A question that bothers me... (30)
AlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts...lets assume that a relationship you had ended in a nice or in a bad way...Would you judge the relationship itself (if it was worth) based in the way it ended?
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I probably would, to a degree, at least.
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It's hard not to, because you have to wonder if certain things in the relationship worked to cause the ending. If that made any sense at at all....it did to me anyway lol
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i think i would to...i think its hard not to tell u the truth!!!
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No not if the person was genuinely nice I'd want to keep that person as a friend if it's possible.
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LOL! No don't worry...I was just wandering. Everything is fine with me...
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i would to if it ened on a good note...but not if he was a jerk
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Well as most people know or should know is that relationships do not come easy. And as difficult as it may be i would not judge the whole relationship based upon the ending. I would say it how it is. I.E. The relationship was good but the break up was not the best. 
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thats probably the the common mistake I make. still it helps accelarate the process of moving moving on and closer.
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closure I meant closure it easier to recall the bad to move on...
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Yes i understand. It's some short of selfdefence more than a concious choice (to remember the bad things from a relationship that ended)
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If the relationship ended, no matter how it ended, that has to make you look back and analyze the whole relationship. Was it really good, or were you just trying to make it work? It's very hard to give a definitive answer on this question. I guess it comes down to, were you happy in the relationship prior to the beginning of the end? 
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I just a past relationship on a good to bad ratio. I prefer my relationships to end in a good way.
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thank you for changing your pic....it was freaking me out.........
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I see both the good and the bad in it - but mostly the good. There's solace in my capacity to be in that caliber of a relationship - and, as always, I continue to learn...
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I think they are skeered too......
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I agree
Sometimes I don't like the final few pages, but I still remember the good parts of the book and I don't regret reading it
Sometimes I don't like the final few pages, but I still remember the good parts of the book and I don't regret reading it
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Very well put.
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