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TheDino1: At least it takes the mind of the inauguration..
I knew I’d get them talking 
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One2note: I knew I’d get them talking
No better man for it I'd say, a wee bit of controversy never dulled the day.. 
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Lugor: Give women an inch and they'll tell everyone you've got a tiny cok
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TheDino1: No better man for it I'd say, a wee bit of controversy never dulled the day..
It’s what they live for Dino 
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One2note: It’s a fine line between taking control of a relationship & controlling it .
If a man say for example, surprises his partner with a dinner date , is that controlling, or a gesture .
Maybe women prefer chimps who hide behind the woman
Still pretending you don't the difference between organising a surprise for your partner and "taking the lead in the relationship" ... If a man say for example, surprises his partner with a dinner date , is that controlling, or a gesture .
Maybe women prefer chimps who hide behind the woman
Organising a surprise for your partner is neither "taking the lead in the relationship" anymore than it is "taking control" of it ...
There is no difference between taking control of a relationship and controlling it... any sub stories you'd like to tell yourself to the contrary are delusions ...
A man who'd like to share the decisions of the relationship and home with his partner is neither a chimp nor being controlled. It denotes of a maturity of someone who considers his partner an equal ...
You're welcome!
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One2note: Why do women complain about control freaks, when most of them like the man to take the lead in the relationship?
You're cute when you're playing clueless. ------ This thread is Archived ------
One2note: It’s what they live for Dino
I've noticed, it's like the scene from "The Quiet Man" where the old lady says to big John "Here's a nice stick to beat the lady with" only in reverse.. ------ This thread is Archived ------
One2note: It’s not really .
Taking the lead could also mean making difficult decisions, which may sound controlling, but does it for the best interest .
Controlling in a psychological sense , is a different story .
Excuse me? You want to "make difficult decisions" that concern the couple by yourself? Taking the lead could also mean making difficult decisions, which may sound controlling, but does it for the best interest .
Controlling in a psychological sense , is a different story .
How can it be for its best interest if the interest of the partner is not represented by being a joint decision?
And you don't think that's controlling? 
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Kaybee50: You're cute when you're playing clueless.
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Controlling is when one person in the relationship treats the other in a way that undermines them
Like , taking their independence, making them dependent on them.
Taking away their credit cards, phones, car keys, just to give a few examples, the list is long
That's a bit different from booking a night out for dinner
Like , taking their independence, making them dependent on them.
Taking away their credit cards, phones, car keys, just to give a few examples, the list is long
That's a bit different from booking a night out for dinner
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Selenite: Damn!!! He got me going!!
He's good at that. ------ This thread is Archived ------
Selenite: Still pretending you don't the difference between organising a surprise for your partner and "taking the lead in the relationship" ...
Organising a surprise for your partner is neither "taking the lead in the relationship" anymore than it is "taking control" of it ...
There is no difference between taking control of a relationship and controlling it... any sub stories you'd like to tell yourself to the contrary are delusions ...
A man who'd like to share the decisions of the relationship and home with his partner is neither a chimp nor being controlled. It denotes of a maturity of someone who considers his partner an equal ...
You're welcome!
Some women don’t like to take responsibility for any decisions, as do a lot of men .Organising a surprise for your partner is neither "taking the lead in the relationship" anymore than it is "taking control" of it ...
There is no difference between taking control of a relationship and controlling it... any sub stories you'd like to tell yourself to the contrary are delusions ...
A man who'd like to share the decisions of the relationship and home with his partner is neither a chimp nor being controlled. It denotes of a maturity of someone who considers his partner an equal ...
You're welcome!
You can’t talk for every women because your ideology doesn’t coincide with other women’s
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Kaybee50: You're cute when you're playing clueless.
I like to think so ------ This thread is Archived ------
Selenite: Damn!!! He got me going!!
If I had a dollar for every girl that said that ------ This thread is Archived ------
One2note: It’s not really .
Taking the lead could also mean making difficult decisions, which may sound controlling, but does it for the best interest .
Controlling in a psychological sense , is a different story .
That’s way too vague of an answer and you should know by now I’m not going to bite Taking the lead could also mean making difficult decisions, which may sound controlling, but does it for the best interest .
Controlling in a psychological sense , is a different story .
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lillipution: Controlling is when one person in the relationship treats the other in a way that undermines them
Like , taking their independence, making them dependent on them.
Taking away their credit cards, phones, car keys, just to give a few examples, the list is long
That's a bit different from booking a night out for dinner
No . That’s the behaviour of a psychopath.Like , taking their independence, making them dependent on them.
Taking away their credit cards, phones, car keys, just to give a few examples, the list is long
That's a bit different from booking a night out for dinner
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One2note: Some women don’t like to take responsibility for any decisions, as do a lot of men .
You can’t talk for every women because your ideology doesn’t coincide with other women’s
Exactly ... SOME women ... which is not MOST women You can’t talk for every women because your ideology doesn’t coincide with other women’s
I doubt you know about MOST women ... although you might know about a few ...
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One2note: If I had a dollar for every girl that said that
....you'd be broke. 
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Butterflygirl1: That’s way too vague of an answer and you should know by now I’m not going to bite
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I like a man to take the lead as in asking me out planning a date surprises that kind of thing
Controlling is totally different than taking the lead well in my eyes anyway.
Taking the lead could also mean making difficult decisions, which may sound controlling, but does it for the best interest .
Controlling in a psychological sense , is a different story .