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Jun 7, 2016 8:40 PM CST God i hate this
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
Scammer language???? Um!!! Can you explain? Please!!!!
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Jun 7, 2016 8:48 PM CST God i hate this
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
I am talking about women 26 to 36 who says they are seeking men 36 to 80 which you all know is another story. I have reasons for specifying that age. My profile is real. I am sincere and i would at least hope than each person who wrote one did so honestly. If you ask for daily bread don't expect gourmet chicken. If you want steamed fish just say so.
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Jun 7, 2016 8:50 PM CST God i hate this
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
Ocee102: My mistake...26 to 34.
Maybe try women your age?You think you're Charlie Sheen?
ref
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Jun 7, 2016 9:24 PM CST God i hate this
Sampe1967: I am talking about women 26 to 36 who says they are seeking men 36 to 80 which you all know is another story. I have reasons for specifying that age. My profile is real. I am sincere and i would at least hope than each person who wrote one did so honestly. If you ask for daily bread don't expect gourmet chicken. If you want steamed fish just say so.
See, that's the thing about online dating that's also free and international. It provides many possibilities and just to mention a few...

It attracts scammers. Scammers are attracted to active profiles because it betters their chance of getting a quick hit.

Being international lessens our chances of finding someone within reason, unless you're sitting on a gold mine and can easily pay to meet up.

Not everyone is being honest about who they claim to be, and that can have adverse affects on those who are honest.

Online dating is like a huge buffet with way too many items on the list to choose from. This helps serve confusion to the seekers.

Some have their standards set way too high and that puts them out of reach, regardless if age is no barrier.

Some simply do not know what they really want, regardless of what they have put in their profile...
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Jun 7, 2016 10:11 PM CST God i hate this
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
Sampe1967: I am talking about women 26 to 36 who says they are seeking men 36 to 80 which you all know is another story. I have reasons for specifying that age. My profile is real. I am sincere and i would at least hope than each person who wrote one did so honestly. If you ask for daily bread don't expect gourmet chicken. If you want steamed fish just say so.



Your criteria selects for almost exclusively scammers and gold diggers.


Being unwilling to date women within 14 years of your age means almost every woman who claims to meet your criteria...is looking for money.


You can try and spin it however you want, but you're just another guy unwilling to date within his league blaming others for his lack of responses.

Get realistic, or stay single.
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Jun 8, 2016 7:20 AM CST God i hate this
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
Ocee102: Your criteria selects for almost exclusively scammers and gold diggers.Being unwilling to date women within 14 years of your age means almost every woman who claims to meet your criteria...is looking for money.You can try and spin it however you want, but you're just another guy unwilling to date within his league blaming others for his lack of responses.

Get realistic, or stay single.
you mean even though i want children i should seek a woman 48?
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Jun 8, 2016 7:23 AM CST God i hate this
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
YouMeUs: See, that's the thing about online dating that's also free and international. It provides many possibilities and just to mention a few...

It attracts scammers. Scammers are attracted to active profiles because it betters their chance of getting a quick hit.

Being international lessens our chances of finding someone within reason, unless you're sitting on a gold mine and can easily pay to meet up.

Not everyone is being honest about who they claim to be, and that can have adverse affects on those who are honest.

Online dating is like a huge buffet with way too many items on the list to choose from. This helps serve confusion to the seekers.

Some have their standards set way too high and that puts them out of reach, regardless if age is no barrier.

Some simply do not know what they really want, regardless of what they have put in their profile...
my point exactly.
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Jun 8, 2016 7:30 AM CST God i hate this
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
Ocee102: Your criteria selects for almost exclusively scammers and gold diggers.Being unwilling to date women within 14 years of your age means almost every woman who claims to meet your criteria...is looking for money.You can try and spin it however you want, but you're just another guy unwilling to date within his league blaming others for his lack of responses.

Get realistic, or stay single.


I find him controlling too. He has been married before and has children, yet he wants a woman who has NEVER BEEN MARRIED and HAS NO CHILDREN. Why??????????????
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Jun 8, 2016 7:40 AM CST God i hate this
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
equiya: I find him controlling too. He has been married before and has children, yet he wants a woman who has NEVER BEEN MARRIED and HAS NO CHILDREN. Why??????????????
Just because you don't fall within my category, that makes my choice controlling and wrong? Don't i have a right to preference? And what does that have to do with the issue at hand? At least i say what i want. How about you?
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Jun 8, 2016 7:49 AM CST God i hate this
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
I should add that 98% of profiles I've looked at shows women seeking men high above their age. Nobody told them its wrong but its wrong for the man of that age to want them? I want to stop sneezing now please.
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Jun 8, 2016 7:50 AM CST God i hate this
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
I want to know why if anyone can explain to me, women set up profiles stating what they seek and yet when contacted, they just read and ignore.

