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Jun 24, 2020 9:56 AM CST Love & Hate - Friends & Enemies - Marriage & Divorce
Howzit654
Howzit654Howzit654Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa4 Threads 23 Posts
We all have lived life, the duration doesn't really matter much.
Hurt through disregard, snide remarks, accidental and obvious malice.

Will you really try again?
Go through the same pain, brain freeze, and eventual recovery,
to end up in the same state again, for the n'th time!

lips kiss frustrated
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Jun 24, 2020 10:24 AM CST Love & Hate - Friends & Enemies - Marriage & Divorce
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Howzit654: We all have lived life, the duration doesn't really matter much.
Hurt through disregard, snide remarks, accidental and obvious malice.

Will you really try again?
Go through the same pain, brain freeze, and eventual recovery,
to end up in the same state again, for the n'th time!
You don't have to get married to be a couple. And you don't have to drive things to malice to end a relationship.

Yes, I'd like to fall in love again :)
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Jun 24, 2020 10:25 AM CST Love & Hate - Friends & Enemies - Marriage & Divorce
Howzit654
Howzit654Howzit654Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa4 Threads 23 Posts
Tulefell: You don't have to get married to be a couple. And you don't have to drive things to malice to end a relationship.

Yes, I'd like to fall in love again :)
We agree!

So would I.
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Jun 24, 2020 11:20 AM CST Love & Hate - Friends & Enemies - Marriage & Divorce
Butterflygirl1
Butterflygirl1Butterflygirl1Dublin, Ireland1,080 Posts
Howzit654: We all have lived life, the duration doesn't really matter much.
Hurt through disregard, snide remarks, accidental and obvious malice.

Will you really try again?
Go through the same pain, brain freeze, and eventual recovery,
to end up in the same state again, for the n'th time!
At one stage I would have said no that I couldn’t take another heartbreak but now that has changed and yes I will try again.

Will I ever fall in love again I genuinely don’t know but I know it’s worth a shot
teddybear
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Jun 24, 2020 11:40 AM CST Love & Hate - Friends & Enemies - Marriage & Divorce
Howzit654
Howzit654Howzit654Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa4 Threads 23 Posts
Butterflygirl1: At one stage I would have said no that I couldn’t take another heartbreak but now that has changed and yes I will try again.

Will I ever fall in love again I genuinely don’t know but I know it’s worth a shot
Great!
The same!
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Jun 25, 2020 11:59 PM CST Love & Hate - Friends & Enemies - Marriage & Divorce
Howzit654: We all have lived life, the duration doesn't really matter much.
Hurt through disregard, snide remarks, accidental and obvious malice.

Will you really try again?
Go through the same pain, brain freeze, and eventual recovery,
to end up in the same state again, for the n'th time!
HOPE SPRINGS ETERNAL::rose
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Jul 2, 2020 6:33 AM CST Love & Hate - Friends & Enemies - Marriage & Divorce
Myrtaonline today!
Myrtaonline today!MyrtaLacey, Grayland and Lynden, Washington USA5 Threads 171 Posts
Yes, because all the emotions--the highs and lows--are addictive.
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Jul 2, 2020 12:49 PM CST Love & Hate - Friends & Enemies - Marriage & Divorce
Orzzz
OrzzzOrzzzPortage, Wisconsin USA106 Threads 8 Polls 806 Posts
I was never going to marry. Ended up doing it. 9 years in he wanted out so he could go play and have no responsibilities. We married out of high school. I grew up, he didn't. I kept saying I am doomed. He said no you aren't. We went through a year of UN engagement. Stayed friends and divided up stuff sanely.
He was right. I remarried to an even better man. 31 years til he died. Now I am bonded to a guy better again.
The hurts are buried by the good things.
The issue is if you have a bad relationship, figure out what is the issue and don't pick the same type.
I say no divorce is he or she did or didn't. Marriage is a two cylinder engine. One piston goes up, the other goes down. Both work together. If one is flawed, it is doomed to blow up.
The saying is it takes two to tangle. One feeds the other.
No one never does and no one always does. My divorce was both of us not being a smooth running engine anymore. He did, I did, he did because I did and I did because he did. It's called reciprocation.
We all have flaws and quirks and habits. Don't think it wont matter later on. Accept or move on.
There was a cartoon. Old couple sitting at table, she watching him buttering his toast. Suddenly she leaps up..I can't stand it anymore! He is flummoxed. confused dunno wow uh oh WHAT!? She said I can't stand how you butter toast, scrape scrape scrape. Just BUTTER it already. He says, but that's the way I have done it our whole marriage. Why didn't you say something years ago.
She says, cause it didn't bother me til today.roll eyes doh
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