SILENCE is the Best weapon ( Archived) (86)

Aug 16, 2018 5:38 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
Packersbabe1: Movies, Friends, My son and it’s 6:32 pm
Here
Thats greatcheers
Have a nice eveningcheers
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Aug 16, 2018 5:42 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen: Thats great
Have a nice evening


Alright, you enjoy your daycheers
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Aug 16, 2018 6:47 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
We do not avoid miscommunication in the family....@ times there is a reason why we keep silent instead of saying your side...dunno
I know myself betterhug
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Aug 16, 2018 7:25 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Silence aka "the silent treatment" should never be used as a weapon.

Some women do have a tendency to use it to punish, whilst men, not exempt from it either, take shelter in their man caves.

If you've both reached a stalemate with discussion, then take time-out.....go for a walk....log out, if online, and re-establish contact later.

...and, yep....I'm an expert on this subject.....laugh
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Aug 16, 2018 8:00 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
ysabeljhen: Have u experience havinf an argument to anyone
And u just wanted to do something
But u chose to keep SILENT
Silence as a weapon? Not a good idea....it's better to have honest and open communication and if that's not happening, it's time to rethink the relationship.
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Aug 16, 2018 8:01 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Silence aka "the silent treatment" should never be used as a weapon.

Some women do have a tendency to use it to punish, whilst men, not exempt from it either, take shelter in their man caves.

If you've both reached a stalemate with discussion, then take time-out.....go for a walk....log out, if online, and re-establish contact later.

...and, yep....I'm an expert on this subject.....
wave Berry

Yes u have all the right to have your opinion
but "each hs their way of dealing"
cheers
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Aug 16, 2018 8:04 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
2intrigued: Silence as a weapon? Not a good idea....it's better to have honest and open communication and if that's not happening, it's time to rethink the relationship.
IT might be a bad idea to some but @ times we are not in their shoes to keep silent or burst outcheers handshake
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Aug 16, 2018 9:12 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen: Have u experience havinf an argument to anyone
And u just wanted to do something
But u chose to keep SILENT
Sometimes I don't hold back Isabel but never went as far as hurting anyone to warrant any arrest or restitution.wave
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Aug 16, 2018 9:53 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
lindsyjones: Sometimes I don't hold back Isabel but never went as far as hurting anyone to warrant any arrest or restitution.
I would't do that eitherwine
teddybear
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Aug 17, 2018 4:53 AM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
sometimes there just really isn't anything to say........wine
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Aug 17, 2018 6:32 AM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
M4_Mischief: sometimes there just really isn't anything to say........
U bet its truethumbs up
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Aug 17, 2018 8:03 AM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen: I would't do that either
When people are extremely unreasonable, I save my breath and walk away. teddybear
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Aug 17, 2018 8:15 AM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
lindsyjones: When people are extremely unreasonable, I save my breath and walk away.
My heart is just so calm but my mind is thinking too muchfrustrated
I did that walked awayhug
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Aug 17, 2018 8:16 AM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
M4_Mischief: sometimes there just really isn't anything to say........
I am by nature a shy and retiring person, if i get the silent treatment it gives me a chance to catch up on my writing and read the papers , i don't even have to retire to the heads to do that, the silent treatment is designed to intimidate and manipulate, it doesn't work with me I enjoy itrolling on the floor laughing cats meow
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Aug 17, 2018 5:53 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
aries1234: I am by nature a shy and retiring person, if i get the silent treatment it gives me a chance to catch up on my writing and read the papers , i don't even have to retire to the heads to do that, the silent treatment is designed to intimidate and manipulate, it doesn't work with me I enjoy it
@ times it is by choice if we need to "mum"
for things to consider.
cheers
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Aug 17, 2018 7:43 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
Mercedes_00online now!
Mercedes_00online now!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,475 Posts
To a certain degree.
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Aug 17, 2018 9:08 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
Mercedes_00: To a certain degree.
wave Merceded you are absolutely rightthumbs up
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Aug 17, 2018 9:08 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
Mercedes_00online now!
Mercedes_00online now!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,475 Posts
ysabeljhen: Merceded you are absolutely right
wave
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Aug 17, 2018 9:11 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
handshake



teddybear
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Aug 17, 2018 10:23 PM CST SILENCE is the Best weapon
Actions speak louder than words.
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