what to do now? ( Archived) (83)

Dec 23, 2007 7:25 PM CST what to do now?
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
met this fella on CS, talked for a few months by phone and e-mail...he made plans to come see me this weekend...then did a no show...no call....no nothing....WTF? all the way to the day before he was so sweet and talking like he was excited....then that....again...WTF?
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Dec 23, 2007 7:27 PM CST what to do now?
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Someone has some 'splainin' to do and/or is a complete thoughtless moron.
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Dec 23, 2007 7:27 PM CST what to do now?
sexophone
sexophonesexophoneGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden5 Threads 266 Posts
he's probably a content single ......... laugh
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Dec 23, 2007 7:27 PM CST what to do now?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Maybe something came up and couldnt get the chance to tell you...wait for a couple of days and see if he gets a hold of you..if not you try and get a hold of him...may have been an emergency..i hope things work out ok..
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Dec 23, 2007 7:28 PM CST what to do now?
sexophone
sexophonesexophoneGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden5 Threads 266 Posts
contented
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Dec 23, 2007 7:28 PM CST what to do now?
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
i attempted to call him ONCE left a voice mail asking if everthing was okay....then a few hours later attempted to call and got the vm again...didn't bother to leave a message.....figured if he wanted me to know what happened he'd call me....
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Dec 23, 2007 7:30 PM CST what to do now?
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
then why bother making the plans to visit then?
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Dec 23, 2007 7:31 PM CST what to do now?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Did he hear about your gay pets?
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Dec 23, 2007 7:32 PM CST what to do now?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
agree~~~~`
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Dec 23, 2007 7:32 PM CST what to do now?
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
tongue thanks for the laugh...
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Dec 23, 2007 7:33 PM CST what to do now?
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
some people make plans to jump, but back off when they approach the edge..


it isnt always personal. not very nice for you granted.
dunno
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Dec 23, 2007 7:34 PM CST what to do now?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Why does this seem to happen so often here?

Is it just a game for many people?

dunno
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Dec 23, 2007 7:34 PM CST what to do now?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I agree with Kissme. You have to make sure everything is ok with him before you can make a judgement.

I am sorry this happened to you!!
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Dec 23, 2007 7:35 PM CST what to do now?
I agree there may have been a crisis and he couldn't call yet.If not he must get his kicks from head games,and enjoys hurting people.So sorry for you.Let us know what happened if anything and if he's still coming?We must be so careful with this cyberspace meeting people,but then it can be th same in real life,no show,no call date.
Try to focus on good things you hve right now.hug handshake snowman
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Dec 23, 2007 7:35 PM CST what to do now?
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
it damn rude...not lead someone on...then just blow them off....
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Dec 23, 2007 7:45 PM CST what to do now?
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
someone please enlighten me as to why anyone would do this?
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Dec 23, 2007 7:46 PM CST what to do now?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
hello mbcasey..how are you doing tonight?
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Dec 23, 2007 7:56 PM CST what to do now?
irishdoc157
irishdoc157irishdoc157norwich, Connecticut USA9 Posts
Been on both side of this issue - been stood up and wound up standing someone up (car trouble, cell trouble - too little time to explain) but if I can offer some insight - some people like the chase or build themselves up to what they cannot measure up to. Do not let this Cad's issue cloud yours - keep on that wining smile and try like the rest of us to make magic happen on CS

Doc
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Dec 23, 2007 7:58 PM CST what to do now?
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
thanks all...some comments have been helpful
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Dec 23, 2007 8:16 PM CST what to do now?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
accident?
sorry unlikely

this is the age of technology

you know what i think pet

sadly sometimes people arent completely honest about whatEVER
who knows what it is?
something they feel insecure about at first so they fudge the facts then have to jump out b4 discovered

its been many years but ive done it

be glad it happened now
before you gave a dang about the potential of him
thats a place ive gotten caught up in when a guy
does something thats not okay
ooooh the potential

ugh
forget that-forgive yourself-move on

even if you think he's nice and has a believeable story-
maybe it was a sign?-
just keep swimming-lol

and for the men that read this and think im cold-oh well
its mature to have a bit of self care, protection and boundary
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