Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ? ( Archived) (35)

Dec 30, 2017 5:21 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Reading through some of the comments on the Threads, I have noticed that some men, feel that they should not pay for their lady dates, as she is taking them for a ride, by doing so ?

Most of the men in my life did not have a lot of money, which made me pay for most of them, my whole life.

I did not mind, as I felt sorry for them, not being able to pay for their food, clothes, fun !

According to u:-

Is it right for a guy to pay for a girl (or) a girl to pay for a guy ?

- Pride comes into this equation somewhere, or does it ?

wow
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Dec 30, 2017 5:58 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
One2note: Call me old fashioned, but I think it's a gentlemans privilege to pay on the first date


Note - First Date ?
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Dec 30, 2017 6:16 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
One2note: If a women sleeps with me on a first date, it generally means she's not looking for a LYR.


Don't u need a second date, and if so why then, and if u do, who pays for it ?
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Dec 30, 2017 7:37 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
I would ask the OP what personal satisfaction she has in posting incessant crap, a very similar thread was posted regarding asking to be taken to dinner with a family member and I would say that many here using the forum were aghast at what it was about.

South Africans are as tight as a Ducks because of their closeness to Dutch people and my personal thought is that the answer had already been given before the post went up. Having the same thread with two different names would appear stupid to say the least.
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Dec 30, 2017 7:40 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
mykingdomforanam: If you showed up with your son both ordered seafood platters, and then you said, you both forgot your wallets like you did to the old guy, I'd order us drinks, ice cream, and cakes all around, then I'd quietly pay for mine, and slip out the back Jack.


lol. I always have my bag with wallet with me. This guy is trying very hard to get into my good books. The restaurant was decided on a week before already and he was just waiting for me to confirm, when I had time to go. BTW I have 2 sons.

Shows what type of person u r to assume that !

U people r soooooo..... pathetic !
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Dec 30, 2017 8:42 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
yubba: .
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Pathetic?, on the contrary because we are reading what You post and we are commenting on the crap that is therein.




cheering
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Dec 30, 2017 8:45 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
I've gone dutch before cause I have no problem chipping in to help pay for the meal.
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Dec 30, 2017 9:28 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
galrads: I’ll take it from the perspective that dating serves the old fashion purpose of two people getting to know more about each other to decide if they want a relationship or if they want the relationship to develop into something more blah blah blah

So, if dinner on a first date or whenever is the main event, whoever does the invite should pick up the check.

Whoever invites someone to see a concert etc together, should pay any cover for the event. If afterwards it’s decided to dine, both pay their own bill unless it’s a special occasion like someone’s birthday or graduation etc.

Regardless, most women I know today refuse to have me pay their dinner check.


After this last debacle So will I !!!
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Dec 30, 2017 9:51 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
One2note: Call me old fashioned, but I think it's a gentlemans privilege to pay on the first date



I also believe on the first day,a gentlement should pay the bill/s.-
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Dec 30, 2017 9:59 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
chris27292729: I also believe on the first day,a gentlement should pay the bill/s.-


Because u want a one night stand paid for already by u for the dinner. U get to eat for free and pay with ur body later.
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Dec 30, 2017 10:00 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Bearwoman: I am selective too but to me a man wouldn't be considered normal if he didn't try at least once.


U see I'm not into slapping and violence.
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Dec 30, 2017 10:05 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
One2note: Call me old fashioned, but I think it's a gentlemans privilege to pay on the first date



Are you going to pay if she invites you out to dinner on a first date?
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Dec 30, 2017 10:20 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
galrads: Are you going to pay if she invites you out to dinner on a first date?


Yes.


I will pay,even the idea and invitation,comes from her.-

professor professor professor
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Dec 30, 2017 10:22 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
chris27292729: You missed the word "gentleman".

If is stuck in your mind,that all men,on a first day,
pay for an outing with a lady, and then bedding her,
comes straight after.
If signs and indications come from the side of the lady,
then WHY NOT finish up in bed????
If there are not,those kind of signs,
No gentleman will risk his reputation,and become a fool.


Read the whole thread and answer me then, if u then say just the 2 of u r gentlemen, it's rubbish.
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Dec 30, 2017 10:41 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
chris27292729: Then,
Very few gents left in your country.
and perhaps
NON SA born.


I was married to a British Yorkshireman.

Everything but a gentleman.

His family included.

There r no such thing as a gentleman.

Maybe in ur dreams or did u hypnotize someone to believe u ?
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Dec 30, 2017 10:44 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
Well, he can grab some sandwiches and pop, I'll take care of the ice cream and chocolate...
Sharing is caring...right...it's never too early to start...
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Dec 30, 2017 10:53 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Tanqueray
TanquerayTanquerayLondon, Greater London, England UK185 Posts
If they are Mazafati dates then yes.
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Dec 30, 2017 11:04 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
chris27292729: If you are "dead convinced",gentlemen don't exist,as partners in life,
then more likely,you'll never meet or find one.
Though is a good thing,
You WILL remain with the memories of your EX.


Do u then believe u would have made a better EX ?

Such great Gentlemen like U and One2 ?
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Dec 30, 2017 11:45 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
emmy1
emmy1emmy1morlaix, Bretagne France3 Threads 414 Posts
I always go 50/50 on a first date and if he insists then it's a Thankyou very much.
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Dec 30, 2017 11:47 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
emmy1: I always go 50/50 on a first date and if he insists then it's a Thankyou very much.


when are you going with me...grin
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