To all the Girls/Boys I've loved before.... (27)
Deedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 PostsWhat is the one piece of advice you would give to your ex's of the past...with the benefit of hindsight.
Have you just lost a bf or something?
I have in 95% of cases split peacefully and even remained friends too, on occasion.
I have no advice for non of them
but if asked I'd gladly give a sheet of "instructions" to the next one... hehe
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I have in 95% of cases split peacefully and even remained friends too, on occasion.
I have no advice for non of them
but if asked I'd gladly give a sheet of "instructions" to the next one... hehe
The Waterboys – And A Bang On The Ear /vinyl/
Deedee123x: What is the one piece of advice you would give to your ex's of the past...with the benefit of hindsight.
being the village bike....invest in a new saddle.......
Deedee123x: What is the one piece of advice you would give to your ex's of the past...with the benefit of hindsight.
If your partner is working, especially over-time, and taking care of everything financial (because you are not working ...) then PLEASE do your share and keep the house up....(yes, this WAS a problem in my one domestic m/f living together relationship. )
Depends on who it is. In one case, I'd say be up front with things. In another case, learn to let go when you are told no. In another case, maybe some good medications and therapy.
No doubt there are lots of things they would tell me as well, its a two way street.
No doubt there are lots of things they would tell me as well, its a two way street.
Track16: Depends on who it is. In one case, I'd say be up front with things. In another case, learn to let go when you are told no. In another case, maybe some good medications and therapy.
No doubt there are lots of things they would tell me as well, its a two way street.
Ok enough post...however, it is almost never productive for a partner to tell another to get medication and/or therapy. Usually that advice is taken as hostile and passive-aggressive. jmoNo doubt there are lots of things they would tell me as well, its a two way street.
truheart1941: being the village bike....invest in a new saddle.......
ooooooooooooh---oUCH!
Grandsiozzie: Have you just lost a bf or something?
I have in 95% of cases split peacefully and even remained friends too, on occasion.
I have no advice for non of them
but if asked I'd gladly give a sheet of "instructions" to the next one... hehe
The Waterboys – And A Bang On The Ear /vinyl/
Nope still in love I have in 95% of cases split peacefully and even remained friends too, on occasion.
I have no advice for non of them
but if asked I'd gladly give a sheet of "instructions" to the next one... hehe
The Waterboys – And A Bang On The Ear /vinyl/
Good to n hear you are still friends with exs its not for me though..
What would those instructions be then hhmm
truheart1941: being the village bike....invest in a new saddle.......
Bare back is better, no saddle burns rohaan: If your partner is working, especially over-time, and taking care of everything financial (because you are not working ...) then PLEASE do your share and keep the house up....(yes, this WAS a problem in my one domestic m/f living together relationship. )
Well I fully agree there with that...its equal I'm a relationship as to the amount each brings...it can look different but the effort should always be the same xxTrack16: Depends on who it is. In one case, I'd say be up front with things. In another case, learn to let go when you are told no. In another case, maybe some good medications and therapy.
No doubt there are lots of things they would tell me as well, its a two way street.
Ya for sure it is .I wouldn't like the hear advice from an ex then again what harm can it do really...I mean relationships that were meaningfull and either short ( 6months ) or longer No doubt there are lots of things they would tell me as well, its a two way street.
I'd tell one to stop being so aggressive about his dating style...he was too eager and with that quite forceful, but not in a physical way.
The other I would say to sort out his family issues he had surrounding his mother and to heal from that before trying relationships...he was a really good guy but messed up from past.
The other we were so young you couldn't really fault anyone in that first relationship you are really just learning but I would tell him now to go back to his wife and kids and give up the midlife crisis.
I'm sure they would tell me to go out and drink more with them...that was a bone of contention.. I love fun I like a drink but loathe pubs.
To trust them more
To be less moody
And to argue less.
I may or may not have sorted these issues out
Deedee123x: Ya for sure it is .I wouldn't like the hear advice from an ex then again what harm can it do really...I mean relationships that were meaningfull and either short ( 6months ) or longer
I'd tell one to stop being so aggressive about his dating style...he was too eager and with that quite forceful, but not in a physical way.
The other I would say to sort out his family issues he had surrounding his mother and to heal from that before trying relationships...he was a really good guy but messed up from past.
The other we were so young you couldn't really fault anyone in that first relationship you are really just learning but I would tell him now to go back to his wife and kids and give up the midlife crisis.
I'm sure they would tell me to go out and drink more with them...that was a bone of contention.. I love fun I like a drink but loathe pubs.
To trust them more
To be less moody
And to argue less.
I may or may not have sorted these issues out
No doubt I would be told to smoke less and learn when to be serious but I don't plan on doing any of that so I need to find someone who is compatible with those things and who I am compatible with her thing.I'd tell one to stop being so aggressive about his dating style...he was too eager and with that quite forceful, but not in a physical way.
The other I would say to sort out his family issues he had surrounding his mother and to heal from that before trying relationships...he was a really good guy but messed up from past.
The other we were so young you couldn't really fault anyone in that first relationship you are really just learning but I would tell him now to go back to his wife and kids and give up the midlife crisis.
I'm sure they would tell me to go out and drink more with them...that was a bone of contention.. I love fun I like a drink but loathe pubs.
To trust them more
To be less moody
And to argue less.
I may or may not have sorted these issues out
Needle in a haystack
Deedee123x: If your preferences were different , you could monopolise me anytime you want Ro
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you're quite tempting.....(you are a beautiful person, all over!)After reading multiple threads and comments, I notice 
a lot, even when it's fairly clear that the statement is true or good, etc...I wonder, do the thumbs-downers just do it out of habit?? WTF??
a lot, even when it's fairly clear that the statement is true or good, etc...I wonder, do the thumbs-downers just do it out of habit?? WTF??
Just to one; you don't pleasure a woman the same way you strum a guitar.
MysteriousGirl80: Just to one; you don't pleasure a woman the same way you strum a guitar.
rohaan: you're quite tempting.....(you are a beautiful person, all over!)
rohaan: After reading multiple threads and comments, I notice a lot, even when it's fairly clear that the statement is true or good, etc...I wonder, do the thumbs-downers just do it out of habit?? WTF??
I doubt it's anything anyone on forums is doing...its maybe a "new thing" moderators are doing just to stir us all up...I can't see anyone having that much time on their hands lolOh yeah, I'm sure my ex's would have lots to tell me
MysteriousGirl80: Just to one; you don't pleasure a woman the same way you strum a guitar.
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