What happens if we give but don’t get ( Archived) (42)

Apr 17, 2020 8:11 PM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
You get what you give

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Apr 18, 2020 5:38 PM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
Onlyforums
OnlyforumsOnlyforumsunknown, Alberta Canada10 Threads 183 Posts
If you give what you do not get back?
Well thats a sorted story for most but
Resentment sets in, then bad feelings occur

I have given quite abit in my lifetime, never expect anything back
It all depends whether your 'expecting'........something
Worth thinking about really...................expectations can be our downfallhandshake
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Apr 18, 2020 7:04 PM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Onlyforums: If you give what you do not get back?
Well thats a sorted story for most but
Resentment sets in, then bad feelings occur

I have given quite abit in my lifetime, never expect anything back
It all depends whether your 'expecting'........something
Worth thinking about really...................expectations can be our downfall
drinking too bad we expect reciprocations for basic things wave
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Apr 18, 2020 7:50 PM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
MetaMaus
MetaMausMetaMausKilkenny, Ireland4 Threads 501 Posts
The Gift: Forms and Functions of Exchange in Archaic Societies
an essay by Marcel Mauss
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Apr 19, 2020 12:32 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
Nothing wrong with being a giver laugh
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Apr 19, 2020 12:36 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
irish78eyes: Nothing wrong with being a giver
Careful, that statement could be taken in many ways. grin
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Apr 19, 2020 12:40 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
kidatheart: Careful, that statement could be taken in many ways.
indeed I suspect it was worded to do so...
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Apr 19, 2020 12:44 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
kidatheart: Careful, that statement could be taken in many ways.
seems pretty clear to me that there are lots more takers than givers...
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Apr 19, 2020 12:48 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
kidatheart: Careful, that statement could be taken in many ways.
It was totally innocentscold laugh
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Apr 19, 2020 12:49 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
michaelright: seems pretty clear to me that there are lots more takers than givers...
I have no doubt, see them all over the place, all the time. This is one of the many reasons I stay at home with my pets. laugh
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Apr 19, 2020 12:51 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
kidatheart: I have no doubt, see them all over the place, all the time. This is one of the many reasons I stay at home with my pets.
How many "pets" do you have wow laugh
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Apr 19, 2020 12:58 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
irish78eyes: How many "pets" do you have
Just Petey and the two cats. That's enough to deal with most days. laugh

I do have a pair of ducks and a skunk that visit regularly, and some deer that come by occasionally as well. The mink and beavers haven't been over this year, yet, and I haven't seen the eagle that used to come by daily since last fall. The racoons are still around, but they're only out at night, so I don't see them. Not that any of these wild critters are pets, but they still come and hang out with me. laugh
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Apr 19, 2020 1:01 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
kidatheart: Just Petey and the two cats. That's enough to deal with most days.

I do have a pair of ducks and a skunk that visit regularly, and some deer that come by occasionally as well. The mink and beavers haven't been over this year, yet, and I haven't seen the eagle that used to come by daily since last fall. The racoons are still around, but they're only out at night, so I don't see them. Not that any of these wild critters are pets, but they still come and hang out with me.
CS very own tiger king laugh
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Apr 19, 2020 1:08 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
irish78eyes: CS very own tiger king
Ummm, no.

I'm just friendly and the critters know it. teddybear
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Apr 19, 2020 1:36 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
Palmfrond
PalmfrondPalmfrondEaston, Pennsylvania USA4 Threads 236 Posts
you should give without expecting a return. if you get a return, you win
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Apr 19, 2020 8:16 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
You wonder how the greatest managed to live so greatly when the future just got worse through no fault of their own. I think the answer is nobility. To live in such a way that you can be proud of yourself despite not being rewarded materally or financially - far from it. The admired and austere greatest generation are nothing like the hated and overpaid baby boomer.
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Apr 19, 2020 8:45 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
More often that not it is that person who couldn't do enough to help you, it would see you that you are okay whilst starving themselves. Grace is one-sided isn't it; magnamous in victory, humble in defeat in some sense it is to do better than karma and like for like. You make the world a little bit better personally because the general condition of the world is terrible. That's how it works.
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Apr 19, 2020 8:47 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
ChesneyChrist: More often that not it is that person who couldn't do enough to help you, it would see you that you are okay whilst starving themselves. Grace is one-sided isn't it; magnamous in victory, humble in defeat in some sense it is to do better than karma and like for like. You make the world a little bit better personally because the general condition of the world is terrible. That's how it works.
This is actually lovely , Ches .
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Apr 19, 2020 9:07 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Palmfrond: you should give without expecting a return. if you get a return, you win
So, then, would you stay in a one sided Unrequited gf bf relationship? wave
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Apr 19, 2020 9:08 AM CST What happens if we give but don’t get
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
ChesneyChrist: You wonder how the greatest managed to live so greatly when the future just got worse through no fault of their own. I think the answer is nobility. To live in such a way that you can be proud of yourself despite not being rewarded materally or financially - far from it. The admired and austere greatest generation are nothing like the hated and overpaid baby boomer.
Nicely said until you spoke bad about the baby boomers who worked hard and may have been selfish but they had respect for others in the community.
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