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Its the same whatever you are. I am contacted by women and in the last 2 weeks l have had 5, after talking on the phone and chatting online they are all 'very interested' and want to continue contact but disappear, the truth is no one is serious here, all are hiding under a rock and come out to bang the keyboard. Its likely no one will ever find anyone on this site but the problem here is that people posting in forums give their true selves away and when people read what they post they steer clear.
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Jun 8, 2016 7:59 AM CST God i hate this
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Sampe1967: Scammer language???? Um!!! Can you explain? Please!!!!


I highlighted the kind of language that scammers use.

It is the generic greeting that shows that the writer hasn't read the profile, isn't actually writing a personalised email to that person, and more that likely has sent out 20 more of the same in the same sitting.

Most women will block and delete these without reading any further.
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Jun 8, 2016 8:04 AM CST God i hate this
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
mollybaby: I highlighted the kind of language that scammers use.

It is the generic greeting that shows that the writer hasn't read the profile, isn't actually writing a personalised email to that person, and more that likely has sent out 20 more of the same in the same sitting.

Most women will block and delete these without reading any further.


But they are upright God fearing mengrin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
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Jun 8, 2016 8:09 AM CST God i hate this
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
mollybaby: I highlighted the kind of language that scammers use.

It is the generic greeting that shows that the writer hasn't read the profile, isn't actually writing a personalised email to that person, and more that likely has sent out 20 more of the same in the same sitting.

Most women will block and delete these without reading any further.
this is pure nonsense. What i read in a person's profile doesn't make me know them. Asking the person that question basically mean ate you willing to communicate with me. I never said i said the same thing to everyone and i don't. I said i usually say something like this, and you know its a fact that most women are very insulting in this way. Even on the streets I've seen men say hi and women behave as if he doesn't exist many times because of his none wealthy appearance. Are you aware that some survey have shown than many men try to be successful just because of the way women thinks?
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Jun 8, 2016 8:16 AM CST God i hate this
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
Sampe1967: I am talking about women 26 to 36 who says they are seeking men 36 to 80 which you all know is another story. I have reasons for specifying that age. My profile is real. I am sincere and i would at least hope than each person who wrote one did so honestly. If you ask for daily bread don't expect gourmet chicken. If you want steamed fish just say so.


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Yes, they are the scammers.
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Jun 8, 2016 9:09 AM CST God i hate this
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Sampe1967: I want to know why if anyone can explain to me, women set up profiles stating what they seek and yet when contacted, they just read and ignore. For eg. I seek a man 35-60 I'm 48. I seek honesty, and all the other characteristics that are natural requirements. The y don't talk to me so cant possibly know what I'm like in person but they know its not workable? I think its my job. I am a repairer of old TV and radios and if they want the president they should say so.


Another CS site suggestion and feedback thread? laugh
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Jun 8, 2016 11:19 AM CST God i hate this
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
Sampe1967: you mean even though i want children i should seek a woman 48?


The world does not care what you want.

It's going to operate by it's rules without regard to your wishes.


If you want something out of reach it's on you to improve your reach,

or set a more realistic goal.


The world is not going to bend down and hand you a 26 year old.

That is neither a fault with the world, or 26 year olds.


By in large when you extend the age gap beyond 10 years,

almost everyone willing to get involved will be about money

or housing, or food or some resource they need/want that you have.


You don't have money.

Most of the young people willing to date old people have no use for you.



You're diving into a poor of sharks, and then complaining

there's sharks in the shark pool...and you keep doing it,

and getting mad at the sharks for doing shark things.

laugh
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Jun 8, 2016 11:26 AM CST God i hate this
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
equiya: I find him controlling too. He has been married before and has children, yet he wants a woman who has NEVER BEEN MARRIED and HAS NO CHILDREN. Why??????????????



Because it's all about him.

He is the warm a fuzzy center of the universe.

All things in the world are for him.



He want's a woman to waste her youth on him, but no way in hell

is he going to look after someone else's kid.
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Jun 8, 2016 11:29 AM CST God i hate this
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
Ocee102: The world does not care what you want.
It's going to operate by it's rules without regard to your wishes.

If you want something out of reach it's on you to improve your reach, or set a more realistic goal.
The world is not going to bend down and hand you a 26 year old.

That is neither a fault with the world, or 26 year olds.
By in large when you extend the age gap beyond 10 years,

almost everyone willing to get involved will be about money or housing, or food or some resource they need/want that you have.

You don't have money.

Most of the young people willing to date old people have no use for you.

You're diving into a poor of sharks, and then complaining

there's sharks in the shark pool...and you keep doing it,

and getting mad at the sharks for doing shark things.


AMEN!
thank you.
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Jun 8, 2016 11:52 AM CST God i hate this
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
Ocee102: Because it's all about him.

He is the warm a fuzzy center of the universe.

All things in the world are for him.
He want's a woman to waste her youth on him, but no way in hell is he going to look after someone else's kid.


yep, he won't but he wants her to look after his.
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