allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
secretagent09: Are you for real or are your comments computer generated?
I was in a relationship with someone on CS for three years and NOT once did he say I was attractive, or pretty or anything else of that nature.
If he had said it I definitely would not have taken offense to his appreciation of me.
No, there's absolutely nothing robotic about me..
I think you're missing my point.. Yeh I agree the man in question should have made more of an effort to make you feel special but that's because you were in a relationship.. Telling everyone how beautiful they are however, doesn't make them feel exclusive.. Just for the record, my ex's were always made to feel special.
allthegoodnamest: No, there's absolutely nothing robotic about me..
I think you're missing my point.. Yeh I agree the man in question should have made more of an effort to make you feel special but that's because you were in a relationship.. Telling everyone how beautiful they are however, doesn't make them feel exclusive.. Just for the record, my ex's were always made to feel special.
Interesting opinion.
So are you saying when two people are in a relationship they no longer have to make the other person feel special.
Are you saying when you are in a relationship you no longer have to dress to impress your partner?
Are you saying that you can let yourself go (weight) when you are in a relationship?
Are you saying that when in a relationship he or she just doesn't have to be kind and loving to their partner?
BerrySmoothieOPMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Women don't love compliments when they're a cheap and easy transparent attempt to curry favour. And even the most strong, confident and beautiful woman wants to hear "you're beautiful" from the man she's into.
Sparing is the word to keep in mind when you're considering a compliment, All. What women love is a man's hard-won approval.
I think I just get a little fed up with the dating process....making the effort. I've only really contemplated closing the door firmly shut just recently...I like to believe there are still gems out there for us...and yet we're so down under here, that it's almost impossible to consider someone not local. I wouldn't expect anyone to make a long distance commitment.
I'll leave the door ajar....and venture further...maybe to my mailbox....he could be the postie, after all....
I hear ya about contemplating "closing the door firmly shut" been there and did that myself. What you are looking for will happen when you feel ready to let it happen but in the meantime, keep the door open to the possibilities.
BerrySmoothieOPMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
2intrigued: I hear ya about contemplating "closing the door firmly shut" been there and did that myself. What you are looking for will happen when you feel ready to let it happen but in the meantime, keep the door open to the possibilities.
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