Hi everyone--I don't necessarily want to cancel my membership, but I'm frustrated--I want to change some of the things in my profile--not much, but essentially, downsize it. When I get to the areas of "what do you want in a partnership", for instance, it requires 50 words, minimum, or at least that is how I'm reading it. Also, I am not looking for a relationship at this time, so asking that is moot, and much of the "who I am" is moot, as well. I will try again to see if the program will let me say what I want to say, then come back to this and see what you other members have to say, observations, etc....thanx
rohaan: Hi everyone--I don't necessarily want to cancel my membership, but I'm frustrated--I want to change some of the things in my profile--not much, but essentially, downsize it. When I get to the areas of "what do you want in a partnership", for instance, it requires 50 words, minimum, or at least that is how I'm reading it. Also, I am not looking for a relationship at this time, so asking that is moot, and much of the "who I am" is moot, as well. I will try again to see if the program will let me say what I want to say, then come back to this and see what you other members have to say, observations, etc....thanx
I'm also not looking for a relationship so I pressed the dash key 50+ times to fill the space. If you want you can check my profile to see what I did.
secretagent09: I'm also not looking for a relationship so I pressed the dash key 50+ times to fill the space. If you want you can check my profile to see what I did.
Good luck to you Ro
Thanks SO much. Profile is changed. You're a real blessing today.
rohaan: Hi everyone--I don't necessarily want to cancel my membership, but I'm frustrated--I want to change some of the things in my profile--not much, but essentially, downsize it. When I get to the areas of "what do you want in a partnership", for instance, it requires 50 words, minimum, or at least that is how I'm reading it. Also, I am not looking for a relationship at this time, so asking that is moot, and much of the "who I am" is moot, as well. I will try again to see if the program will let me say what I want to say, then come back to this and see what you other members have to say, observations, etc....thanx
.....let me write it for you. the worst that can happen, is a life ban.......should this happen. come back under a diff/name........your friend tru.......
secretagent09: I'm also not looking for a relationship so I pressed the dash key 50+ times to fill the space. If you want you can check my profile to see what I did.
Good luck to you Ro
Also--I changed my profile to 'looking for woman' but I really wish I could just say looking for friends. If that's an option, I can't see it in the edit sections.
(I was getting way too many letters, and not always what I thought was helpful or friendly)
rohaan: Hi everyone--I don't necessarily want to cancel my membership, but I'm frustrated--I want to change some of the things in my profile--not much, but essentially, downsize it. When I get to the areas of "what do you want in a partnership", for instance, it requires 50 words, minimum, or at least that is how I'm reading it. Also, I am not looking for a relationship at this time, so asking that is moot, and much of the "who I am" is moot, as well. I will try again to see if the program will let me say what I want to say, then come back to this and see what you other members have to say, observations, etc....thanx
You are a veteran of this site . Try figuring out yourself ..
rohaan: Also--I changed my profile to 'looking for woman' but I really wish I could just say looking for friends. If that's an option, I can't see it in the edit sections.
(I was getting way too many letters, and not always what I thought was helpful or friendly)
Some people put their preference to male or female...then they state not looking...or you could narrow your parameters to receive mail...
rohaan: Hi everyone--I don't necessarily want to cancel my membership, but I'm frustrated--I want to change some of the things in my profile--not much, but essentially, downsize it. When I get to the areas of "what do you want in a partnership", for instance, it requires 50 words, minimum, or at least that is how I'm reading it. Also, I am not looking for a relationship at this time, so asking that is moot, and much of the "who I am" is moot, as well. I will try again to see if the program will let me say what I want to say, then come back to this and see what you other members have to say, observations, etc....thanx
If you aren’t looking then just set Your marital status to not single/not looking. Then set your headline to forums only messages will be deleted. It does not deter all of the followers but it does deter many of them. They will then send you hundreds of likes instead which you can ignore.
----I will not find fault with anyone right now, but I am at a very low because of a medical problem and recent personal loss. I couldn't quite figure it out myself, that's why I reached out. Isn't that what we are here for--to be kind and be friendly? Bless you to the ends of the universe. You seem to be very understanding and caring.
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