I hate dating!!! ( Archived) (88)

Oct 14, 2007 7:11 AM CST I hate dating!!!
pctech
pctechpctechLansing, Michigan USA1 Threads 11 Posts
Thank you, I always say, "momma raised a good boy". innocent
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Oct 14, 2007 7:13 AM CST I hate dating!!!
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
well momma is always right.......hug
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Oct 14, 2007 7:24 AM CST I hate dating!!!
gtbulldog
gtbulldoggtbulldogTowson, Maryland USA32 Threads 2,873 Posts
thumbs up
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Oct 14, 2007 7:43 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
In a situation like this, you just have to keep your composure, and walk up to that piece of lowlife scum, and say," The doctor said that it`s the worst strain of aids he`s seen and that, you should go to the clinic right away, He thinks we only have a few weeks to live.

Then leave with the satisfaction that the other girl/victim of his little plot will not get used, and he will not get what he wanted either.

devil sometimes you just have to fight fire with fire devil

wine
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Oct 14, 2007 10:11 AM CST I hate dating!!!
totallytopside
totallytopsidetotallytopsideIronton, Minnesota USA5 Threads 524 Posts
Have you tried a vigorous application of baseball ball about his head and shoulders? And if you're not the violent type, just repeat over and over that "This is hurting me a lot more than it is hurting you!"

very mad

But if I happen to unintentionally cross you, please disregard the above statement.

grin

But in all seriousness, I'm sorry your feelings are hurt.

comfort
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Oct 14, 2007 10:18 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Roguecop
RoguecopRoguecopElko, Nevada USA218 Threads 3,885 Posts
This may be a silly comment?
But maybe no one told him ?


And if he knew, then bad form on his part.
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Oct 14, 2007 10:27 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
I have a lot of trouble making sense of his behavior. It seems to transcend mere rudeness.

I wonder what he would've said if you'd come up to him and asked him WTF?

I was puzzled by your comment: "Why does this keep happening to me?" I hope you don't mean this specific thing, because that would be pretty Twilight-Zoneish.
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Oct 14, 2007 10:28 AM CST I hate dating!!!
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
You should not be crying over something like this.

Frustated and pissed, yes, but not crying.

He is only a local guy you have seen around here and there.
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Oct 14, 2007 10:31 AM CST I hate dating!!!
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
confused i don't understand,,, if he was cheating then why did he go to the same place....or did he?dunno dunno
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Oct 14, 2007 10:38 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Chele1964
Chele1964Chele1964Pittsboro, Indiana USA48 Threads 2,488 Posts
I am so sorry hun...I will never understand why bad things happen to good people and the bad ones seem to have it made. Hang in there and know that the day you find that one "right" love, none of this will matter. hug hug
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Oct 14, 2007 10:38 AM CST I hate dating!!!
HeatherHoney
HeatherHoneyHeatherHoneyMiddlesboro, Kentucky USA13 Threads 1,935 Posts
applause applause
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Oct 14, 2007 10:39 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Atlam
AtlamAtlamSt. Julian's, Majjistral Malta21 Threads 561 Posts
I guess 'meet up' and 'date' aren't exactly the same thing.

doh
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Oct 14, 2007 10:40 AM CST I hate dating!!!
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I went on a date one time to a night club and I sat there for a good hour and shenever showed up.Next day she calls and said something come up.

Smae thing, but I waited three hours. I even called her from the club to be sure she had the directions right. She had my cell number!. AND she didn't call the next day.

And the thing is, she is the one that initiated the date, not me. As, is already known, I will never initiate a contact.

Did I get mad or hurt...Nicht! I just shrugged my shoulders and deleted her from my address book
cheers
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Oct 14, 2007 10:42 AM CST I hate dating!!!
Atlam
AtlamAtlamSt. Julian's, Majjistral Malta21 Threads 561 Posts
That's just plain rude frustrated it's inexcusable unless of course something really serious happened.
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Oct 14, 2007 10:48 AM CST I hate dating!!!
browneyesblue11
browneyesblue11browneyesblue11Littleton, Colorado USA2 Posts
Wow so elegantly put pctech. Your mama did raise a nice boy. thumbs up

As for what happened to you "Ima" I am SOOOOOOOO VERY SORRY. Unfortunately, it seems that so many people (won't generalize here) are so insecure that they don't know how to be honest and upfront with other people. Sad, because feelings get hurt, believe me I have had my feelings hurt a lot lately. Fortunately, I have not had happen to me what happened to you and I no that anything myself or anyone else says right now will sound cliche' but here it goes "you can and will do better than him". Just look at it this way, at least you weren't "more" involved with him before he did something like this, because he would have eventually. Take care GF, be positive, think positive thoughts (I believe in the Laws of Attraction) and that special person will come to you.

Hugs hug

Browneyesblue
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Oct 14, 2007 2:57 PM CST I hate dating!!!
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
I just want to let it be known...this guy is not a member of CS...I appreciate you saying you would have shown me a good time...thank you.

I promise I have not given up on men all together....it will be more difficult for a man to earn my trust. each time something like this happens it gets harder to trust all men.
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Oct 14, 2007 3:01 PM CST I hate dating!!!
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing NO, it is not the exact same thing happening...your right, that would be very twilightzoneish.....

I ment that I just keep meeting these jerks that end up either trying to use me or end up hurting me....
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Oct 14, 2007 4:38 PM CST I hate dating!!!
lostsoulinspace
lostsoulinspacelostsoulinspacechocowinity, North Carolina USA9 Threads 521 Posts
I would have dont it the same way as you, but, i would have liked to, walk up and sit down with them and say" Oh good a 3 sum, how did you know?"devil devil Marge
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Oct 14, 2007 4:57 PM CST I hate dating!!!
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
shock I couldn't do that even if it was just joking with friends....

I may be seen as a prude for it but....I am not the type to even joke about that.....
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Oct 14, 2007 5:00 PM CST I hate dating!!!
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Like the song say"s"Hold you head up WOMAN, hold head up WOMAN,hold you head up WOMAN, hold you head up.
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