Ladies, if some other woman was trying to flirt or pick up on your man, how would you handle it? (51)
PrettyPrescious: Have you ever had a problem with some other female trying to flirt with your man, make a pass at him, try to go after him or just jealous of you guys in general? How did you handle it? How did your guy react? Were you satisfied with his response to the woman? or towards you? Describe
A real man would try to score with both ladies
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BerrySmoothie: But we need to remember not ALL men stoop to that.
Some men actually do have respect for their partners and wouldn't mess with what they already have.
Some men actually do have respect for their partners and wouldn't mess with what they already have.
Not to my experience. They r always chasing some skirt. Maybe I just attract the bad ones and there r good ones I have not found to date.
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BerrySmoothie: But we need to remember not ALL men stoop to that.
Some men actually do have respect for their partners and wouldn't mess with what they already have.
Some men actually do have respect for their partners and wouldn't mess with what they already have.
I agree Berry.
I find most men to be respectful.
I just don't date the other ones.
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mollybaby: I agree Berry.
I find most men to be respectful.
I just don't date the other ones.
I find most men to be respectful.
I just don't date the other ones.
My ex would have stood in front of my face and accused me of wanting them more than her and if the lady in question was there they would get a mouthful too....then the evening would have ended because I would have left. Oh yes this included cousins, neices any female family member and god forbid if it was just another woman.
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Stedan: My ex would have stood in front of my face and accused me of wanting them more than her and if the lady in question was there they would get a mouthful too....then the evening would have ended because I would have left. Oh yes this included cousins, neices any female family member and god forbid if it was just another woman.
Sorry to hear that Sted. That is a hard situation to live in.
I have to give my partner the trust they deserve. Then I don't feel I have to worry about throwing hissy-fits in public. Not my style.
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he as never sat down with her and admitted to her or anyone what hes done hes not even apologise or tolled her why he he did this to her so the only thing she can come up with is that hi punished her for what hi first wife done to him he made he take the punishment for who he thinks she did when it was all in his head she also thinks he got mantel problems
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BerrySmoothie: Openly flirting in front of me with my man when we're out?
I'd do nothing. I'd rely on his good judgement to not respond in the manner in which she'd want. If he flirted back, I'd leave them to it.
Goodness knows what he'd be up to behind my back, if he were brazen enough to openly flirt in front of me.
There's friendly chat and flirting. Nothing wrong in friendly chat but if he were to cross the line, he just wouldn't be the man for me. Simple.
I'd do nothing. I'd rely on his good judgement to not respond in the manner in which she'd want. If he flirted back, I'd leave them to it.
Goodness knows what he'd be up to behind my back, if he were brazen enough to openly flirt in front of me.
There's friendly chat and flirting. Nothing wrong in friendly chat but if he were to cross the line, he just wouldn't be the man for me. Simple.
I respond similarly to the way you do. I do let the guy know I'm not happy with the woman's behavior.....the rest is up to him. If he doesn't react appropriately, game over.
There was one time I had been dating a man for a couple months. One night I was at a danceclub and ran into him---he was with another woman he had told me about. He came over to me to say "hi". The other woman was pretty jealous and came strutting over, and asked/demanded "do you know who I am?" I casually replied, "yes, you're Mary" b/c she fit the description of this woman he had told me about. Then, I got on the elevator.....leaving him to his date. About an hour later, he came over to my place. That woman had a thing for him (he had previously told me about her), but he preferred me. (as a matter of fact, he had wanted to go out with me that night, but I already had the plans to go to the danceclub with my best friend). It was kinda funny when about a year later he and I were together in another club and we ran into her there. We were definitely a couple by then and he just stayed with me.
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BerrySmoothie: Openly flirting in front of me with my man when we're out?
I'd do nothing. I'd rely on his good judgement to not respond in the manner in which she'd want. If he flirted back, I'd leave them to it.
Goodness knows what he'd be up to behind my back, if he were brazen enough to openly flirt in front of me.
There's friendly chat and flirting. Nothing wrong in friendly chat but if he were to cross the line, he just wouldn't be the man for me. Simple.
I'd do nothing. I'd rely on his good judgement to not respond in the manner in which she'd want. If he flirted back, I'd leave them to it.
Goodness knows what he'd be up to behind my back, if he were brazen enough to openly flirt in front of me.
There's friendly chat and flirting. Nothing wrong in friendly chat but if he were to cross the line, he just wouldn't be the man for me. Simple.
I respond similarly to the way you do. I do let the guy know I'm not happy with the woman's behavior.....the rest is up to him. If he doesn't react appropriately, game over.
There was one time I had been dating a man for a couple months. One night I was at a danceclub and ran into him---he was with another woman he had told me about. He came over to me to say "hi". The other woman was pretty jealous and came strutting over, and asked/demanded "do you know who I am?" I casually replied, "yes, you're Mary" b/c she fit the description of this woman he had told me about. Then, I got on the elevator.....leaving him to his date. About an hour later, he came over to my place. That woman had a thing for him (he had previously told me about her), but he preferred me. (as a matter of fact, he had wanted to go out with me that night, but I already had the plans to go to the danceclub with my best friend). It was kinda funny when about a year later he and I were together in another club and we ran into her there. We were definitely a couple by then and he just stayed with me.
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Lucky for me I nave had to deal with another woman trying to pick up or flirt with my late hubby.
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Well many, many years ago, I had a girlfriend who reacted by busting a bottle and cutting the other girl in face right there in the bar. Blood everywhere. Yes, sure she got arrested and bailed out by her parents a few hours later. Was it a good way of handling it? IMO no. Certainly not in front of 20 witnesses. Did it make me want to commit more fully to the crazy girl? No. Did she wind up in jail a few months later over the drunken fit of rage? Yes, She got a year or three. Not seen her since then, so yeah, a better way probably existed.
