High maintenance (68)
online today!online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Postsmollybaby: I have my own stock
...I think vinney wants what in your stockings.....
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truheart1941: ...I think vinney wants what in your stockings.....
He's a-pedaling
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mollybaby: He's a-pedaling
lets hope his journey is,nt wasted......
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truheart1941: lets hope his journey is,nt wasted......
I don't believe in wasting time
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One2note: Having dated mostly younger women in my dating career .. And trust me, they don't come cheap.. I was wondering if the more mature ones, my age or slightly older, are lower or higher maintenance ..
Do you need the fancy holidays & expensive meals out, or are you happy sitting at home watching your favourite soap , with a bag of werthers original.
Do you need the fancy holidays & expensive meals out, or are you happy sitting at home watching your favourite soap , with a bag of werthers original.
May I ask what do you consider expensive. I like to holiday and eat out occasionally. Not all the time tho. Also if a woman really wants your company it is not her intent to break a man. She would rather you both be able to eat in life. 
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One2note: Having dated mostly younger women in my dating career .. And trust me, they don't come cheap.. I was wondering if the more mature ones, my age or slightly older, are lower or higher maintenance ..
Do you need the fancy holidays & expensive meals out, or are you happy sitting at home watching your favourite soap , with a bag of werthers original.
Do you need the fancy holidays & expensive meals out, or are you happy sitting at home watching your favourite soap , with a bag of werthers original.
I am high maintenance and with age it goes even higher but not in the material section, rather in the communication/intellectual exchange.
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Regarding to the material needs/wants/likes I can take care of myself.
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One2note: Having dated mostly younger women in my dating career .. And trust me, they don't come cheap.. I was wondering if the more mature ones, my age or slightly older, are lower or higher maintenance ..
Do you need the fancy holidays & expensive meals out, or are you happy sitting at home watching your favourite soap , with a bag of werthers original.
Do you need the fancy holidays & expensive meals out, or are you happy sitting at home watching your favourite soap , with a bag of werthers original.
Let's see, I definitely won't eat in Burger King, KFC, MD or other similar places...
But I would enjoy a hot dog from a stand and eat it sitting on a bench in the park...depending on how much I am fascinated by the guy...
I won't go on a holiday with someone I just started seeing...as it won't be easy to escape if I don't really like it...
I don't watch TV but like to indulge on a box of fine chocolates way too often...
One might say I am high maintenance but I am not asking anybody to maintain me, I do it myself...right...
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Happygolucky4u: May I ask what do you consider expensive. I like to holiday and eat out occasionally. Not all the time tho. Also if a woman really wants your company it is not her intent to break a man. She would rather you both be able to eat in life.
I don't think the occasional holiday & the odd meal out constitutes high maintenance.
For me , it means spending on unnecessaries , such as regular shopping trips, self pampering & in extreme cases, cosmetic surgery.. Then you have the emotional side, with the constant need of attention & reassurance.
However, I wouldn't put you in either bracket.
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One2note: I don't think the occasional holiday & the odd meal out constitutes high maintenance.
For me , it means spending on unnecessaries , such as regular shopping trips, self pampering & in extreme cases, cosmetic surgery.. Then you have the emotional side, with the constant need of attention & reassurance.
However, I wouldn't put you in either bracket.
For me , it means spending on unnecessaries , such as regular shopping trips, self pampering & in extreme cases, cosmetic surgery.. Then you have the emotional side, with the constant need of attention & reassurance.
However, I wouldn't put you in either bracket.
If she wants it and can afford it, let her at it.
Same with men and their boy-toys and gadgets .
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KremaP: Let's see, I definitely won't eat in Burger King, KFC, MD or other similar places...
But I would enjoy a hot dog from a stand and eat it sitting on a bench in the park...depending on how much I am fascinated by the guy...
I won't go on a holiday with someone I just started seeing...as it won't be easy to escape if I don't really like it...
I don't watch TV but like to indulge on a box of fine chocolates way too often...
One might say I am high maintenance but I am not asking anybody to maintain me, I do it myself...right...
But I would enjoy a hot dog from a stand and eat it sitting on a bench in the park...depending on how much I am fascinated by the guy...
I won't go on a holiday with someone I just started seeing...as it won't be easy to escape if I don't really like it...
I don't watch TV but like to indulge on a box of fine chocolates way too often...
One might say I am high maintenance but I am not asking anybody to maintain me, I do it myself...right...
Krema, In the years I've known you, one could never accuse you of being high maintenance on the materialistic side. My concern is , why such a sweet & young lady such as yourself, has convinced herself that remaining a single parent , is the best option.
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unlaoised: Their credit card, their choice. None of your business.
Absolutely, but I was talking about if I were in a relationship with that person..Then it does become my business
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One2note: Absolutely, but I was talking about if I were in a relationship with that person..Then it does become my business
Only if it's your credit card she's using. If it's her own...it's not.
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unlaoised: Only if it's your credit card she's using. If it's her own...it's not.
Not necessarily .. If I'm paying the household bills & necessities & she's spending her own money luxury items for herself , without contributing to any bills, then surely , that selfish attitude does become a major cause for concern.
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One2note: Not necessarily .. If I'm paying the household bills & necessities & she's spending her own money luxury items for herself , without contributing to any bills, then surely , that selfish attitude does become a major cause for concern.
Then it is a problem beyond spending.
It is about the relationship dynamic as a whole.
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One2note: Not necessarily .. If I'm paying the household bills & necessities & she's spending her own money luxury items for herself , without contributing to any bills, then surely , that selfish attitude does become a major cause for concern.
"In a relationship" is not necessarily living together and you assume that she's not pulling her weight on other expenditure.
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mollybaby: Then it is a problem beyond spending.
It is about the relationship dynamic as a whole.
It is about the relationship dynamic as a whole.
Exactly
The reason I mentioned it ,is because I recently visited a friend , who manages a spa & beauty complex in an affluent area of London.. Watching his clients , the majority kept women, spending vast amounts of money on pampering themselves, made me realise how fortunate I have been in my previous relationships, or maybe I'm a good judge of character, I don't know
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unlaoised: "In a relationship" is not necessarily living together and you assume that she's not pulling her weight on other expenditure.
I was talking hypothetically, on the assumption that the couple were living together.
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lifeisadream: I am high maintenance and with age it goes even higher but not in the material section, rather in the communication/intellectual exchange.
Often, when people feel the need to be constantly stimulated by intellectual conversation , it generally means they are lacking in other areas of their relationship.
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One2note: Exactly
The reason I mentioned it ,is because I recently visited a friend , who manages a spa & beauty complex in an affluent area of London.. Watching his clients , the majority kept women, spending vast amounts of money on pampering themselves, made me realise how fortunate I have been in my previous relationships, or maybe I'm a good judge of character, I don't know
The reason I mentioned it ,is because I recently visited a friend , who manages a spa & beauty complex in an affluent area of London.. Watching his clients , the majority kept women, spending vast amounts of money on pampering themselves, made me realise how fortunate I have been in my previous relationships, or maybe I'm a good judge of character, I don't know
Some men want that.
They want a woman dependent on him,
And they then want that woman to look good on his arm
win win.
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