Good Men & Good Women (302)
mollybaby: It brought on the (semi) naked guys though
I realise you attract all sorts but I wasn't expecting a "sumo" to make an appearance .
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One2note: I realise you attract all sorts but I wasn't expecting a "sumo" to make an appearance .
All welcome here
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In response to: A recurrent theme on both the forums and blogs is women complaining there are no good men out there, and men complaining there are no good women out there.
All the people who post must consider themselves to be in that category, so surely that means there must be a lot of good men and good women out there.
Do people only concentrate on the negative? Are they too blinkered to see the good in front of them?
Would they even recognise good?
I have met some great men and women on CS, so I am not taken in by the negativity.
Do people really want to find someone, do they only want to be negative and alone?
All the people who post must consider themselves to be in that category, so surely that means there must be a lot of good men and good women out there.
Do people only concentrate on the negative? Are they too blinkered to see the good in front of them?
Would they even recognise good?
I have met some great men and women on CS, so I am not taken in by the negativity.
Do people really want to find someone, do they only want to be negative and alone?
"Good" has different meaning for different people.
For me it means someone that is compatible as similar values, view in life and wanting to built up a future together.
I know that there aren't a ton of them out there, but it definitely is possible.
Some people are unrealistic and have a complete warped view of themselves and I don't think that they will ever find someone.
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KNenagh: "Good" has different meaning for different people.
For me it means someone that is compatible as similar values, view in life and wanting to built up a future together.
I know that there aren't a ton of them out there, but it definitely is possible.
Some people are unrealistic and have a complete warped view of themselves and I don't think that they will ever find someone. But that's a choice as well.
For me it means someone that is compatible as similar values, view in life and wanting to built up a future together.
I know that there aren't a ton of them out there, but it definitely is possible.
Some people are unrealistic and have a complete warped view of themselves and I don't think that they will ever find someone. But that's a choice as well.
Hi KN, yes, I agree 'good' has different meanings to different people.
And many do have unrealistic expectations, possibly brought on by the people-brochure effect of the internet.
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mollybaby: I find the weekend is the best time for nooking.
Don't waste this weekend
Don't waste this weekend
Is the meaning of ""nooking"",somewhere near,meaning ""knoking"???
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mollybaby: A recurrent theme on both the forums and blogs is women complaining there are no good men out there, and men complaining there are no good women out there.
All the people who post must consider themselves to be in that category, so surely that means there must be a lot of good men and good women out there.
Do people only concentrate on the negative? Are they too blinkered to see the good in front of them?
Would they even recognise good?
I have met some great men and women on CS, so I am not taken in by the negativity.
Do people really want to find someone, do they only want to be negative and alone?
All the people who post must consider themselves to be in that category, so surely that means there must be a lot of good men and good women out there.
Do people only concentrate on the negative? Are they too blinkered to see the good in front of them?
Would they even recognise good?
I have met some great men and women on CS, so I am not taken in by the negativity.
Do people really want to find someone, do they only want to be negative and alone?
Hmmmm negative positive negative positive .... Do you know that a molecule of Ozone (O3) is actually a molecule of Oxygen (O2) with one additional Atom?
Otay..... well I almost always have to mental floss while I read your posts so I'm now ready to see you naked in good lighting alone and without fluid spirits.
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KNenaghe
I find that CS tends to envelope itself to a seriously cramped family.
Breathe
Love living on the fringe.
"Honestly"
Now, to my next post
Luv ya!
Soph
I find that CS tends to envelope itself to a seriously cramped family.
Breathe
Love living on the fringe.
"Honestly"
Now, to my next post
Luv ya!
Soph
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galrads: Hmmmm negative positive negative positive .... Do you know that a molecule of Ozone (O3) is actually a molecule of Oxygen (O2) with one additional Atom?
Otay..... well I almost always have to mental floss while I read your posts so I'm now ready to see you naked in good lighting alone and without fluid spirits.
Otay..... well I almost always have to mental floss while I read your posts so I'm now ready to see you naked in good lighting alone and without fluid spirits.
I hope the lighting is very good
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chris27292729: Is the meaning of ""nooking"",somewhere near,meaning ""knoking"???
not too far off
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mollybaby: Hi KN, yes, I agree 'good' has different meanings to different people.
And many do have unrealistic expectations, possibly brought on by the people-brochure effect of the internet.