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PrettyPrescious: Have you ever had a problem with some other female trying to flirt with your man, make a pass at him, try to go after him or just jealous of you guys in general? How did you handle it? How did your guy react? Were you satisfied with his response to the woman? or towards you? Describe
You didn't ask this, but I'd like to say that I believe the man should make it clear that he is with someone and as politely and abruptly as possible, walk away or leave, if it is that intense. JMO------ This thread is Archived ------
allthegoodnamest: I would take it as compliment if your partner was getting attention from other women... It only becomes a problem when he responds in the same manner.
If, however, she is or has been made aware that he is with someone else, then the other woman's flirting IS a problem. JMO------ This thread is Archived ------
Ken_19: Well many, many years ago, I had a girlfriend who reacted by busting a bottle and cutting the other girl in face right there in the bar. Blood everywhere. Yes, sure she got arrested and bailed out by her parents a few hours later. Was it a good way of handling it? IMO no. Certainly not in front of 20 witnesses. Did it make me want to commit more fully to the crazy girl? No. Did she wind up in jail a few months later over the drunken fit of rage? Yes, She got a year or three. Not seen her since then, so yeah, a better way probably existed.
Woww, now that woman was just a wee bit too much
Good riddance! This LD guy I'm romancing had some woman friend try to break us up, and he now refers to her as "that crazy woman"....
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PrettyPrescious: Woww, now that woman was just a wee bit too much Good riddance! This LD guy I'm romancing had some woman friend try to break us up, and he now refers to her as "that crazy woman".... and he blocked her so she cannot contact him anymore
Actually based on observation stuff like that happens a lot. Did you not notice that McDonalds fight/stomping I posted elsewhere supposedly started because one girl thought someone was hitting on her BF? When someone disses a current BF/GF, especially if someone has been doing drugs or drinking, blood can flow over it. I can't tell you how many dozens of bloody fights and shootings and stabbings (mostly in parking lots or just outside the club doors) I have heard of or seen in the past 40 years, all over someone else's girl or man.
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This situation actually has happened to me before. My best friend flirted with every guy I dated. She always had to be the center of attraction. She was beautiful to boot! I confronted her several times and asked her why she did it, especially when she could choose any man she wanted. She simply denied her actions and I ended our 20 year friendship because of her behavior.
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Friskyone: This situation actually has happened to me before. My best friend flirted with every guy I dated. She always had to be the center of attraction. She was beautiful to boot! I confronted her several times and asked her why she did it, especially when she could choose any man she wanted. She simply denied her actions and I ended our 20 year friendship because of her behavior.
Well Friskyone, I'd say she was probably just jealous of u...I think we all been in that situation where we have friends being jealous of us... I'm glad u ended that friendship (they are not worth ur time.. at all!!) <--- perhaps she was only ur friend cuz she wanted to know all bout u, so that she can destroy u, or hangout with u cuz she wanted to get to know u more, she wants to know how to imitate u... be ur clone, certainly wanting to be u... It's all bout jealousy
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SandraYelitzza2: Well Friskyone, I'd say she was probably just jealous of u...I think we all been in that situation where we have friends being jealous of us... I'm glad u ended that friendship (they are not worth ur time.. at all!!) <--- perhaps she was only ur friend cuz she wanted to know all bout u, so that she can destroy u, or hangout with u cuz she wanted to get to know u more, she wants to know how to imitate u... be ur clone, certainly wanting to be u... It's all bout jealousy
Thanks girl. It was a little weird. She was very beautiful so I couldn't figure it out. The older I got, the wiser. I soon realized her manipulative and vindictive ways. I met her in high school and we watched each other's children grow up. We had so much fun together but I often wonder how could I have been friends with someone like that.
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Stedan: Appreciates the nut job.... Nearly 3 years now and out of the closet comes the worms yet again. I suppose if you spin the same story over the years it becomes truth as they think it is...so people believe whatever you want it does not change who I really am.
it becomes truth because it is the truth I have seen the prove the evidence and the documents that put no doubt in my mined that she as established herself that in the fact that she is telling the truth about this matter and yet after your countless number of statements that you have made against your wife is hurtful malicious and vicious Gossip trying to get out of the true accounts that tuck place between you and your wife and that you and you alone is guilty of domestic violence for years of which there is document evidence off and the authorities have done you for and the authorities would not have been able to prosecute you with out the evidence against you and yet you still drive passed her home in spite of as you say nearly 3 years and you have not done the right thing by her as the authorities have given her the right to get back what belongs to her and you seam not to understand this and you know what I am on about
now I strongly suggest that you start apologizing for your statements and lies that you have made against your wife as no one who reads your statements can ask your wife about this matter as she as a right to defend herself against your allegation's which you are not give her and you expect everyone that reads your statements to assume that your telling the truth of which you not …..if you where then you would have the prove and the evidence and not her
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PrettyPrescious: Have you ever had a problem with some other female trying to flirt with your man, make a pass at him, try to go after him or just jealous of you guys in general? How did you handle it? How did your guy react? Were you satisfied with his response to the woman? or towards you? Describe
I would consider it an opportunity to observe how he handles it while quietly making it known to him in private that it is unbecoming behavior. From there, whether he remains my man will be a decision that takes about 3 minutes (or less) lol
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I'd do nothing. I'd rely on his good judgement to not respond in the manner in which she'd want. If he flirted back, I'd leave them to it.
Goodness knows what he'd be up to behind my back, if he were brazen enough to openly flirt in front of me.
There's friendly chat and flirting. Nothing wrong in friendly chat but if he were to cross the line, he just wouldn't be the man for me. Simple.
Now how come we have the same answer. Shall I tell u what happens behind ur back. More of the same to a more physical degree.