Ringing the cops ( Archived) (9)

Dec 19, 2021 5:25 AM CST Ringing the cops
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Did you have to do it? I did today with a heavy heart, I believed someone was in danger. People I know and love having a dispute going beyond verbal.

It got me thinking, do I call it too soon? The last time I called the cops was someone running towards the river yelling about ending it all.

It's not easy, likeable people at their worst. Is there some kind of help or just incarceration and criminality?
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Dec 19, 2021 5:34 AM CST Ringing the cops
fantaziya
fantaziyafantaziyawindsor, Nova Scotia Canada4 Threads 1,163 Posts
pat8lanips: Did you have to do it? I did today with a heavy heart, I believed someone was in danger. People I know and love having a dispute going beyond verbal.

It got me thinking, do I call it too soon? The last time I called the cops was someone running towards the river yelling about ending it all.

It's not easy, likeable people at their worst. Is there some kind of help or just incarceration and criminality?
In my opinion you've made a right call. Sometimes people you know very well make stupid things, which they will regret later.
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Dec 19, 2021 5:36 AM CST Ringing the cops
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
They mostly roll their eyes every time I report a theft from my yard. They never do anything.
I have to do it my self, beating them up or destroy something on their car when ever I catch them red handed. The police here are lacy cowards who prefer righting speeding tickets or form by their desk.
Not much domestic violence in Sweden amongst Swedes.
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Dec 19, 2021 5:36 AM CST Ringing the cops
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
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Dec 19, 2021 5:44 AM CST Ringing the cops
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Thanks, the should I or shouldn't have done something different, it's a bit of torment. But at that exact moment it seemed the only option. I would hope other neighbours also called, who knows. I have no faith the police would protect my anonymity, I have to live here.
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Dec 19, 2021 5:53 AM CST Ringing the cops
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
I think it's something like 50-60% of police work here is domestic violence. It seems highly unusual that it would not be at least a serious issue in any developed country.
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Dec 19, 2021 6:05 AM CST Ringing the cops
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
I think it’s a bystanders obligation to call the police in a dangerous scenario.
Imagine if they done nothing & a fatality happened as a result of their ignoring the incident.
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Dec 19, 2021 6:07 AM CST Ringing the cops
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
pat8lanips: Did you have to do it? I did today with a heavy heart, I believed someone was in danger. People I know and love having a dispute going beyond verbal.

It got me thinking, do I call it too soon? The last time I called the cops was someone running towards the river yelling about ending it all.

It's not easy, likeable people at their worst. Is there some kind of help or just incarceration and criminality?
They must have sounded pretty bad for you to call the police. Imagine if you didn't call and someone got killed?
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Dec 19, 2021 1:58 PM CST Ringing the cops
Youcannow: I think it’s a bystanders obligation to call the police in a dangerous scenario.
Imagine if they done nothing & a fatality happened as a result of their ignoring the incident.
Sometimes a dispatcher can come across as very arrogant. “Annoyed” at your call. I spoke to a local police chief (who I’m friends with) about this. He validated me immediately; said she’s been talked to about her crummy ‘tude many times, and that civilians are reluctant to call in! So, I get why some people don’t want to call. Ten or so years ago, I was menaced by a woman driver in heavy Portland traffic. She was way out of line/control, and her anger was dangerous to others, not only myself. I got to my gym, used the phone and called the police. (There are signs all over the place saying to do this). Dispatch transferred me to an officer, a male. I gave him precise stats, her #’s, time, etc…he interrupted me, said, “Well, what’s YOUR name? What model and year car do YOU drive? And on and on, making the incident about me, not her. He was being a Richard Cranium, to the max. I did not feel like doing ANY reporting again. They don’t handle it right. I get why many people don’t want to call them.
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