I think the problem is overconfidence...the chance to put a little bit more on the top of what it really is tempting to the online dater... Women look better and talk sweeter, men sound more decisive and confident... The abundance of interest is deceptive and creates value that isn't there... Nothing can limit the the amount of time wasters and divas... It's like fishing, some want to fish some just bathe the worm...
pKrema: I think the problem is overconfidence...the chance to put a little bit more on the top of what it really is tempting to the online dater... Women look better and talk sweeter, men sound more decisive and confident... The abundance of interest is deceptive and creates value that isn't there... Nothing can limit the the amount of time wasters and divas... It's like fishing, some want to fish some just bathe the worm...
One2note: The difference between online dating & normal dating is, that will normal dating, you have a one- one encounter, whereas with online dating, you can talk to multiple people simultaneously. However, if there was an "exclusively motion" whereby a button is clicked & you can only mail that person, it may be taken more seriously & would stop any paranoia & would decrease the amount of scammers from joining dating sites. What are your thoughts & opinions?
Doesn't matter, people are going to be different on the internet be it scammers or jerks. They're deceptive and we don't know the whole story until we actually meet them in real life. Someone can be a real horrible alcoholic and you'd not know it until you meet them. Someone can be married and hiding it so well, going out of their way to hide it from you. These are the real scammers. Sadly. So much comes into play with online dating. You just never know what you are dealing with.
pKrema: I think the problem is overconfidence...the chance to put a little bit more on the top of what it really is tempting to the online dater... Women look better and talk sweeter, men sound more decisive and confident... The abundance of interest is deceptive and creates value that isn't there... Nothing can limit the the amount of time wasters and divas... It's like fishing, some want to fish some just bathe the worm...
Yes it amazes me how woman are all sweet for ever how long they've been communicating even if he pisses her off before they meet she will act all sweet..Then when they meet he whinges I never saw that side of her blah blah blah.
Like seriously I'm yet to meet a woman who doesn't get pissed off.
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