assume you do! Maybe your mommy should have taught you to read or more importantly, have your facts straight before you shoot your mouth off!

You belong back in the sandbox on the playground because you don't stand a chance here!
very mad
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Feb 28, 2015 10:10 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
mollybaby: If that has been your experience to date, maybe you should look inside yourself, and see why you make that choice of woman


i am not talking about myself. no woman complain about me because i think i am cool. I am just talking about other mengrin
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Feb 28, 2015 10:12 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mnowsa: You mean i need to undress myself so that i can look inside myself



Go with the metaphoric rather than the literal sense...uh oh



laugh
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Feb 28, 2015 10:14 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
mollybaby: Go with the metaphoric rather than the literal sense...
rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up
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Feb 28, 2015 10:15 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
Friskyone: WOW, Are you freakin' serious?! This thread has got to be a joke and if it isn't, it's time you get OFF your mommy's tit!

The women here are all very complimentary to those men who deserve it! To the idiot's who deserve to be put in there places, all of us women can and will do so.

Furthermore, you don't have a freakin' clue how we treat our men, so don't just assume you do! Maybe your mommy should have taught you to read or more importantly, have your facts straight before you shoot your mouth off!

You belong back in the sandbox on the playground because you don't stand a chance here!


i never said that you personally treat men badly. There are some women around us who do complain. You are cool if you don't treat men badlylaugh bouquet
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Feb 28, 2015 10:17 AM CST For those ladies who think they deserver better..
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
mnowsa: i never said that you personally treat men badly. There are some women around us who do complain. You are cool if you don't treat men badly


You come across very brash and seem like a woman-hater according to your post. Now it appears you're trying to suck-up! To me, PATHETIC!!
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