Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it? ( Archived) (51)

Apr 4, 2015 8:31 AM CST Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it?
PrettyPrescious: Have you ever had a problem with some other female trying to flirt with your man, make a pass at him, try to go after him or just jealous of you guys in general? How did you handle it? How did your guy react? Were you satisfied with his response to the woman? or towards you? Describe



I would consider it an opportunity to observe how he handles it while quietly making it known to him in private that it is unbecoming behavior. From there, whether he remains my man will be a decision that takes about 3 minutes (or less) lol
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Apr 4, 2015 8:42 AM CST Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it?
eurolady
euroladyeuroladyFredericton, New Brunswick Canada1 Threads 228 Posts
Can't see any problem. No person can be "your", so, everything depends on man. If he likes other woman better then all is clear...
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Apr 4, 2015 9:04 AM CST Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
PrettyPrescious: Have you ever had a problem with some other female trying to flirt with your man, make a pass at him, try to go after him or just jealous of you guys in general? How did you handle it? How did your guy react? Were you satisfied with his response to the woman? or towards you? Describe



That's a good sign, you're making good your role,, your husband still attracks
other women. React? for me ,no need, my husband doesn't make me feel i am in danger. No confrontation ,,woman flirting? it's not a crime,,rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 4, 2015 9:21 AM CST Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it?
Novaa
NovaaNovaaDublin, Ireland10 Threads 7 Polls 95 Posts
PrettyPrescious: Have you ever had a problem with some other female trying to flirt with your man, make a pass at him, try to go after him or just jealous of you guys in general? How did you handle it? How did your guy react? Were you satisfied with his response to the woman? or towards you? Describe
id want her to stand up for herself, like hey bi.ch the only place his big D is going is between my legs so take your h.r mouth somewhere else, this is my imagination on the subject laugh
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Apr 4, 2015 12:28 PM CST Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
PrettyPrescious: Have you ever had a problem with some other female trying to flirt with your man, make a pass at him, try to go after him or just jealous of you guys in general? How did you handle it? How did your guy react? Were you satisfied with his response to the woman? or towards you? Describe


I've had this happen and gave him a piece of my mind when we got home from a wedding reception where this was going on. She knew he was with me but it didn't matter to her because he was openly welcoming it. Thinking back on it though, I realize now how much I tolerated when I shouldn't have...what a fool I was.
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Apr 4, 2015 12:37 PM CST Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it?
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
PrettyPrescious: Have you ever had a problem with some other female trying to flirt with your man, make a pass at him, try to go after him or just jealous of you guys in general? How did you handle it? How did your guy react? Were you satisfied with his response to the woman? or towards you? Describe


If a woman puts the move on the guy, it's his responsibility to tell her to go away. If he doesn't do it, it's adios muchacho. I figure if he wants to entertain someone else, then that's okay, but I'm out.

Yes, it happened to me. First time was with my ex husband when we dated. He didn't respond to the woman and that was okay. She was a co-worker doh

Then it happened once on a date and the guy was flattered and did the eye-stalking thing with that woman and at the end of the date, I told him I didn't want to see him again. Simple.
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Apr 4, 2015 12:54 PM CST Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it?
PrettyPrescious: Have you ever had a problem with some other female trying to flirt with your man, make a pass at him, try to go after him or just jealous of you guys in general? How did you handle it? How did your guy react? Were you satisfied with his response to the woman? or towards you? Describe


It is not up to me how I would "handle it".
I would expect the man I am with to politely decline the flirtations, as a Gentleman should.
If he finds the other woman's attention more desirable than mine, then I will depart and leave the two of them to it.
This has happened to me on more than one occasion and when the man then finds me absent, or tries contacting me the next day, he has found that he no longer has my attention either.
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Apr 4, 2015 1:00 PM CST Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Kaybee50: It is not up to me how I would "handle it".
I would expect the man I am with to politely decline the flirtations, as a Gentleman should.
If he finds the other woman's attention more desirable than mine, then I will depart and leave the two of them to it.
This has happened to me on more than one occasion and when the man then finds me absent, or tries contacting me the next day, he has found that he no longer has my attention either.


thumbs up thumbs up
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Apr 6, 2015 12:37 AM CST Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it?
PrettyPrescious
PrettyPresciousPrettyPresciousRenton, Washington USA8 Threads 2 Polls 355 Posts
felixis99: I would consider it an opportunity to observe how he handles it while quietly making it known to him in private that it is unbecoming behavior. From there, whether he remains my man will be a decision that takes about 3 minutes (or less) lol


I agree. I will tell him privately I'm not happy with what is happening...then sit back and wait to see how he handles it. He either sinks or swims....
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Apr 6, 2015 12:38 AM CST Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it?
PrettyPrescious
PrettyPresciousPrettyPresciousRenton, Washington USA8 Threads 2 Polls 355 Posts
Nidifugous: If a woman puts the move on the guy, it's his responsibility to tell her to go away. If he doesn't do it, it's adios muchacho. I figure if he wants to entertain someone else, then that's okay, but I'm out.

Yes, it happened to me. First time was with my ex husband when we dated. He didn't respond to the woman and that was okay. She was a co-worker

Then it happened once on a date and the guy was flattered and did the eye-stalking thing with that woman and at the end of the date, I told him I didn't want to see him again. Simple.


Good choice thumbs up He either respects you or he's history
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Apr 6, 2015 12:40 AM CST Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it?
PrettyPrescious
PrettyPresciousPrettyPresciousRenton, Washington USA8 Threads 2 Polls 355 Posts
Kaybee50: It is not up to me how I would "handle it".
I would expect the man I am with to politely decline the flirtations, as a Gentleman should.
If he finds the other woman's attention more desirable than mine, then I will depart and leave the two of them to it.
This has happened to me on more than one occasion and when the man then finds me absent, or tries contacting me the next day, he has found that he no longer has my attention either.


I like what you said; it really is up to him! It is not our choice but hisprofessor
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