I`ve been let down a few times, I hope the next time it happens, it is done by the undertaker, and I am not looking for that to happen too soon. At least for another 40 or 50 years.
I have learned that whatever other people do to me it's on them, shame on them, nobody will make me doubt another human being, I trust people generally, way too open and let people into my life if they seem worth it, but if they let me down, like really bad, there's no turning back, theyre gone for good, I'll forgive them but I'm no fool to keep people like that by my side.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
i've learned to stand up...comfort myself with words like: "at least you didn't disappoint yourself"!But it hurts... You can't control people's will... I'll break the dishes though
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
you are the only person you can really trust...see what are the good things you can do for yourself.Respect yourself...let yourself achieve your goals...fight for yourself...only you know what yourself really needs. You just need to figure that out and...help yourself...please do!yourself NEEDS YOU!
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
It's pretty obvious... Don't only stay at home.It can get worse.But if you are on the fase of not wanting to get out of bed, then at least talk to us, laugh with us...but try to go out, have some fresh air...call your friends...don't be so lonely! You may feel lonely now...but try not to be alone...
Well, for me, I've learned not to count on anyone but myself. We're about 6 billion people on this planet but to trust something to someone? Been there done that and not worth the hope and the effort.
With particular situations and certain conflicts that I have gone through in life, I’ve learned that sometimes that dollar in my pocket can be my beat friend.
of course...I think we all have been let down by someone, somewhere along the way! But the idea is to never let it happen again!! I will not let anyone get close enough to let me down. That can only happen, if you expect something from someone. And I expect nor want anything from anyone, anymore!!
Yes, quite a few people. What I learned from it, is the one that you can ALWAYS count on, is yourself.
You have the people who'll be there for you most of the times, some people that will be there for you some of the time, and those who will be there for you none of the times.
I can count on me, all of the time.
The one person who let me down that I didn't think I'd recover from letting me was my best friend of 20 years and she turned her back on me because all she cared about was herself and the fact she's miserable in her own life. Well, I thought about it and its her loss not mine.
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