Circlip: I still can't get used to "Circlip", and how ridiculous it sounds. If I'd known I was going to be here for this long I would have put more thought into choosing a name.
Ah ok...well sure if you don't like it then just tell us what us what you'd rather be called and we can go with that so..
BB_snickers: The inexhaustible wisdom of negativity.
Everything ... yes everything, is in your mind, no where else. The accolades that you think you need in order to feel appreciated are there, the rewards for making an effort are all in you. That is your responsibility. There's a reason it is called self esteem. Other esteem is called codependency which generally leads to dissatisfaction or worse when others don't prop us up.
you're not a puppy
Well that's the joy been sucked out of the joy I felt today..
You american's..why do ye always have to bring everything to the extreme..
self esteem is knowing you're ok
Needing others to appreciate you is a very different thing..it's actually imprinted in our DNA..so we will work together, and give of ourselves for the benefit of others/the greater good so the community will stay strong..remove that need for appreciation and society wll fall appart....oh...hang on...society is falling apart....I wonder why....
blathin: Well that's the joy been sucked out of the joy I felt today..
You american's..why do ye always have to bring everything to the extreme..
self esteem is knowing you're ok
Needing others to appreciate you is a very different thing..it's actually imprinted in our DNA..so we will work together, and give of ourselves for the benefit of others/the greater good so the community will stay strong..remove that need for appreciation and society wll fall appart....oh...hang on...society is falling apart....I wonder why....
CirclipOPNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK826 posts
BB_snickers: what is it that you don't understand.
You talk in generalities, as if the truth of them is self evident, and needs no explanation. Things like "sending love out into the universe", and "self is just an illusion". It's just a stream of mantras with nothing to substantiate them. I mean, just pick out one of these ideas and make a rational case for accepting it as some kind of truth.
Schadenfreude is closely related to this topic, although a more appropriate term would be “Oppositional Defiant Disorder”. In either case, the provoker gets an inordinate “bang” at seeing another in anguish.
CirclipOPNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK826 posts
rohaan: Schadenfreude is closely related to this topic, although a more appropriate term would be “Oppositional Defiant Disorder”. In either case, the provoker gets an inordinate “bang” at seeing another in anguish.
Circlip: You talk in generalities, as if the truth of them is self evident, and needs no explanation. Things like "sending love out into the universe", and "self is just an illusion". It's just a stream of mantras with nothing to substantiate them. I mean, just pick out one of these ideas and make a rational case for accepting it as some kind of truth.
Back here again. I understand. Good luck with your thread.
CirclipOPNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK826 posts
BB_snickers: Back here again. I understand. Good luck with your thread.
Thank you, and if it's any consolation, I didn't enjoy it. I know its against your principles, but I would urge you to allow yourself a few, or even many, negative thoughts about me.
Circlip: Thank you, and if it's any consolation, I didn't enjoy it. I know its against your principles, but I would urge you to allow yourself a few, or even many, negative thoughts about me.
CirclipOPNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK826 posts
Miss_Cellaneous: Well at least you admit it
But that doesn't make it alright. It's no good my just admitting it and then carrying on as usual. I need to learn my lesson and start behaving responsibly. I'm not going to put up with it any longer, something needs to be done about it now!
Circlip: I still can't get used to "Circlip", and how ridiculous it sounds. If I'd known I was going to be here for this long I would have put more thought into choosing a name.
Sounds like a name for someone who was circumcized. Are u a hebrew by any chance?
CirclipOPNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK826 posts
LmiDkC: Sounds like a name for someone who was circumcized. Are u a hebrew by any chance?
No, a small pack of circlips that I ordered from Amazon just happened to arrive while I was trying to think of a user name to create my account with. I wish there were more to it than that, but there ain't.
Circlip: No, a small pack of circlips that I ordered from Amazon just happened to arrive while I was trying to think of a user name to create my account with. I wish there were more to it than that, but there ain't.
When I read your name first that's the first thing that came into my mind...bicycle clips.....
yet , in complete contrast, someone in Argentina (? have I got that right)....thinks it's Jewish name....
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