Who Deserves It?? (24)
Yeap its all mine! Mine Mine Mine J/k
I own it now. There is a living trust involved always a wize move there.
Mech
I own it now. There is a living trust involved always a wize move there.
Mech
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I am the trustee of my parents estate and we have agreed that each of the kids get things that have already been decided of value and the rest is to be sold and split between the children.
My father worked hard for what he has given my mother and this is their wish as much as our priveledge as the children.
My father worked hard for what he has given my mother and this is their wish as much as our priveledge as the children.
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THE PIC!!!! OMG, I am in love!!!!!
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Living trust here also. I keep telling mom to go spend her money, I have enough of my own but she wants me to have it all..Sick woman..But I will take her millions!!!!
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I honestly think that what is theirs is theirs. But, they also believe what the Lord says about leaving your kids wealth. However small or large. But, I would be perfectly happy if what they had if anything, spent it to live their life to it's fullest.
I only worry about being left to pay for any debts owed. But, I guess if I do then I do.
Kat
I only worry about being left to pay for any debts owed. But, I guess if I do then I do.
Kat
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Welcome back Miss Wikked
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I believe that the parents work very hard for what they have.
If they choose to passed it down to their children it is a gift of generosity and love, but they have no obligation to do so.
Some children have no respect for their parents until the parent is almost dying, do they really "deserve" anything?
Perhaps the parents wiser choice would be a charity, or the inheritance be given to the grandchildren.
Just my thoughts, not a belief to inpose on anyone.
Angel
If they choose to passed it down to their children it is a gift of generosity and love, but they have no obligation to do so.
Some children have no respect for their parents until the parent is almost dying, do they really "deserve" anything?
Perhaps the parents wiser choice would be a charity, or the inheritance be given to the grandchildren.
Just my thoughts, not a belief to inpose on anyone.
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i would be ok if i did not get any thing from my mom when she go's b/c she give me the bast thing u can ask for and thats my life but its her stuff if she wanted me to have it she would give it to me but thats what i think
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Their stuff. Their choice.
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Nope
I have told my folks to enjoy while thet are still here. Take crusies, travel, shop thill the drop be happy while you are here
My folks only owe me i.e. their love, their wisdom and themselves while they are here and no more....
It is I that owe them for this wonderful life they gave me.....
I don't need my folk's money I just need them to be happy
I have told my folks to enjoy while thet are still here. Take crusies, travel, shop thill the drop be happy while you are here
My folks only owe me i.e. their love, their wisdom and themselves while they are here and no more....
It is I that owe them for this wonderful life they gave me.....
I don't need my folk's money I just need them to be happy
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Let me rephrase it as i only thought of the word after i had posted this (the word "deserve" was what was being used in the conversation)..do you think if your parents have assets it is "rightfully" yours at their passing??
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Wikked man.....
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Not really, kind, loving & gentle man but he has an image to uphold..
SSHHHH!!!! Please don't tell anyone!
SSHHHH!!!! Please don't tell anyone!
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"STUFF" is just stuff. At the drop of a match, it is gone....What is really important to leave behind is what Ron said!! Just an old mans opinion..
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What does anyone "deserve"? What if they were in debt?
The difference between asset allocation and merit, can be as big of a chasm as the one between the law and "justice".
The difference between asset allocation and merit, can be as big of a chasm as the one between the law and "justice".
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Because I moved away from where my mother thought I should live, she cut me out of her will, leaving all her assets to my step-father. If and when he passed away, the remaining assets of the estate would go to my children.
Then they both went into a nursing home. I was appointed Trustee by the court and was required to keep track of all expenses, sell her house and use every penny to pay the nursing home bills and medical expenses not covered by insurance. I was paid a small amount for two years of work as the Trustee.
In November, the money ran out...
My children and I got nada....
My point is, never be sure that you "deserve" anything
Then they both went into a nursing home. I was appointed Trustee by the court and was required to keep track of all expenses, sell her house and use every penny to pay the nursing home bills and medical expenses not covered by insurance. I was paid a small amount for two years of work as the Trustee.
In November, the money ran out...
My children and I got nada....
My point is, never be sure that you "deserve" anything
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Bang on target. I couldn´t have said it better myself, thats exactly how I feel.
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Absolutely!
My mother passed away six months after she went into the nursing home.
The good nursing care she got there was worth every penny.
My stepfather is still there.....
My mother passed away six months after she went into the nursing home.
The good nursing care she got there was worth every penny.
My stepfather is still there.....
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Do you think you "deserve" to have your parents leave you whatever they own when they pass away?
Is it their "duty" to bequeath you their belongings?...or would you be okay if they did something else with it?
What if they decide to do a reverse mortgage and spend the money they had set aside for you (as their children and heirs) would you be upset?