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Aug 27, 2020 4:10 PM CST Communication Breakdown
Nules
NulesNulesDublin, Ireland617 Posts
Cranky_Geezer: That's not entirely true from my perspective. Let's say you're messaging typical friendly banter with maybe a touch of flirting. All of a sudden the other person switches to interrogation mode or twenty questions if you will. I'm not sure how the person being interrogated is responsible. I cannot answer for anyone else, but this has made me uncomfortable on more than one occasion. If I want you to have certain information I will volunteer it usually in anecdotal fashion.
If that happened to me, and my uncomfortable gut instinct kicked in, then I would feel that maybe the other person’s bad trait is slipping in.
Just my opinion teddybear
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Aug 27, 2020 4:38 PM CST Communication Breakdown
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Cranky_Geezer: That's not entirely true from my perspective. Let's say you're messaging typical friendly banter with maybe a touch of flirting. All of a sudden the other person switches to interrogation mode or twenty questions if you will. I'm not sure how the person being interrogated is responsible. I cannot answer for anyone else, but this has made me uncomfortable on more than one occasion. If I want you to have certain information I will volunteer it usually in anecdotal fashion.
wow
I see what you mean!
Anyone feeling they're being interrogated should demand to know what they're being charged with laugh laugh

I think some people approach internet dating like job applications where you have to review the candidates, short list them then 'interview' them doh ...

May be we should start 2 threads...

1. Women what makes you uncomfotable when guys are messaging you?

2. Men what makes you uncomfortable when women are messaging you?



dunno
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Aug 27, 2020 4:39 PM CST Communication Breakdown
Butterflygirl1
Butterflygirl1Butterflygirl1Dublin, Ireland1,080 Posts
Cranky_Geezer: That's not entirely true from my perspective. Let's say you're messaging typical friendly banter with maybe a touch of flirting. All of a sudden the other person switches to interrogation mode or twenty questions if you will. I'm not sure how the person being interrogated is responsible. I cannot answer for anyone else, but this has made me uncomfortable on more than one occasion. If I want you to have certain information I will volunteer it usually in anecdotal fashion.
Usually I would just change the subject if they continue to push the question I just say I have to go and log off . If it’s a very personal question I would answer with that a conversation for when we know each other better
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Aug 27, 2020 11:41 PM CST Communication Breakdown
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Cranky_Geezer: That's not entirely true from my perspective. Let's say you're messaging typical friendly banter with maybe a touch of flirting. All of a sudden the other person switches to interrogation mode or twenty questions if you will. I'm not sure how the person being interrogated is responsible. I cannot answer for anyone else, but this has made me uncomfortable on more than one occasion. If I want you to have certain information I will volunteer it usually in anecdotal fashion.
You seem to attract lunatics as well laugh
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Aug 28, 2020 4:37 AM CST Communication Breakdown
Cranky_Geezer
Cranky_GeezerCranky_GeezerPatchogue, New York USA29 Threads 1 Polls 2,239 Posts
Mercedes_00: You seem to attract lunatics as well
It's difficult being this pretty. rolling on the floor laughing sigh
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Aug 28, 2020 5:11 AM CST Communication Breakdown
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
Led Zeppelin still one of the greatest rockbands ever.
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Aug 28, 2020 11:59 AM CST Communication Breakdown
Cranky_Geezer
Cranky_GeezerCranky_GeezerPatchogue, New York USA29 Threads 1 Polls 2,239 Posts
PeKaatje: Led Zeppelin still one of the greatest rockbands ever.
Not going to get an argument from me. They're top five for sure.





If you cannot groove to this song you may as well be dead.
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