And many do have unrealistic expectations, possibly brought on by the people-brochure effect of the internet.
I think there is more "ego stroking" going on here, but if someone can meet his partner in RL, they can on here - and vice versa.
I took a look of the BS in PM's for what it is, but obviously others believe every word of it.
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sophiasummer: KNenaghe
I find that CS tends to envelope itself to a seriously cramped family.
BreatheLove living on the fringe.
"Honestly"
Now, to my next post
Luv ya!
Soph
I find that CS tends to envelope itself to a seriously cramped family.
BreatheLove living on the fringe.
"Honestly"
Now, to my next post
Luv ya!
Soph
Hiya Soph,
A lot of posters "know" each other well and as in every family or community, there are those that are in the middle of it and others keep more to themselves.
Wishing you a great weekend.
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KNenagh: I think there is more "ego stroking" going on here, but if someone can meet his partner in RL, they can on here - and vice versa.
I took a look of the BS in PM's for what it is, but obviously others believe every word of it.
I took a look of the BS in PM's for what it is, but obviously others believe every word of it.
People see what they want to see.
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mollybaby: not too far off
Have you got to know a pass word,before knocking, for ""entry""????
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mollybaby: A recurrent theme on both the forums and blogs is women complaining there are no good men out there, and men complaining there are no good women out there.
All the people who post must consider themselves to be in that category, so surely that means there must be a lot of good men and good women out there.
Do people only concentrate on the negative? Are they too blinkered to see the good in front of them?
Would they even recognise good?
I have met some great men and women on CS, so I am not taken in by the negativity.
Do people really want to find someone, do they only want to be negative and alone?
All the people who post must consider themselves to be in that category, so surely that means there must be a lot of good men and good women out there.
Do people only concentrate on the negative? Are they too blinkered to see the good in front of them?
Would they even recognise good?
I have met some great men and women on CS, so I am not taken in by the negativity.
Do people really want to find someone, do they only want to be negative and alone?
What's wrong with being negative and alone?
Positivity is the madness of pretending you're good when you're clearly not and if there was a bloke sitting next to you would this somehow make everything better?
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Rumples: What's wrong with being negative and alone?
Positivity is the madness of pretending you're good when you're clearly not and if there was a bloke sitting next to you would this somehow make everything better?
Positivity is the madness of pretending you're good when you're clearly not and if there was a bloke sitting next to you would this somehow make everything better?
That is why I left it as a question, as some people might see the positivity in negativity.
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mollybaby: That is why I left it as a question, as some people might see the positivity in negativity.
Hi Molly,
A constant, endless state of positivity brings to my mind the thought there is some well hidden or well controlled problem with emotion management.
If someone is "happy" all the time and nothing can make him show a bit od feeling down or angry or any other negative-ish feeling...I won't trust such person for a second.
Stuffing down and deep inside your negative emotions can only harm your mental health.
As for the "not looking" members, many just can not afford to start a relationship at that moment...due to different reasons...
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As you.
"know"
NZ doing well at the Paralympics.
"know"
NZ doing well at the Paralympics.
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For KNeagh
Sophia
sophiasummer: As you.
"know"
NZ doing well at the Paralympics.
"know"
NZ doing well at the Paralympics.
Sophia
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KremaP: Hi Molly,
A constant, endless state of positivity brings to my mind the thought there is some well hidden or well controlled problem with emotion management.
If someone is "happy" all the time and nothing can make him show a bit od feeling down or angry or any other negative-ish feeling...I won't trust such person for a second.
Stuffing down and deep inside your negative emotions can only harm your mental health.
As for the "not looking" members, many just can not afford to start a relationship at that moment...due to different reasons...
A constant, endless state of positivity brings to my mind the thought there is some well hidden or well controlled problem with emotion management.
If someone is "happy" all the time and nothing can make him show a bit od feeling down or angry or any other negative-ish feeling...I won't trust such person for a second.
Stuffing down and deep inside your negative emotions can only harm your mental health.
As for the "not looking" members, many just can not afford to start a relationship at that moment...due to different reasons...
Hi Krema, thanks for your input
But I never either mentioned people who are 'happy' all the time, nor 'not looking' members.
The theme of the blog was about "women complaining there are no good men out there, and men complaining there are no good women out there'
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I find the weekend is the best time for nooking.
Don't waste this weekend