carla37: What ever was is already done, and no need to regret nothing because already happens. If you will have regrets ,i think will always stop u to step in future.. leave it and start better.
chris27292729: Did you ever regretted the person,you got married to??? or Regretted it, few times during your marriage and thought to break the marriage and feel free.????
If you ask yourself these questions, you asked the wrong ones in the first place ,....before you got married.
Cosmicgirl68Christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand86 posts
chris27292729: Did you ever regretted the person,you got married to??? or Regretted it, few times during your marriage and thought to break the marriage and feel free.????
No, I don't regret my marriage...because I have an awesome son :) I just wish I'd had the courage to leave sooner....
We are still friends....
Now I look to the future....and hope to find a man to share the next part of my life...
One2note: Marriage is a long & difficult task at the best of times, so make sure you find a partner who will keep you interested.
In a long happy marriage there are bound to be some times when the other person temporarily doesn't "keep you interested" and vice versa. What do you do then?
No point in regretting the marriage. I wouldn't have my wonderful daughter if I hadn't married so something goid came from it. Our experiences good and bad make us what we are
chris27292729: Did you ever regretted the person,you got married to??? or Regretted it, few times during your marriage and thought to break the marriage and feel free.????
Of course,took me 7 years to walk away, actually runaway.. That was when I was in my late 20yrs.
MnanahEireann: In a long happy marriage there are bound to be some times when the other person temporarily doesn't "keep you interested" and vice versa. What do you do then?
Yeh , I understand & every marriage goes through tough times.. This is where good communication comes into effect & whatever problems arise , stay strong & don't give in to temptation & eventually, the glue that holds the marriage together , will get stronger.
more to the point......what kills a marridge......(..stress..).......not always the person that you married......even if you both work........the house you buy..you need to win the lottery........unless you buy it outright......most pay a 20/25 yea r rmortgage/plus every daycosts......just name something you need or have..that has cost you nothing................the cost of living keep going up......but wages stay static......as husband and wife.....your like ....passing ships in the night.......except on a sunday.....when yo can enjoy a meal, and a day togeather..........even thinking about having a holiday....means remortgaging the house.... ..soooo.all work and no play......makes jack/Jill....a dull couple.......tempers fray/arguments etc..etc......etc.......the question is.....whos fault is it........??????...answer....niether...........its just the world we live in.....with taxes...and greedy strangers who control our hard earnt wages...jmo........
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I was extending an olive branch......but he chopped it off and ran.....
Wise man....
Have you got olive trees in Kiwi land???