Where are you at your most confident best ? ( Archived) (54)

Jul 16, 2017 4:33 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
CreamyMint
CreamyMintCreamyMintSanVicente, Argentina2 Threads 1 Polls 59 Posts
One2note: Well , I generally have a rule , that I don't date women I've never seen or spoken to via phone.

Call me cynical, but it's never faired well for me in the past .


Luckily for you most women have a rule not to date a greekish looking brit with a bad attitude towards women worldwide.
beer
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Jul 16, 2017 4:36 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
MetaMaus
MetaMausMetaMausKilkenny, Ireland4 Threads 501 Posts
One2note: Talking to people face to face , chatting via phone , or hiding behind a computer screen?

For me, it's talking face to face with a person. You get a vibe, either through eye contact or body movement.
A simple hi & a smile goes a long long way , whereas online, that probably wouldn't get a response & you have to guess what kind of wording would merit a response !

Which one of the three would be more comfortable with?


Trying to decipher what's been said, translating a meaning, face to face can have its merrits.
Rolling eyeballs, hand gestures, facial expressions etc it all ads detail to the complex package with which we communicate.
Mail, email I do like.
Phones I seldom answer.
I find it intrusive.
Text messages I will read and might reply to, voice messages I never listen to.
Doesn't mean I can't hang on the phone for hours with some but the idea of chatting with someone I barely know I find as appealing as chewing vomit.
Chit-chat small talk is something that can change my confidence.
Not that I can't but I find it exhausting.
I have no problem with socially suicide silence.
Except for chit chat none of the above changes my confidence.
Who I'm talking to might make a difference with that.
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Jul 16, 2017 4:37 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
CreamyMint: Luckily for you most women have a rule not to date a greekish looking brit with a bad attitude towards women worldwide.


Our greekish looking brit,,,,,, a bad attitude,,,,,,,, never!cheering conversing
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Jul 16, 2017 4:42 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
CreamyMint: Luckily for you most women have a rule not to date a greekish looking brit with a bad attitude towards women worldwide.



Maybe you don't get his humorlaugh Greekish looking brit I don't think so.
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Jul 16, 2017 4:47 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: Well , I generally have a rule , that I don't date women I've never seen or spoken to via phone.

Call me cynical, but it's never faired well for me in the past .



I guess everybody has their own way of making things work.
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Jul 16, 2017 4:47 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
CreamyMint: Luckily for you most women have a rule not to date a greekish looking brit with a bad attitude towards women worldwide.


I'm sorry if I come across that way , but it was never my intent to deliberately upset anyone.sad flower
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Jul 16, 2017 4:49 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
CreamyMint
CreamyMintCreamyMintSanVicente, Argentina2 Threads 1 Polls 59 Posts
One2note: I'm sorry if I come across that way , but it was never my intent to deliberately upset anyone.


Damn you brits! You are so charming, I can't be mad at you for too long.
kiss
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Jul 16, 2017 4:49 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: I guess everybody has their own way of making things work.


We're both here, so I guess non of our methods are working .laugh
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Jul 16, 2017 4:50 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
One2note: I'm sorry if I come across that way , but it was never my intent to deliberately upset anyone.




One 2note don't worry about it.hug You're doing just fine.
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Jul 16, 2017 4:52 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
CreamyMint: Damn you brits! You are so charming, I can't be mad at you for too long.


Did this little outburst have anything to do with my comment on South American women ?confused
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Jul 16, 2017 4:55 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Ccincy: One 2note don't worry about it. You're doing just fine.


Thanks Cc .. I may co sender being best man at you & Tru's wedding if asked hug wave
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Jul 16, 2017 4:57 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: We're both here, so I guess non of our methods are working .



Or they are both right grin
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Jul 16, 2017 4:58 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
One2note: Thanks Cc .. I may co sender being best man at you & Tru's wedding if asked




Me & Tru.That's too funny.rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 16, 2017 5:07 PM CST Where are you at your most confident best ?
..did someone just mention my name...???????
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