In a situation like this, you just have to keep your composure, and walk up to that piece of lowlife scum, and say," The doctor said that it`s the worst strain of aids he`s seen and that, you should go to the clinic right away, He thinks we only have a few weeks to live.
Then leave with the satisfaction that the other girl/victim of his little plot will not get used, and he will not get what he wanted either.
Have you tried a vigorous application of baseball ball about his head and shoulders? And if you're not the violent type, just repeat over and over that "This is hurting me a lot more than it is hurting you!"
But if I happen to unintentionally cross you, please disregard the above statement.
But in all seriousness, I'm sorry your feelings are hurt.
I have a lot of trouble making sense of his behavior. It seems to transcend mere rudeness.
I wonder what he would've said if you'd come up to him and asked him WTF?
I was puzzled by your comment: "Why does this keep happening to me?" I hope you don't mean this specific thing, because that would be pretty Twilight-Zoneish.
I am so sorry hun...I will never understand why bad things happen to good people and the bad ones seem to have it made. Hang in there and know that the day you find that one "right" love, none of this will matter.
I went on a date one time to a night club and I sat there for a good hour and shenever showed up.Next day she calls and said something come up.
Smae thing, but I waited three hours. I even called her from the club to be sure she had the directions right. She had my cell number!. AND she didn't call the next day.
And the thing is, she is the one that initiated the date, not me. As, is already known, I will never initiate a contact.
Did I get mad or hurt...Nicht! I just shrugged my shoulders and deleted her from my address book
Wow so elegantly put pctech. Your mama did raise a nice boy.
As for what happened to you "Ima" I am SOOOOOOOO VERY SORRY. Unfortunately, it seems that so many people (won't generalize here) are so insecure that they don't know how to be honest and upfront with other people. Sad, because feelings get hurt, believe me I have had my feelings hurt a lot lately. Fortunately, I have not had happen to me what happened to you and I no that anything myself or anyone else says right now will sound cliche' but here it goes "you can and will do better than him". Just look at it this way, at least you weren't "more" involved with him before he did something like this, because he would have eventually. Take care GF, be positive, think positive thoughts (I believe in the Laws of Attraction) and that special person will come to you.
I just want to let it be known...this guy is not a member of CS...I appreciate you saying you would have shown me a good time...thank you.
I promise I have not given up on men all together....it will be more difficult for a man to earn my trust. each time something like this happens it gets harder to trust all men.
lostsoulinspacechocowinity, North Carolina USA521 posts
I would have dont it the same way as you, but, i would have liked to, walk up and sit down with them and say" Oh good a 3 sum, how did you know?" Marge
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