Orzzz: I feel sorry for women who walk around with a chip on their shoulder. Scream equality, womens lib, rights and are so bitter they will die alone. The issue is society today where being a lady OR a gentleman has flown out the window. Manners are subjugated by individual egos who think the world revolves around them and screw everyone else. Do I appreciate it when a man opens the car door for me. Yes. But, only if I have issues getting in or out because of my bags, coat or long dress. Or if he is on my side of the car anyway. Silly is for me to sit like a lump while he has to run all the way around the car to do it. Do I appreciate it if he opens the door for me. Yes. As well as anyone who does. Same as I do for others. Manners means you see me behind you and do not let the door slam in my face. I am glad when a man opens that jar for me. It is not a put down. It is simply being kind. Can I do most everything a man can. Sure. And he can do what I can. So what. Why should I strain to carry that 50 pounds of corn when he can do it with ease? Why should he swear trying to work that tiny part into place when my smaller, flexible hand can do it easier? What happened to people working together without worrying about who is best, who is tops, who is superior? When women turned womens lib into a pi**ing contest, women lost. And so did the men.
Which is what I said earlier, apart for the bit about ther people being bitter and wishing them a lonely death.
And the reason why is because whether rich or poor the woman's prerogative still stands. There is no such thing as the man's prerogative no matter how rich his parents were. All men are working class when it comes to romance. You have to work, it is not a choice this is something you have to do. And more than this you're working for a reward that might never happen like you were self-employed. At any rate never date a woman expecting something to be got by it. The reward might turn out to be even better if you don't care what it is.
women who get their feminist handbook out and cry a river about so called patriarchy oppressing women..will always hate and resent gents...but none of those women are ladies and will have to get used to having cats for company
a real lady will have respect for herself...have good manners......dress nice...appreciate a gent...who might open doors for her...pull out the chair for her...help her cross the road to safely etc
some women need to learn to love men and it starts with burning the feminist handbook
LeeCharming: women who get their feminist handbook out and cry a river about so called patriarchy oppressing women..will always hate and resent gents...but none of those women are ladies and will have to get used to having cats for company
a real lady will have respect for herself...have good manners......dress nice...appreciate a gent...who might open doors for her...pull out the chair for her...help her cross the road to safely etc
some women need to learn to love men and it starts with burning the feminist handbook
Thanks for the laugh when I read 'help her accross the road to safety' ...
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The issue is society today where being a lady OR a gentleman has flown out the window. Manners are subjugated by individual egos who think the world revolves around them and screw everyone else. Do I appreciate it when a man opens the car door for me. Yes. But, only if I have issues getting in or out because of my bags, coat or long dress. Or if he is on my side of the car anyway. Silly is for me to sit like a lump while he has to run all the way around the car to do it.
Do I appreciate it if he opens the door for me. Yes. As well as anyone who does. Same as I do for others. Manners means you see me behind you and do not let the door slam in my face.
I am glad when a man opens that jar for me. It is not a put down. It is simply being kind.
Can I do most everything a man can. Sure. And he can do what I can. So what. Why should I strain to carry that 50 pounds of corn when he can do it with ease? Why should he swear trying to work that tiny part into place when my smaller, flexible hand can do it easier?
What happened to people working together without worrying about who is best, who is tops, who is superior?
When women turned womens lib into a pi**ing contest, women lost. And so did the men.